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writes:how can i stop being jealous over the dumbest reasons, like when my bf just talks to a girl?
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reader, Lolx  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 The jealously gets the better of you and destroys everything. I have been with my bf for two years and am very jealous and ruins a part of my relationship everytime something provotes it. Learn to defeat the jealous thoughts for your relationship to continue healthy and strong.
Lol.x.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 There are so many girls out there.
How can you possibly control him ?
If he wants to stray , he will stray
and you cannot be there watching him 24/7.
Better to resign to this fact and not be jealous.
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Hmmm your question is extremely brief but I will try and answer as best I can.
The main reason for jealousy is your own insecurities or something has given you cause to feel jealous.
Has either of these things been an issue for you?
If you have had cause to be jealous before because your bf has either cheated on you or provoked a jealous reaction from you then there can be just cause. However, if you feel that you are so lucky to have this boyfriend and you don't feel good about yourself i.e. your appearance or your self confidence in some way then these are issues you need to address yourself and not transfer onto your bf.
I used to be extremely jealous with my ex in the early days of our relationship but I did have cause so it became a vicious circle.
You can drive someone away if you are constantly on at them about other girls or boys as the case may be - either sex.
You need to look at why you feel jealous and what is your biggest fears, how long have you been with your bf and is there something that is really driving this jealousy?
Wait to hear from you.
BFN
Country Woman
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