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writes:This summer i have been dumped three times. Am i just a horrible, ugly, stupid waste of space?I hate everything. Can someone help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): Instead of the glass being half empty how about seeing it as half full.You have had 2 partners this summer. That must mean your something special.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): What you have got to remember is that not only did you get dumped 3 times you went out with 3 people. If you were horrible and ugly no one would be interested in you and from what you've said that doesn't look the case.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (26 August 2007):
Everyone so far is right. If you were horrible and ugly, you wouldn't have had the chance to get dumped. You and probably the people you dated need time to get comfortable with someone else.
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 16, so I'd say that you're probably gorgeous and amazing. But that means you should guard yourself doubly- you are worth fighting for, and you're allowed to be picky about who you date. If that means a little loneliness, it's worth it in the end. You save yourself heartache, and holding out for someone you really want to be with? Priceless. :)
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Hi
The fact you have had a try at relationships by your age is proof enough you are not horrible or ugly!
You just haven't met mr right yet. Its normal when things dont work out to blame yourself. Its also normal to blame the other person. Neither of those will be of benefit to you. Accept you weren't compatible with these people and like Kenny said, dust yourself off and go out there and have fun! Everything happens for a reason and if you had stuck with these guys that weren't right, you wont meet that guy of your dreams! Trust me.
Feel better about yourself and you will attract some cracking guys! ;o)
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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reader, kenny +, writes (26 August 2007):
 No you are not horrible, you are not ugly, and you are not a waste of space, so stop telling yourself things like this.
It not easy being dumped, not for anyone, but pick yourself up, dust yourself down and move on. These guys were probably not right for you anyway, and the likellhood is you are better off without them anyway.
You are only young, get back out there, enjoy your young life and don't spend your time dwelling on these negative points about yourself. Instead focus on the positives tell yourself that these guys were losers and they are the ones who lost out, not you.
Sooner or later you will meet someone else who is just right for you, probably when you least expect it.
All the best x
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (26 August 2007):
 You're not horrible or ugly, you're young and inexperienced. Give more information and I'm sure someone can help you understand each of the breakups.
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