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writes:Hi i'm 20 and i've recently got engaged to my long term girlfriend a few weeks ago, i also look after my 9 week old step daughter from my girlfriends ex who i also love very much. I thought everything was going great until recently i have started developing feelings for a girl at work. Ive worked there for 8 months now and in that time we have just been friends and ive never thought like that about her until recently and im quite sure she likes me too. i'm just confused over why im suddenly having feelings for someone whos a good friend at work, i dont think its reservation over the engagement because when im with my girlfriend i couldnt be happier but when i get to work all i can think of is her. What should i do im so confused as to why im feeling like this and what should i do about it, any ideas? thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): You know what I think its alright and I think it is possible to love your girlfriend wholeheartedly but still fancy someone else I think your just curious I mean think about it your in love with your girl she loves you and your getting married,
where as this girl at work is exiting and slightly unavailable and chances are she’s very relaxed in your company and things are very casual between you “no wedding plans” as much as you love your fiancée she’s not available and you don’t have to chase her do you? She’s all yours,
so I think you just after the chase maybe it would add a little spark if you and your fiancée went on a weekend away together chances are when you got back you’d realize it was all just infatuation with this girl at work and that True love is not worth risking, and it will give you a chance to really think about what you want,
good luck,
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (27 August 2007):
 Hi
Blimey thats a tricky one. Umm you say you're definately not getting a bit panicky about making that commitment to your girl? Feeling its all going a little too quick?
Maybe something is missing with the girl you are with now?
I really dont know.
Maybe you deep down, need to live a little bit more yet?
Hope it comes clear to you soon. Must be frustrating!
C xxxxx
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