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writes:I use hard things to masturbate like mobile...i use hard ones to reach orgasm that i can' t reach with fingering.May this damage my virginity? may these hard things have a bad effect on my vagina? can they lead to an infection ?
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Well, are you talking about 'technical' or 'traditional' virginity? Because TECHNICALLY, you're still a virgin if the hymen is still intact. The hymen is that little skin inside your vagina - it varies in most girls, but you can usually feel it if you reach in- it's a stretching feeling. Some girls- usually athletes, equestrian riders, etc., break their hymen or stretch it due to all the exercise they do. That's fine too.As for what I mean by traditional virginity, I guess I mean that back in the day, virgins didn't penetrate at ALL until... well... they did. And when they did, they were not virgins anymore. People assume that penetration with a penis is the only way to lose your virginity, but that's not true at all.Some people also consider oral sex to be a form of "losing one's virginity".It all depends on how you look at it. I considered myself a virgin until I 'had been with a man'. But then, I never practiced penetrative masturbation (it was an uncomfortable thought).Hope this helps!
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reader, duce00  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Id take hlskitten's advice. Youre just asking for an infection, or even worse. A serious infection can cause alot of problems with the female anatomy. Ive seen it cause big problems, you really dont want that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): I've used all kinds of crazy things to masturbate. I used shampoo bottles, vacuum extensions, glass fruit, summer sausage, shower heads, bedposts, broom handles, and once even used a lava lamp! The key is to WASH WASH WASH them all before you use them. I know a gal that put an unwashed item that had been spray painted before inside her and got the worst infection she'd ever had in her life. She couldn't work for 2 days.Of course, I'm not a virgin so I don't need to worry about damaging my virginity. If you're putting items inside your vagina then your hymen is probably already broken (aka popping the cherry). Some people say that a broken hymen means no longer a virgin, but the majority of people agree that if a woman hasn't had sex with a man then she is a virgin and I believe that too.If you can't afford sex toys then go ahead and be creative with what you can use. I suggest you find a man, though, and put a proper "hard item" inside you. Why are you a nearly 30 year old virgin? Go do it!!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Hi
I would avoid using things like that, there is no need. You can buy plenty of sex toys off the internet.
If the things you are using aren't clean then yes you can get infections & i expect it can be likely you could harm yourself, so i would go buy some proper toys.
C xxxx
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