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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi every one. my problem is that i practice the secret habit(sexual habit)since i was so young till now; i want help to get rid of it i'm so accustomed to it that whenever i decide to stop i find myself doing and after i do it i hate myself so much and i feel disgustin especially i'm engaged and my fiance trusts me for both of us agree to still vigin till we get mariied. plz any help to stop it and be ready to a marriage.Thank for your replying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): Sweetheart I don’t know what your religion says and I don’t wish to cause any disrespect but you have done absolutely nothing bad you are a human being with curiosity’s and a desire to have your sexual needs met I see nothing bad or wrong in that if you do it privately and it doesn’t become an obsession you should not feel any guilt fear or worry about it,
You are still a virgin, unless you have had intercourse and you will continue to be until marriage if you so with take the guilt and shame off now,
Take care
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Hi
You're saying you feel disgusting because you masturbate?
You shouldnt do. Unless it is getting in the way of your normal relationships that is.
Even when you are married you might still want to and thats fine.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): What exactly is it that you do? Do you mean masturbate?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): I don't know how to tell you to stop a natural urge like that. It'd kind of be like telling you to suppress your appetite. Or something similar. I just would feel wrong to give you advice like that or to encourage you to believe that you are doing something wrong because I don't believe you are. But if you only want to cut back for ritualistic reasons you may have (abstinence right before marriage or whatever) that's cool. Maybe you could just try to keep yourself real busy. Or try to always be around people so that you have no alone time to sneak off and masturbate.
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