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writes:So me and my boyfriend broke up like a month and a half ago. we dated for a little over 6 months. I just cant seem to get him out of my mind. i started talking to one guy and he was really nice but everytime we were together i just couldnt get *Andrew* out of my head. I dont know what to do anymore i feel like i am going crazy. What should i do?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 Hi
Too soon, way too soon. Regardless of who did the finishing, you need to go through a grieving process. Sounds crazy yes, but that is exactly what it is.
You need time to find yourself as a single person again. Even if you didnt live with someone. You need to adjust, get past all the anger, if there is any, and realise what went wrong in the relationship, before you can even think of starting another one with someone else. Or you go right on and go round in the same circles.
Its normal to not feel right with someone new. We have all tried it, and quite often fail. Only once did i not have hassle with a guy that was so soon out a relationship. And that was just lucky!
Ive also been with a guy that said he was over his woman 2 years before he actually left her, but it was still a nightmare and he admits now, he should of sorted himself out more first.
Flirt with guys when you go out, get out with your mates.
But dont worry about getting into anything with anyone in particular. That can take months, sometimes more before people are ready. Whats the rush ey? What you're experiencing now is perfectly normal. And will pass in time.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (27 August 2007):
 To be honest a month is a relatively short space of time, especially if the relationship was long-term and meant alot to you. You are not going crazy and thinking you are is what is gonna drive you crazy. Getting over an ex can take along time and you need to give yourself and your heart time to heal and dont expect it all to happen at once. Hope that helps. Good luck. :)
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