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writes:Hi everyone, I need helo, I was out at the weekend got pretty drunk and saw my ex talking to another girl (we have been kindof seeing each other again lately) he wasn't kissing her or anything just talking, anyway with the bboze i got upset and started crying , I left then but i feel so stupid now, don't know how i can face anyone again. any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok, thanks so much, makes me feel a lot better, i just hope he didnt see me because i don't want him to think that i care that much. it turns out he was just talking to her, he went home early because he was drunk too. i'm gonna be careful with alcohol from now on, it's not worth it.
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (26 August 2007):
 god, the i cant believe i did that when i was drunk thing. its the worst feeling in the world! but i promise, its a million times worse to you than it actually is. nobody else noticed it, and if they did notice they didnt care. they probably had their own crying drunk mate / throwing up in the toilet mate / i wuvv you shhhoooo muchhhhh mate / sleazy lechy drunk random bloke to be thinking about.when people go out they are focusing on themselves and what kind of night they are having, they really dont notice what kind of night other people are having. i mean im sure you have been in a club before where you have seen a girl cry (alcohol+female hormones = waterworks) and how often do you spend days or weeks thinking about it afterwards?and if it is any consulation, i can guarantee you that 99% of the women in that club would react EXACTLY the same way seeing their recent ex who they thought they were getting back with speaking to someone else. its normal and absolutely everyone feels it.all the best xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (26 August 2007):
 I doubt they will even remember! My mates ex walked in the pub we were in friday night and she let rip at him, i was stood right next to her when she was shouting him down, he ended up going home in tears and leaving his current beau in the pub, and you know what? i dont even remember what she said to him! Too much booze! My mate was in tears too after and a few of us comforted her, but i really dont remember much about it, and i bet the people in your pub wont either.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah to be honest i dont think i really care anymore about getting back together it seems like so much hassle now its just the fact that i cried in the club..do people really pay attention when they are out. im so paranoid about what other people will think.god i feel so depressed about it. Advice? will people think badly of me??
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (26 August 2007):
Hi again,
Its possible he didnt see it like that? And thought maybe you were just having casual sex?
Before you go any further with him, i would talk to him. He might of only been talking to the girl and because you took off, you wont have found that out.
Maybe he is quite enjoying some freedom now? Not a lot you can do about that, but you have a right to know if you are getting back together or not. If only for closures sake.
Good luck.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiononly been split a short time i thought we were getting back together. i cant believe i made such a fool of myself...im so worried about what other people will think.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (26 August 2007):
Hi
How long have you been split from your ex then? Its quite normal to get pangs of jealousy if you see your ex chatting to someone else. We are all human! Its part of the 'grieving' process. Dont be so hard on yourself.
Oh and if i was you, i wouldnt be sleeping with him, if you still have feelings for your ex, which it sounds like you do, its a bad move and basically stops you from moving on from this relationship. Delays the recovery process.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): I doubt if anyone even noticed,and if they did,you can always blame the booze,chin up.
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