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*ammi1987
writes:I have a bit of a confidence problem, i have a new partner who is lovely and makes me feel special but when it comes to sex i feel i let him down. ive been sexually active for four years but i still cant go on top and take control as im embarrased that i might do something wrong. so my question is how can i get over this fear and when you are on top, do you go up and down or back and fourth? please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): Trust me, im sure if this man truly cares for you there is no way you can do any "wrong" in his eyes. In my opinion girl on top is one of those "what makes you feel good" kind of positions, where the method you choose will come naturally. I also was hesitant to try this position simply because i was too shy to bare myself in that kind of mannor. But now its my absolute fav, give it a go sweetheart!
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reader, duce00  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Do what ever feels good. My experience is women prefer to go back and forth or a grinding motion. Its about rubbing the clit and outer labia. I think rythym is important too. Its really nice to go slow so take your time, you can get into the more gymnastic stuff later.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (28 August 2007):
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Try not to worry, just climb on top and lift up and down (helps if you're longer legged) then try back and forth. There really arent any hard and fast rules! Pardon the pun!Have fun.
C xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): ask him to put his hands on your hips and guide you at the pace he'd prefer
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