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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:okay, well the guy i like is now 16 (im 14) and we've been really close for ages. he always used to flirt with me alot, but i just assumed he was just being a good friend and messing about. But about a year ago i realised i liked him as something more, and really and truely became madly in love with him. I never told him though as i really didnt want to wreck our friendship as we were so close, and didnt think anything would happen esp cause of our age gap. however a year on now, we're not very close anymore and he has a girlfriend, it depressed me to think i've lost an amazing friendship, i miss him so much and am very jelous of his gf. The other day though he started talking to me on msn, and i wasnt too happy anyway, so just ended up telling him my feelings towards him etc. He then confessed to likeing me and said how he still always thought about me an missed me lots. i wasnt to sure what to think as he has a gf atm. he said he has just been trying to move on a knew nothing would happen between us, soo hes found other people he liked, not as much as me but still.He then said maybe we could still meet up and he would see how it goes with his girlfriend, but he despratly wants to go out with me, although his gf is amazing he is still madly in love with me.help im soo confussed,i dont know what to do. i love him to peices, but i dont want to mess up his relationship with his gf, or be the reason they break up, but i am still despratly in love with him. i feel so stupid now for not taking the chances before and dont want to mess it up even more nowplease help ! xx
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reader, duce00  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 Ohhh you are just killing me today hlskitten!!
As for you: Miss, anonymous 13-15 yr old female. Listen to hlskitten (and put her in your friends list if you havnt allready). She is so right.
I can only add that you shouldnt have very high expectations on this lad growing a pair of brassies any time soon. The boys you know wont start becoming men for some time my dear. That doesnt mean you should stoop down to theyre level in the mean time either.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (27 August 2007):
 Hi there,
Im going to hazard a guess here, but what if he's now hitting on you because you confessed you liked him a lot and he wants to now take advantage of that fact?
The best thing you can do for YOURSELF, is tell the guy to go buy some balls and end it with his current girl if he really doesnt like her, then you MIGHT think about dating him for real.
But until then you're not interested?
Just an idea, but at least that way you will know if he really really does like you, and not just for casual fun.
Hope it works out.
C xxxx
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