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37yr old mum of 2 living in the Uk. Happily single. Too busy to date at the moment but tend to go out & socialise in the neighbourhood pub a stones throw from my house every saturday night.

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Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

Q.   Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

A.   20 August 2009: Only just got back on here after a few months away, whats happened since?... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

Q.   Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

A.   12 March 2008: Because he's a manipulative jerk that knows you better than you know him, and has just been binned off by the new squeeze that sussed him out quick smart :o( Didn't wanna be friends up til now huh. Blimey that was a long scroll down to post! C ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

Q.   Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

A.   6 March 2008: And you dont know me or my brothers situation, yet you judge that we should be getting him help. Hahaha! You think we havent? You answered the help statement on your own, if they dont want help, they wont take help. Sorry if you saw it as insu... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

Q.   Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

A.   3 March 2008: You're addicted to drama. I would go see the doc and see about some counselling, to find out why. I dont think anything will change until you figure out why you need all this melodrama in your life. Its very self destructive. And could be very ... (read in full...)

Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?

Q.   My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the ...

A.   24 February 2008: Then if thats the case, its gonna be a nightmare for you, until she seeks counselling to figure out whats going on in her head. You're better off out of it til that happens. C xxxx... (read in full...)

Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?

Q.   My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the ...

A.   24 February 2008: Well thats not a bad idea. But dont go down the blame route. We would all like to put the blame on the other if we get finished with, but it takes two sometimes and if she is the type that doesnt like to hurt someone, she might not even of said all ... (read in full...)

Why am I always dreaming of my ex?

Q.   Hi,Dear Cupid! I have a question, Why I always dream of my ex-boyfriend? It's been a 5 months since we broke up and slowly move on... I dream that when we're walking down the road he doesn't know me and never recognizes me and another dream the ...

A.   24 February 2008: It will get better, honest. Just doesnt seem it right now. You might have to kiss a few frogs yet that arent as good as your ex, but in time there will be one thats better! Guarantee it. Good luck. C xxxx... (read in full...)

Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?

Q.   My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the ...

A.   24 February 2008: Its definately better being honest Danielpew. Its a horrible thing to have to do though, tell someone you dont wanna be with them anymore. It sucks doesnt it. But you're right, its gotta be done no doubt about that. Just wish there was an easi... (read in full...)

Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?

Q.   My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the ...

A.   23 February 2008: Simply just because Danielpew. Im as upfront an honest as the day is long, but, when i fifnished with someone, they were a bit more manipulative than me, and always tried their best to talk me round. In the end we split, but i agreed to stay frie... (read in full...)

Embarassing to date a fat person?

Q.   is it embarassing to date a fat guy? what do you think when you see a fat couple? give me your own honest opinion pls....

A.   23 February 2008: Hi Buck the trend and ignore what other people 'say'! Who gives a shiney? Possibly when you get a bit older, you will worry less what people think. C xxxxx... (read in full...)

Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?

Q.   My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the ...

A.   23 February 2008: Hi 9 times out of 10, she would be saying she wants to break up for good. But doesnt want to come out n say that. Its the softly softly approach. Very common. You said you cant stand to lose her, shes picked up on this big time, and like i say, is ... (read in full...)

If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin?

Q.   I've got one curious question to ask you. If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin? Please tell me, I asked my mum, she said ask your dad so I did but he said ask your mum etc etc. I can never get anywere with my famil...

A.   23 February 2008: Hi Thats a shame, but i guess this site is good for anything like that you need to ask. Although it doesnt take the place of a good adult you can confide in. C xxxxx... (read in full...)

Why am I always dreaming of my ex?

Q.   Hi,Dear Cupid! I have a question, Why I always dream of my ex-boyfriend? It's been a 5 months since we broke up and slowly move on... I dream that when we're walking down the road he doesn't know me and never recognizes me and another dream the ...

A.   23 February 2008: Hi I think dreams generally tend to be wat we think of just before we go to sleep, but sometimes i think dreams will try and tell us something. Usually what we already know, but just dont realise. When i split from someone 4 yrs ago, i did love him... (read in full...)

I'm finding it hard to adjust to being single. I miss relationships! How can I relax a little?

Q.   Hiiii Bit of a problem. I've been single for like a year and 2 months. Problem is that after all that time, I'm still not truly used to being single. I miss having a relationship very much, and everything that goes with it! EVERYTHING! (You...

A.   23 February 2008: Hi I agree with waterloo sunset. I was in a relationship from age 15 to 29 basically. Once i became single after that, it was great! Think about it, we spend the first...atleast 12/13 yrs single, we survived fine! why do people get so hung up on b... (read in full...)

How long to get my results back?

Q.   I recently went to the doctor because it was hurting when I went to the toilet. The doctor gave me some antibiotics and I gave a urine sample. Does anyone know how long it takes to get my results back??? Also I have had a bit of back pain and stom...

A.   23 February 2008: Hi Could be a kidney infection. Have you had a temperature too? Although could be something like Cystitis. I get it loads. Its a pain! Pardon the pun. I expect the results take about a week. I doubt they will contact you, unless you contact them... (read in full...)

Dating a guy who is a father of a 1 month old. Should I break up with him?

Q.   im in 13 and in high school and im dating this guy hes 18,but he has a 1 month old baby.people tell me to break up with him....i dont know what to do...

A.   23 February 2008: Hi Havent got much to go on have we, but he doesnt sound like a great guy for a 13 yr old in my opinion! I bet your rents are worried sick sweetheart. C xxxxx... (read in full...)

Embarassing to date a fat person?

Q.   is it embarassing to date a fat guy? what do you think when you see a fat couple? give me your own honest opinion pls....

A.   23 February 2008: Hi What do i THINK when i see a fat couple? I think if i thought anything when i see a fat couple i would assume that i think too much to be honest! What a daft question! What are you expecting people to think, why arent these overweight p... (read in full...)

When would my conceive date have been?

Q.   My due date is February 25, 2008. When would that make my conceived date?...

A.   23 February 2008: Hi About 20/21st may. C xxxxxx... (read in full...)

I do not intend to go back, but was I a good judge of this relationship or have cut it hastily?

Q.   I need to know when is the right time to walk away from a relationship. Could it be my decisions are hasty. Today I ended things with my boyfriend of 9 months. We are so happy and fine when we are not fighting but we are very bad fighters, which has ...

A.   23 February 2008: Hi Geez you two sound like me and my ex. We used to have awful rows, not physical, but verbal. We said some horrendous things to each other, and like you say, its draining! I ended it, and it took me a good 2 weeks to feel back to normal phys... (read in full...)

Should I forgive him?

Q.   Ok so I have known this guy for about 5 months. We started out as good friends but began dating and dated for about 2 of those months. We had a long distance relationship with the agreement not to date anyone else out of respect, and b/c we didn't ...

A.   23 February 2008: Blimey he's not even trying to hide it! Someone that cant stand being alone, is bad partner material. Basically, he's in relationships for the wrong reason. It also says a lot about this other womans intelligance, if she is happy to be waiting in t... (read in full...)

She wants to hang out with her ex, what should I do?

Q.   I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 and a half months and my girl just out of a 3 year relationship and she still wants to hang out with her ex boyfriend every now and then but she tells me she doesnt have feelings for him anymore or anything , ...

A.   22 February 2008: Hi Hang out with you and him? Because anything else would come across as a bit weird to me. If she wants to hang out with him that much, why did they split in the first place? If she doesnt want to involve you in this 'friendship' then its dod... (read in full...)

He said he wanted to be friends but then he told me to leave him alone!?!

Q.   Hi! My ex bf insisted on being friends. I agreed but when I called last night he was rather mean and told me to let him live peacefully. I wasn't angry, not sad. Disappointed in myself for letting him treat me this way again. Where does he get off ...

A.   22 February 2008: Hi Sounds like maybe he was easing his concience by suggesting staying mates, but doesnt really want that? If you are trying to txt him and call like you did when you were together, its not really moving on. Its rare you can be mates with someone... (read in full...)

I would love a FFM 3-some with my boyfriend, he says he will but I don't think he's keen.

Q.   I am a 19 year old female with a 21 year old boyfriend. We are in a very solid relationship and talk openly about sex. We have been talking and I brought up one of my fantasies of having a FFM threesome. I am all for it, I just feel the he isn't. ...

A.   22 February 2008: Lol was gonna say Uncle Phil, i didnt say that! BUT i will do now as it happens hehe. threesomes = 99% of the time..baaaaaaaaaaad mistake. C xxxxxx... (read in full...)

Why did he stay in touch with his ex when she caused us so many problems?

Q.   This has been bothering me for quite some time and I need some help with what to do. Back at the end of July I found out my boyfriend was talking to his ex over his cell phone, and basically hiding this from me. He ended talking to her on h...

A.   22 February 2008: Hi Cupcake. I can relate to this, and its a big bug bear for me, because similar happened to me. I dont know why they have to lie, and keep things from you where exes are concerned. His ex too caused a lot of problems, we had txt a couple of time... (read in full...)

This relationship puts a great financial strain on me. Should I continue being with her?

Q.   My girl friend does not make her exhusband pay child support for his 2 kids (because he is a whiny baby) he does nothing for his kids only on christmas. When they come to his house for the weekend, he does not have food for them most of the time. ...

A.   22 February 2008: I can sympathise with her to a certain extent. My kids dad (we split 7 yrs ago) DOES pay his weekly maintainence, a very small amount, but thats it. Any school trips, school uniforms, shoes etc etc etc, i pay for, because he doesnt stop going on ... (read in full...)

Should I forgive him?

Q.   Ok so I have known this guy for about 5 months. We started out as good friends but began dating and dated for about 2 of those months. We had a long distance relationship with the agreement not to date anyone else out of respect, and b/c we didn't ...

A.   22 February 2008: I agree. No smoke without fire in this situation by the looks of it. Some people hate being single and will always like to have someone on the back burner 'just in case' Drives me nuts thats does, its weakness. grrrrrrrrrr C xxxxx... (read in full...)

She's smoking while she's pregnant and I'm worried. What should I do?

Q.   we are expecting our second child. My wifes been smoking for 6 years now and she won't give up i keep telling her dont you realise your harming the baby. she says im going to quit but the moment my backs turned or if i go to work and come home the ...

A.   22 February 2008: Hi I agree with Dr Pete, you should BOTH be stopping smoking. Plenty of mothers smoked and had healthy babies, but its a well known fact the risks are increased with smoking, of prem babies, small babies, more risk of cot death, all sorts of lon... (read in full...)

I don't know if he's being truthful and find it hard to trust him now...

Q.   Last May 2007 I found 3 text messages on my husband's phone flirting with a woman, when I asked him he said it was just banter with a work colleague. He told me she worked in one of his nearest depots and only saw her ever few months and I believed ...

A.   22 February 2008: Hi Sounds like he got a bit of a wobble on back then and wanted a bit of excitement. Possibly nothing else did happen. He left the job and has been fine since? I guess all you can do at the moment is make sure all is good in your marriage, and co... (read in full...)

My partner tried to choke me and I'm wondering if I should give him another chance... he says he'll never do it again.

Q.   My partner tried to choke me on one occasion and I am wondering if I should give him another chance. He says he loves me more than anything but he panicked and he's so sorry and says he will never hurt me again. He wants to get married - we were ...

A.   22 February 2008: Hi What should you do? Steer clear of him, thats what i would do. Scary! I wouldn't give a guy a second chance where anything violent is concerned. Its too risky. C xxxxx... (read in full...)

If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin?

Q.   I've got one curious question to ask you. If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin? Please tell me, I asked my mum, she said ask your dad so I did but he said ask your mum etc etc. I can never get anywere with my famil...

A.   22 February 2008: Hi No you wouldn't be a virgin if you used a condom. Thats a shame, your ma n pa should be able to speak to you if you are asking questions. In an ideal world anyway. C xxxxx... (read in full...)

I never seem to find anyone that meets or is even close enough to what am looking for in a guy.

Q.   Hi, I never seem to find anyone that meets or is even close enough to what am looking for in a guy. My present boyfriend is unemployed and I feel he isn't making any attempt to get out of his present situation. My ex was opposite, hard w...

A.   22 February 2008: Hi Im with you on this, know exactly where you're coming from. And i too, have wondered if i'm asking for the holy grail! But i wouldnt want to be with someone that doesnt work, ive been there, done that in the past. Got out of it. Ive always b... (read in full...)

He's told me he doesn't want to be more than friends but we still "do stuff"!!!

Q.   Hello, I am 19 and at college. Over the last 2 years I have grown really close to one of my guy friends and for the last year I have been really attracted to him. For much of this year he flirted with me and even though I knew he liked another gi...

A.   22 February 2008: Hi Britgirl Well basically, he is using you, and you are letting him. Somehow you need to realise you are worth more than what hes offering. Hes basically saying you are good enough for a fumble but nothing more, sounds blunt, but thats pretty m... (read in full...)

This relationship puts a great financial strain on me. Should I continue being with her?

Q.   My girl friend does not make her exhusband pay child support for his 2 kids (because he is a whiny baby) he does nothing for his kids only on christmas. When they come to his house for the weekend, he does not have food for them most of the time. ...

A.   22 February 2008: If you hadnt had a baby with this woman i would of walked away personally. I think it asks a lot to take on someone elses kids, especially if they dont contribute in any way. I wouldn't have a guy move in here with me and my 2 kids and expect them... (read in full...)

I'm 54 and need to know...how do women really feel about a guy with a beer belly?

Q.   How do women feel about men with a medium size so called beer belly? Hard to get rid of and be a stud at 54? Does it really matter that much?...

A.   22 February 2008: Make it a voddy n coke or wkd blue (theres a drink high in calories!) n you're on :oD C xxxxx... (read in full...)

I'm 54 and need to know...how do women really feel about a guy with a beer belly?

Q.   How do women feel about men with a medium size so called beer belly? Hard to get rid of and be a stud at 54? Does it really matter that much?...

A.   21 February 2008: Hi I dont go for washboard stomachs. I like a smallish hairy beer belly to be honest! Nothing resembling a pregnant woman, but something to stroke is good cheers! If a guy drinks too much beer though, thats a no no :o( But chubby = good. C xxx... (read in full...)

Am I too dependent on him?

Q.   Hi, im 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We have been together for 8months now. And we love each other since the day we met. Our feelings increase with each passing day. But recently we have been only seeing each other once a week because we both want our...

A.   21 February 2008: Hi Sounds like you have some barriers up and are a tad worried about wanting to see him more and letting him know that. Although space isnt a bad thing. Always good to have other interests apart from each other. Sometimes we need to let those wa... (read in full...)

How can I make my guy see that it is time for us to break up and move on?

Q.   Hi I've just ended my relationship after almost 5 years. We split up early last year and somehow got back together around August time. We didn't live together or anything. During that time apart though my feelings changed and after getting ba...

A.   21 February 2008: Just change your number, its free if you are getting hassled. Make sure you mention that when you ring the phone company otherwise they will try to charge you. The trouble is at the moment he will be nice, try to wear you down, and the more you stan... (read in full...)

I've been sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend, thing is... he doesn't know I'm her mother!

Q.   I'm having a morale dilemma. I'm single mum of one (38) with a 20 year old daughter. I work with a really cute guy whose 25 and made a pass at me on a works night out. I felt flattered but turned him down as I am his boss. A few weeks on,...

A.   20 February 2008: Hi Why are you in competiton with your own daughter? Ive got an aunt, whom i love to bits, but shes never had any problem cheating on her long term husband and used to always flirt with her daughters blokes. You will always be 18 yrs older than y... (read in full...)

She says it wasn't cheating because they weren't formally back together. Is she right??

Q.   Is this considered cheating? My friend and his girlfriend were going through a tough time, and decided to take a break...the break literally lasted a day and they were back hugging and kissing and everything...then one late night, she looks at him a...

A.   20 February 2008: I wouldnt be interested anymore in someone who claimed to love me, but within a day, jumped in the sack with someone else. Break or definate split thinking you wouldnt get back together. Thats not love in my book. Thats getting over someone ... (read in full...)

Is it better to get experienced and then settle down? Do I sacrifice my relationship in order to acquire that "experience"?

Q.   Is it possible to have been in one relationship with one person and just stay with that person? Or is it better to get'experienced' and then settle down? I am a lil confused, I have been with my gf for 1year and 2months, shes my first gf an...

A.   19 February 2008: Hi This is so sweet. Well, talking from experience, i'm 37 now. I met someone at 15, settled with him, lost my virginity with him, married him at 18. Split at 20. Got with someone else and had 2 kids with him, stayed with him for 9 yrs. He was my s... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wont go down on me

Q.   My girlfriend and i have been going out for about 7 months. She has always said that she thinks sucking dick is disgusting. However she said that she has done it in the past to other guys. It is really starting to bother me everytime we talk about ...

A.   19 February 2008: You're taking it too personal. She doesnt want to. Thats her perogative. End of. Get used to it, or move on. Balls in your court ultimately hun. Depends how much it means to you! C xxxxxx... (read in full...)

How can I make my guy see that it is time for us to break up and move on?

Q.   Hi I've just ended my relationship after almost 5 years. We split up early last year and somehow got back together around August time. We didn't live together or anything. During that time apart though my feelings changed and after getting ba...

A.   19 February 2008: And i forgot to add, i dont think there is any way to convince him its not going to work. Sometimes people wont accept that, and will hurl insults at you in the end when they cant get what they want, and it doesnt matter what you say, they will ... (read in full...)

How can I make my guy see that it is time for us to break up and move on?

Q.   Hi I've just ended my relationship after almost 5 years. We split up early last year and somehow got back together around August time. We didn't live together or anything. During that time apart though my feelings changed and after getting ba...

A.   19 February 2008: Hi Been there done that bought the t shirt! Pretty much the same time scale too. Whats happening here, if i am reading it the same as my situation, is, you split from him, knowing its not gonna work, he worms his way into staying mates, then ... (read in full...)

Two weeks ago he came out and told me that he had sex with another girl in September and he swears that after that nothing happened.

Q.   I have this boyfriend that I have been with for 7 months and we love each other so much, but about two weeks ago he came out and told me that he had sex with another girl in September and he swears that after that nothing happened, he had been ...

A.   19 February 2008: Hi Depends if you can forgive him? You wont forget it, but if you can move on from it and not keep bringing it up all the time, and you love each other and believe he wont do it again, then you're right to stay with him. If not then, it wont work... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't think of me when he masturbates, is this a problem?

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't think of me when he masturbates, is this a problem? He says men don't masturbate about the woman they love??...

A.   19 February 2008: He sounds very honest to me. I dont think its something you should be offended about either way. Im sure most guys dont think about their partner, not after a length of time together anyway. Its just most dont let it be known! Dont worry, it doesn... (read in full...)

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Q.   Dear Cupid I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him dearly. He stays in my house every night except for every other weekend when he stays in his own house while his two step children from a previous relationship visit. He has t...

A.   19 February 2008: I can relate to that too. My recent ex always had 'hassle' going on. Maybe i have had an easy life, but it was so stressful. His ex at first, hassle from her, not his fault he stated, then money, him borrowing from me, a few thousand, then him bein... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

Q.   Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

A.   19 February 2008: Hey thats great! 40 a day and even after all this crap going on, you still didnt start again???!!!! Now THATS something good! And as for the manipulation, i know what you mean. I cant remember if i mentioned it in this thread, i wont check, but my r... (read in full...)

He had to go over and talk to his ex about a matter. Should I be worried?

Q.   I've recently met this guy and he's just split with the mother of his 3 year old daughter, so I know his daughter is the most important thing but last nite after seeing he daughter, he come out with my mate and her guy, halfway through the nite she ...

A.   18 February 2008: Hi Its too soon after they have split by the sound of it, not to worry. She sounds like shes not over him and calling him round there late at night isnt good for you. I wouldnt be happy about it, and yes, i would be worried. It would be awful i... (read in full...)

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Q.   Dear Cupid I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him dearly. He stays in my house every night except for every other weekend when he stays in his own house while his two step children from a previous relationship visit. He has t...

A.   18 February 2008: He sounds nice in the way that he still wants contact with them even if they are not his. I would of liked my ex to do that, even though my arent his, literally because my daughter adored his daughter and they got on so well. They are the same age. ... (read in full...)

I can't stand him looking at other girls! What do I do?

Q.   I am married to a gorgeous guy much younger than me and we are basically very happy. I just need helpwith one thing...... he really stares at other women. I've talked to him about it and he reassures me how muchhe loves me and says he finds it ...

A.   18 February 2008: I think you acted good towards the woman. Always the best way to be. Women rile me a bit if they are obviously gawping at a guy im with, i kind of take it as a bit of an insult, but you're definately better off just smiling at her. Shows her you'... (read in full...)

Attempting anal for the first time... Should I use gloves?

Q.   Heya how you doing. I think the site is wonderful and i'm sure you can help me with my problem, ok here it goes, I'm 22 year old dmale and i want to try out my fantasy of anal sex with my gf, didn't think she would agree to it but she did and we are ...

A.   18 February 2008: Lube and plenty of it my friend! Nothing will 'get her used' to being shot up the tail pipe! But it will probably be less painful/uncomfortable if she sits on top of you and does it, and is in control. Good luck. C xxxxx... (read in full...)

I can't stand him looking at other girls! What do I do?

Q.   I am married to a gorgeous guy much younger than me and we are basically very happy. I just need helpwith one thing...... he really stares at other women. I've talked to him about it and he reassures me how muchhe loves me and says he finds it ...

A.   18 February 2008: Hi Its a well known fact that guys are more visual than women, and women even look at other guys, its not so terrible, so i think unless you pop blinkers on him, then you are onto a loser there. But IF he is over doing it, making it way too obvious ... (read in full...)

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Q.   Dear Cupid I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him dearly. He stays in my house every night except for every other weekend when he stays in his own house while his two step children from a previous relationship visit. He has t...

A.   18 February 2008: How can you have anything long term then if you dont have anything to do with his kids. I would find that insulting. I wouldnt find him not wanting to marry an insult, but then i was with someone for 9 yrs and we both didnt want to get married but ... (read in full...)

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Q.   Dear Cupid I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him dearly. He stays in my house every night except for every other weekend when he stays in his own house while his two step children from a previous relationship visit. He has t...

A.   17 February 2008: Doesnt sound like a lot in it for you. How come he doesnt bring his children to yours then? Couldnt it of been nice if all your kids got on? At the end of the day, you have got choices, and if he's honest about what he wants and you are honest abou... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

Q.   Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

A.   15 February 2008: Very good positive attitude. Glad to hear it. Blimey he was a charmer wasnt he? not! Thats the best thing to do, keep reminding yourself how nasty he acrually was. And all those things...you deserved better. I didnt realise he was on coke, unfo... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

Q.   Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

A.   13 February 2008: How far up his own ass is he?He didnt sound like he wanted to talk. He knows what buttons to press thats for sure, and exactly how you react, thats horrible. And a tad creepy! The power trip must be sensational for him! I wasnt pleasant to an ex ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

Q.   Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

A.   11 February 2008: Hi You have a constant migraine because of the pressure in your head. This is basically all doing your head in. Too much stress. I expect you're not eating either. Bad combination. We would all get migraines in this situation. This is a nigh... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

Q.   Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

A.   7 February 2008: Who cares if you have pushed them together. They deserve each other dont they? They probably wont make each other very happy. And She certainly wont ever trust him. And he asks you to treat HIM with respect??? I would of replied with a lot more than... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

Q.   Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

A.   6 February 2008: Well said RCN. The longer you are on your own, and really dont mind being on your own, you gain strength and know being on your own is way better than being treated badly. Its quite a shame the amount of people on here that settle for second, thir... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

Q.   Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

A.   6 February 2008: This is truly horrible. Nothing anyone can say will make the situation any better. Theres lots on here with problems obviously, and this is one of the many worse ones. At the end of the day, it sounds like he played you both for fools, and, small co... (read in full...)

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