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writes:is it embarassing to date a fat guy? what do you think when you see a fat couple? give me your own honest opinion pls. Reply to this Question
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reader, nikkibabes  +, writes (18 July 2009):
Greetings to those wandering fat babes! Are you guys still worried about your overweihgted body? always the loser in a relationship huh? Ain't love innocent? there must be another way for us fat babes. I do believe it. And i fell in love with a fat guy in this April thanks to the website http://www.plusflirt.com/ i wanna share it with all of you. it is really the right place for us fat group.You are warmly welcomed to this site.
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reader, bebbi1  +, writes (20 June 2009):
i dont think it's embarrassing and if you love him why should it bother you...? Personally I would rather have others judge my partner for being overweight then being a complete A-Hole, ultimently people grow to accept those with a good personality and inital judgments (Tht he is a big man) start to fade as they they start to see what a great guy he is
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reader, leonard j. Douglas  +, writes (24 February 2008):
What do I think about fat people?? Well, Only a fool doesn't know that there is more to be loved if your Sweetheart is fat. And "No",It isn't over when the fat lady dances, She 's in love with herself as we all should be. And who in Hell! set you up as the judge over me.
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reader, leonard j. Douglas +, writes (24 February 2008):
What do I think about fat people?? Well, Only a fool doesn't know that there is more to be loved if your Sweetheart is fat. And "No",It isn't over when the fat lady dances, She 's in love with herself as we all should be. And who in Hell! set you up as the judge over me.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (23 February 2008):
 HiBuck the trend and ignore what other people 'say'!Who gives a shiney?Possibly when you get a bit older, you will worry less what people think.C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): thanx for the answers. some of you were rude though. but thanks for the poeple that were nice. to the others. i love him ,you dont know anything. plus you dnt live in a small town where poeple gossip about these things. thats why i asked what other poeple think. x
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reader, SouthernBelle +, writes (23 February 2008):
 Why don't you put yourself in his position, better yet my position. I am an overweight girl, and do you know how hard it is to hear or read things like this? Its almost as though people think that overweight and fat people shouldn't be loved and shouldn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, and if they do people are like wow why do they choose to be with somebody overweight when there are a lot of other thinner and prettier girls out there. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and he loves me exactly for who I am, he has no problems being out with me, and if anybody says anything he stands up for me. In todays society if you don't weigh a certain amount you a pretty much screwed in the dating game because people assume that all fat people are ugly, all fat people are nasty looking and god forbid sex with a fat person. If you really care about the guy, you wouldn't need people on the internet to reassure you that its okay to date somebody overweight. If you really cared for him you wouldn't care if others stared or talked, you wouldn't be embarassed and having second thoughts. So before you make a statement like that, think of how you would feel if you were an overweight girl trying to make it in the dating world where everybody has the same mentality you do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): If you love him, then I'm sure it wouldn't matter anyway. Maybe if you introduced him to friends, you might worry about incase they thought it as ''haha my friend is dating a fat guy.'' But that would be shallow of them. As Lou123 says, beauty isn't skin deep, it's way deeper. So if you like the, then go for it.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (23 February 2008):
Hi
What do i THINK when i see a fat couple? I think if i thought anything when i see a fat couple i would assume that i think too much to be honest!
What a daft question!
What are you expecting people to think, why arent these overweight people in a cage or something????
Ive dated a chubby guy before, i didnt think anything about the fact he was chubby. He was great!
C xxxxx
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (23 February 2008):
 Honestly, i don't have a problem. I wouldn't be embarrased to be with a 'fat guy' lol. He might be really nice =D
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reader, hello1 +, writes (23 February 2008):
 I don't care. When I see a fat couple I barely look. Though if one fat and the other skinny I may look but I don't judge.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): me dont hate fat poeple. me and my guy are fat. poeple look strange at us. and it bothers me. so i wonderd. it doesnt bother me at all. i love him with all my heart. im shy bout what his dad would do when he see me. going to visit his dad tomorrow. his mom likes me. but its importand to me what his dad thinks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): I would be embarassed. But if it doesn't bother you, then who cares what anuone else thinks? Ask him to loose weight.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 February 2008):
 It is only embarrassing if you think it is embarrassing.It depends on where you stand.You should not let other's opinion influence you.
Be yourself. Do you like fat people? If you don't like to date fat people, don't do it.
Do you have anything against fat people? They can be friendly , jovial and loving.
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reader, Lou123 +, writes (23 February 2008):
 Of course it's not embrassing to date a fat guy, beauty isn't skin deep it's inside aswell. I guy might be aboustly lovely and kind and sweet and know how to treat a lady but be a little overweight. How does that make it embrassing? I feel in my personal opinion that just because a guy is overweight doesn't make him less of a man and moreover, less of a gentlemen!
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