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writes:Hi,Dear Cupid! I have a question, Why I always dream of my ex-boyfriend? It's been a 5 months since we broke up and slowly move on... I dream that when we're walking down the road he doesn't know me and never recognizes me and another dream the same like that he never knows me, what's the meaning of my dream? I accept that when I'm going to sleep, I always think of him, maybe it's the reason why I dream of him... please help me, I really need to have peace of mind...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): hi! i also used to dream about my ex..well, actually...not about him...bur rather, about us..together and so sweet.. It was just so weird that for the past few days i've been always dreaming of him, for the mere fact that we don't talk with each other or even see each other anymore and i am so busy doing my school stuffs. to be honest, i really don't think of him every single minute just like before since i've got loads of stuffs to do. Another thing is that i don't have intentions or a desire getting him back into my life..Well, pretty weird..my dreams seems to push me unto him again...but im alright right now..so i think its better to ignore things..sometimes dreams don't mean anything... well "sometimes"...
for you jean! i think..it's better to really move on...it's alright to get hurt because it gives you a lesson that you can use. at least, next time you face the same thing, you now know what to do.. we really are meant to face struggles because some of us are just being prepared for the right persons who are meant for us.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 It will get better, honest. Just doesnt seem it right now.
You might have to kiss a few frogs yet that arent as good as your ex, but in time there will be one thats better! Guarantee it.
Good luck.
C xxxx
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reader, jean21 +, writes (24 February 2008):
jean21 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hello,guys!thank u so much for all your nice advice,mybe im just really missed him and afraid that he forget me and finally move but me i always longing for him but now i need to move and letting him go...Im so thankful that i found this site,it really help me a lot...thank u so much guys and takecare...
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reader, jean21 +, writes (24 February 2008):
jean21 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes,i missed him and afraid that he might forget our sweet memories before then me i still think of him but i need to move and letting him go...
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (23 February 2008):
Hi
I think dreams generally tend to be wat we think of just before we go to sleep, but sometimes i think dreams will try and tell us something. Usually what we already know, but just dont realise.
When i split from someone 4 yrs ago, i did love him. He was just too young for me. We had split loads and got back together. The last time we split, i dreamt i was at a theme park with him. I lost my bag, with all my important things in, purse, keys, phone, but found them again. Then i lost them, found them, lost them, then eventually didnt find them again :o(
I took this to mean he was something that was important to me in life, like those items were, but i had lost him this time and wasnt going to find him again. Was sad, but true. 4 yrs later we are friends ocasionally, will bung each other a txt now n then and say hi if we see each other, but i wouldnt wanna get back with him now. Dont love him anymore like that :o)
Its early days for you. Took me about a year to get over him. But like i say, wouldnt look back now! nooooooooo way.
It will be ok. You'll see.
C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Hi HunnyYou think of him before you go to sleep sweetheart, And the reason you dream he doesnt no you is because you have split up and your subconscious is focusing on the negative so he no longer knows who you are, When in reality thats not at all true hun..Try to focus your mind on something else before bed read untill you are tired and see if this works love TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): It will pass it hurts most of all at first. You need to start building yourself up because when someone finishes with us the rejection affects our self worth. So at first have a good cry whenever you feel like it cos crying is healing and relieves tension. Get out with friends sometimes, or join groups as well, if you sit around too much thinking about him it will take longer.He,s missing out on your lovely self and you deserve better. Dont let it put you off others, list your good qualities, mix with people who make you feel good about yourself, accept that he,s gone dont look back and their will be a lovely bloke out their some day who will appreciate your good qualites and lovely self. Jesus Loves you
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Dreams are just that! Bloody dreams and nothing can be made of them. We all dream about things that sometimes bear no resemblance to anything happening in every day life and other times the dreams are so vivid it is as if we were really living them. You think about him before you go to sleep therefore your brain carrys on with the thought right into the dream, simple, think about a lovely steak!take carexx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Hi hun. Well the simple answer is you loved him!You probably miss him deep down and your scared that he'll forget all about you and that he'll move on and you wont but dont worry its normal. Youre just worried that he'll forget about all the good times you've had together.Take carexxx
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