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writes:HiiiiBit of a problem. I've been single for like a year and 2 months. Problem is that after all that time, I'm still not truly used to being single. I miss having a relationship very much, and everything that goes with it! EVERYTHING! (You no what that involves). I'm thinking: Should I not be used to the fact that I'm single by now? Is there not a time where your body and mind stops worrying about being with somebody after a little while? I want to enjoy single life more, but a big part of me is still crying out for a relationship. How can I relax a bit more? Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (23 February 2008):
 Hi
I agree with waterloo sunset. I was in a relationship from age 15 to 29 basically. Once i became single after that, it was great! Think about it, we spend the first...atleast 12/13 yrs single, we survived fine! why do people get so hung up on being in a relationship?
At your age, whats wrong with having a bit more fun as a single person, as long as you're safe with it?
Honestly, if you had been in relationships as long as i have, you will LOVE being single. Only trouble there is, you can get TOOOOOO used to it!
But thats another problem again! hehe
Have fun! It will happen...
C xxxxx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 February 2008):
 There is a time to be single and a time to be in relationship. Think of this like a cycle. You will be in a relationship when you least expect it.You can think of it like the four seasons, winter, summer, autumn and spring.
Then you should go all out to enjoy every minute of your single life because when your relationship cycle arrive , you will miss your single life.
It is like a little tweety bird that got out of a cage and gained some freedom and then fly back inside another cage again. LOL!
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reader, enigmacode +, writes (23 February 2008):
You got to learn to like yourself and not depend upon a member the opposite sex too much. One reason for this is because they can take advantage of you if they think you really need them, and you will be happier if you do other things being with someone too much can be boring. If will have more too chat about and together and having other friends about can be fun sometimes. Other people will love and accept you, try new hobbies get out. If you come across people who do not accept you or not friendly, dont, waste your prescious time on them they are not worth it. Treat others how you want to be treated and you will get on alright. Jesus Loves you takecare
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): It is a happy, rewarding and fulfilling time so embrace it with both arms. You are still young enough to be worrying about being in a relationship, so enjoy your freedom. i loved being single after so many years of being in relationships. Take each day as it comes and get to know the real you, it worked for me.take carexx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): hi its not easy ive been single for 6 months now and its natural miss certain things from the relationship the best solution i have found is spending more time with yor mates. having nights out meeting new women getting into the flirting game again.
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