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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I wrong to be in love with my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I really need your help it's about me and my bestfriend of 4 years. We first met in middle school and it was love at first sight we immediatly clicked after months of talking we began dating. We dated on and off through middle s...

We texted each other all summer but I don't want to be "real life friends"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - A guy going to my college facebook friended me over the summer. I accepted his facebook friendship, and then he began to chat with me on there. He gave me his number and told me to text him...I felt bad if I didn't text him, so I did just to be ...

Boyfriend says he'll never get back with me again because I lost his trust

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we have had many many highs and equal lows. I've always been a very friendly girl to other guys (but have never flirted or cheated) but he has never liked it. I love him incredibly. In the past ye...

She still calls, but less often.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I meet this girl online about 2yrs ago. And every day we talked all night long as much as we could on the phone. In things where great she had a 8 yr relationship with a other guy when we meet in she was still going out with him. So about after 3 ...

I'm not a mistress. or am i? I'm fed up with feeling lonely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - What do I do? I've been with my 'boyfriend' for almost 5 years. I love him and he says he loves me! But, and it's a big one...I've never met his friends, he seens to 'jump' when his ex says 'jump'. This I understand as they have three children...

I regret it all, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

Is she blowing me off to start something with this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I think my ex is seeing someone else but she won't tell me that she is and its really annoying me because our break wasn't supposed to be permanent just until she found a way to deal with her problems IE severe depression and alcoholism. She said we ...

He says we are not compatible sexually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - How important is sex in a relationship. My boyfriend of 3 years says he loves me but that he thinks we are not compatible sexually and that sex is really important to him. I like that he may end the relationship because of it. Im not sure what I ...

My boyfriend is expecting twins with another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Me and My boyfriend have been together for 6 years we had a falling out last year due to his craving for woman and his dishonesty so we broke up for three months and than got back together needless to say we are about to have a baby girl. Just ...

My insecurities about his ex wife are causing problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend who has 2 sons ages 19 and 25. I have moved in to their home with my son age 25. As far as our living situation everything is working out just fine. I am having trouble accepting the fact that the ex-wife (Mother of the ...

My girlfriend can't cope with problems or stresses... Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years, living together for 1. Most of the times we get on really well. We do lots of stuff, we have fun, we have a normal, healthy relationship in all aspects. However, my girlfriend has a problem. ...

In a relationship with a wonderful gorgeous man but might have screwed up our future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a wonderful gorgeous man but I might have screwed up any future for us. I was gone on a trip for my internship for a couple of months. I ran into my boyfriend's ex who told me that my boyfriend was done with me because he ...

I am confused, and wondering if I have scared him off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - You guys have been helpful in the past...please help again. Right, I have moved on in my life. Relocated, new job, starting again. Recently a friend of mine called me and invited me to a dinner party. It was local to where I am now living a...

I am too scared to meet him because of age differences

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I've been overweight my whole life. I'm used to rejection and being told no guy would ever want me. Recently I've been talking to a guy who is about 17 years older than me. I am attracted to him and he is attracted to me, we've planned to meet a few ...

My gut says she is hiding something

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Ok so im somewhat seeing this girl latetly she has been going out and drinking a lot she has a lot of guy friend and everything plus she is still inlove with her ex. she allways seems to treat me like crap after she sees him and its like she is ...

I feel he is not making the effort

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi I've got a problem but I don't know if its my own doing and I should just accept it or he's using what happened to punish me. I've been going out with a guy for 3yrs we were engaged and even talked about children but I've got trust issues f...

I'm scared my boyfriend will get bored of me!

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30 September 2010 (F) - I'm scared my boyfriend will get bored of me. we've been dating a year and in that time he has only been out once round the bars and nightclubs with his mate. He goes to see his friend once a week on an afternoon when he finishes work early. Onc...

I told him I love him, but he's making plans he won't commit to, with me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I'm 19 years old and gay. A little over a year ago I fell in love with one of my best friends. I told him how I felt about him in November and I know he avoided me for a long time. Whenever I would ask if we could get together he would tell me that ...

Why is everyone I work with so difficult?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I work as a manager for a small office. I've always tried to be pleasant with my staff (all women) by saying "Good morning" asking how they're kids are doing (when they've been sick) occasionally saying, "Oh, I like what you've done to your hair" ...

I just want my Mom back the way she used to be! Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi! I've already sent in a plea for help a few months back. I got wonderful feedback, but I'm still having trouble. This has something to do with my mom. This is a really hard topic for me, and I apologize in advance if I write a lot. I just want to ...

Why can't guys let go of the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a yr and everything was good well at times it still is to a certain point. he has been tryng to deal with my pass. i had cheated twice on my ex husband. and he has such a big prblm with that he calls me names he says ...

How can you nicely tell someone they are unattractive naked and a lousy lover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am now engaged in a sex-free relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we probably have sex about once a month. We are both in our twenties. The thing is, I am not attracted to him anymore. I feel superficial because it has t...

My boyfriend doesn't understand!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am desperately in need of help. I am currently 17 weeks pregnant and live with my boyfriend of over a year. We have not been doing well in our relationship and we fight daily. I am emotional and hormonal and am sure that contributes to some of the ...

My girlfriend says she wants an open relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - My Girlfriend want's an open relationship and i don't. We have been together for 3 years and are gonna get engaged and married. Still she is barely able to see me because of my job and college. I don't know what i should do....

I'm attracted to men, but don't want to be!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I really hope i dont offend any one so I appologies if I do. I am 38 years old and always had some sexual attraction to men. Its always been just sexual never wanted to date anyone that is. I dont want to be gay and in my family life it would not be ...

I feel like my wife lied to me about having an STD, how should I bring it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - My wife of 4 years returned from her pap smear with irregular cells. This in itself is terrifying. We found out they weren't cancer, so that was a huge relief. My question: when my wife told me she had the irregular cells, she then said, "I to...

How can I stop feeling paranoid about my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Well first i will tell you exactly what my problem is and explain it in detail. Any girl i get really attached to after about a month or 2 months i get paranoid that they are going to dump me. So basically 4 years ago i dated this girl, and after ...

Troubles with my fiance: porn, trust, family ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I just stumbled on this site looking for answers to my relationship. Even though I think I already know. I just don't want to admit it! I don't know what my question is? I guess I just what opinions? I started dating this guy almost 4yrs ago. We ...

Should we see a relationship counselor or should I not even bother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend (or ex, I don't know) says that he doesn't want to be together anymore because a lot of things about me annoy him. However, he is willing to pay to see a relationship councellor (which I am not). Why does he want to see one ...

Why is he back with me and is this just a phase? Or did he never really care???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am goin to make this breif. I am going out of my mind at the minute! I am emotianally exhausted and I dont know what to do. Ok I was with my boyfiend for 10months and I split with him for many reasons. I was always making the effort, cooking ...

How do I control my thoughts about my future sister in law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Hello, I'm a 22 yo student, happily engaged with a beatiful girl, currently living at her parents' place. This is a choice we mae a couple of years ago, because we know we couldn't get enough money to live in an apartment while we study, so we st...

Help me get out of this situation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I will try and explain my question as best as I can,I know its long but please help.Here goes... Me and this guy have known each other for 6 years altogether.We dated for about 10 months and then we moved in together when I was 16 to his area which ...

My boyfriend claims he loves me and can't live without me, so why does he behave this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Okay, so this is my first time doing this. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years. We have had our ups and downs like any normal couple. Over the last 2 years I have noticed a huge decline in his yearning for me. And with each passing ...

She lied to me but I still want her back, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Well to start things off, im 19 and my recent ex is 17. I have been in college for one year, and she recently ggraduated from high school. We are young. We decided to get an apartment together as i transfered schools, to be closer to her and my ...

He has been terminated from a job, should I support him or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do with my boyfriend who's going through a very tough time right now. Recently he got hired for a job after 2 months of being jobless, we were both happy for that as he was getting depressed that he couldn't find a job. And then ...

Boyfriend got DUI and says if I wasn't so jealous it wouldn't have happened!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have been living with my fiance for 3 years. He and I both drink daily. He has has a problem with crack in the past an cocaine. He has had 2 dui's in two years. He smokes pot everyday and takes pain pills every chance he gets.He is 56 I am 60. ...

B/f angry at me no matter what I do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am getting really confused! My boyfriend is going through an angry patch and everything I do and everything I say ends up making him agitated with me! I do not know what I am doing wrong!! and to my knowledge I have been nothing but supporti...

Every time I try to get close to him he pushes me away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for 3 years.. We had a baby boy together who is now a year old. I have gained some weight due to pregnancy and I'm fighting to get it off. When I was about 6 months pregnant, he said he didn't want to ...

Is it okay to pull away from the person you think loves you to test them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I never thought I would consider “testing” my boyfriend, but here I am dealing with some doubts that are driving me to seek action. My first boyfriend of over 1.5 years is by all initial impressions a great guy. We share the same values, respect ...

My boyfriend doesn't like me sharing dorm with a guy, its starting fights

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - basically i'm at uni and i've moved back into my flat. last year it had all girls but this year there is one boy moving in. so there are 4 girls to 1 boy. anyway my boyfriend hates the idea of me sharing a flat with any boys, so when i heard it...

Boyfriend wants to do stuff with guys. I didn't know he was bisexual!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - right where do i start.... me and my bf have been together for nearly 2 years and are living together and everything, however 7 months into the relationship he told me he was bi sexual. he had never done anything with a guy, but i found out 3 mo...

How do I show my boyfriend I wasnt lying about being true to him while he was away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - how do i show my boyfriend i wasnt lying about being true to him while he was away. someone mistakenly called my bf by a different name. thinkin it was one of my friends. (they kinda look alike). this friend had once visted me on campus and ...

He is thinking of leaving his wife for me, but I'm worried he may only be leaving because he thinks the grass is greener on the other side....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Ok, it's best to start at the beginning. I work with a guy who is 15 years older than me, have always had a soft spot, and the room kinda lit up when I saw him. I hadn't realised that (2 years down the line) he had felt the same as me. He is ...

We have been together 17 months now and we still have not had sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Okay so about a year and a half ago, I was at a small house party with a few friends and I met a guy, I was only 16, and although I wasn't a virgin, sex was the last thing on my mind. Me and this guy fancied each other and we exchanged phone numbers ...

Is this realshionship one sided or is this in my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (?) - hi you lovely agony aunts out there, i always come on her for help when i need, and feel i need a little reasurring today..., i at the moment feel my relashionship is one sided, me more than him, or could it be in my head, i will tell you how it is ...

My boyfriend is very controlling with me but I am too attached and afraid to be alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - i'm 18 and i have this boyfriend i i'm with for 9 months. he was so sweet and charming the first 2 months but then he started to be very controlling with me. he tells me what to wear, he even forbidden me of adding my pictures on facebook, he gets ...

We made up, but my new bloke is back to his old behaviour!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a new guy for about 1.5 months. He is 21 and I'm 23. Like him a lot. But he forgot that we had plans. This is like the second time. And the other week we were supposed to go out on a date. But he showed up drunk, with his friend. ...

Is he making a fool out of me or is he telling the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - okay my boyfriend cheated on me before and he was acting all funny, so i checked his phone records and saw this number all the time coming up, so i rang it and a girl answered, so instead of saying it to him i checked his record so i dumped him. we ...

Is it time to leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - i have been with my current partner for 11 years. he refuses to get a job to help with the bills. If he gets any money he will spend it on drink. he is verbally abusive and on a few occasions in drink he has been physically abusive. i am at the end ...

Will he ever commit to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - scared he may never commit? Me and my fella been seeing each other coming up to 9 months. Before he got with me he had been broken up with his ex of 8 years for 7 months. We broke up a month after dating because he told me that he thought he wa...