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writes:right where do i start.... me and my bf have been together for nearly 2 years and are living together and everything, however 7 months into the relationship he told me he was bi sexual. he had never done anything with a guy, but i found out 3 months later that he had cheated on me with a guy. we stayed together as i really love him and wanted to make things work between us. after that things seemed to get better but last night he told me he wants to do stuff with men as it will make him happy. i said that he can but deep down its hurting like hell that his going to be going off with other people. he said he wont do it if im not happy with him but i know if i tell him im not happy then he wont be and i think it might just reuin what we have... what should i do stay with him and let him sleep with other people ? or tell him i aint happy ?
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reader, almc  +, writes (29 September 2010):
There is a few things wrong with this..
What he is doing is not cool. He wants to have a life with you but have someone else on the side.
Also about HIV & stds.. Him sleeping around with other men, he can end up giving you something.
So he is out with this gay for a few hours, and comes home kissing you and holding you at night, when he was off doing something else with god knows who.
This is not right and he need to tell him to stop or leave him. I know it will hurt and you will be sad but in the end you will be happier, and be able to find a real man to take care of you and love only you and no one else.
I wish you luck.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 Would he be OK if you slept with other guys, you think?
What he wants is not a relationship, he just wants to hang on to you while he does whatever he wants.
Personally, I would have walked away the first time he got caught cheating. WHY do you think you have to accept this from him? He is not the only guy out there! I'm willing to bet you can EASILY find a truly decent guy if you wanted too.
Don't you think you DESERVE a guy who loves & respects you and your relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): He's totally selfish. Dump him at the next trash can. I get so pissed that bi men and women think experimenting is not cheating. It totally is. The relationship will never be what you wanted it to. He changed the rules mid-game. Not fair at all. Move on...seriously.
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