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Should we see a relationship counselor or should I not even bother?

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Question - (29 September 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2010)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello,

My boyfriend (or ex, I don't know) says that he doesn't want to be together anymore because a lot of things about me annoy him. However, he is willing to pay to see a relationship councellor (which I am not). Why does he want to see one if he wants out of the relationship? Do you think I should take up on his offer? (My feelings regarding the relationship is apathetic at this point)

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (30 September 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntDefinately not. If you are at the apathetic stage there is no point trying to patch this up. Move on and find your true love.

All the best.

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A male reader, The old Man? United States +, writes (30 September 2010):

The old Man? agony auntI think you know the answer.

Those quirky little things about you that annoy the daylights out of him, in time you will find someone who just adores them.

Don't change for anyone! Also, hopefully you don't/ didn't allow him to make you think those traits are wrong, and become ashamed of them.

You are who you are.

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