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Archived questions from: 6 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My head is melted with a decision that I have to make, Can you you help me please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - Any answers will be deeply appreciated from the bottom of my heart. Dear Cupid, I am with my girl for 3 years. We had a lil break up about 2 months back and she started texting a "friend" right away. She sent him pictures and videos and whatever,...

I'm confused about my relationship with my boss

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I am 31 and single and my boss is 47 and single. I do like him alot, but wonder about his feelngs for me. I started to notice him looking at me intensely in the staffroom or in a crowded room, and we still seem to be in the staffroom together...

How to stay in love, when my wife isn't in love with me anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - how can i do it? after all is said and done, it is my fault, i never cheated, hit her. i wasn't there for her emotionally, didn't support her when she needed to be supported. she fell out of love with me. now how can i stay in love with her,...

Good man, but not in love...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - ok, so I'm 36 so in theory should be old enough to know what I want. But, I'm wracked with self-doubt and indecision. I have a 6 year relationship with a good (if dull) man. We are engaged and have one lovely gorgeous daughter. But I don't love ...

I don't know if our baby is mine! we were so in love yet she cheated on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - i was in a 2 and a half year relationship and ive been madly in love with her until i started getting gut feelings about getting cheated on. i asked several times and she sweared she would never or has never done that. but the feelings were so ...

How can I get her trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - So this is all my fault, but my girlfriend and I have been having huge trust issues cause i lied about talking to and old friend who was a girl, and she asked me not to talk to another girl but her. Kinda weird for my age? We've been dating for 6 ...

My girlfriend tries to ignore me kissing her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - Okay so, I'm kinda paranoid - everytime I kiss my girlfriend, she just don't really respond and trys to ignore it but she loves me? I don't know what it means, she ain't ready? I would appreciate someone to set me straight on this, thanks in ...

Is it normal to feel as though you're not going to find a good person to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 18 and I feel as thought i'm not going to find a good guy to be with. I know you're probably thinking that i'm young and i shouldnt be worrying about boys right now because i should just be having fun with my friends and enjoying ...

Should I settle with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I recently just left a 10 year relationship to a man I was engaged to. We've had our ups and downs and I think I should have left earlier, I was just too comfortable and scared to do so. We now have this new house that we've both committed to and ...

My boyfriend does not let me see my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - THis isn't really a relationship question but I really need some help and guidance right now. I have a friend whom I met in Uni, (a girl) - lets call her Lola. She is wonderful. I have such a great time with her and over the years I have come to ...

Did I deserve to be slapped in the face?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - Ok where to start ... Me and my boyfriend have been together 3 and a half years and last weekend (4th september) we went out with friends for my birthday. There was 3 of my friends and one of his. We had all drunk far too much and my boyfrien...

How long can a man stay mad? Will he ever call me back or is it his way to say it's over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - The man I love (dating for 3 months..) isn't talking to me anymore since Wednesday because of an argument over the phone. This argument shouldn't have taken place at all. It was stupid and I should have realized he was going through a lot of stress ...

Manager at work going behind my back and giving my work to others

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - Can anyone help with a work situation. I was bullied for nearly 2 years by 3 older women in my office, I was moved into my own room because my work load changed and because of them. They always had a real problem with me and my manager never do...

My fiance insults my appearance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - My Fiancee often insults mt appearance, telling me that i have a double chin, and he likes thin girls. he also tells me i look fat in certain clothes. he will give me backhanded comliments like" you look so nice today i wish you'd look like this ...

How do I get it through to my sister that he does not want her and that she should get rid of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - My sister is a retard! She got involved with a guy who is completely crazy. last year they went out for a while then broke up cause he was possesive and six months later they met up and one thing led to another and she got pregnant. since then ...

12 years together, am I just wasting my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - Hi,I last wrote moaning that my boyfriend ignored my birthday. Here I am again. We've been together 12 years and have a son.I am down 'cos Christmas is coming and I know it'll be another disappointment, not the fact that I wont get any presents, but ...

Mother and brother in law's girlfriend are not treating me right!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - Hi all, im pregnant and very happy, im about 14 weeks pregnant, now the other kid is also pregnant and she were always treated like a queen. Whell its my brother in law's girlfriend susan , she found out she is pregnant about 4weeks now. Now ...

Rude women at the office...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - Ok so to make a long story short. My boss told the two ladies Samantha and Cindy which i use to do all there filing and queries ect. So on Secretary day my boss told them they should also give something so that all three off them buy me something ...

I can't stand that my boyfriend smokes marijuana. what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - So this summer my boyfriend of over a year has recently started trying drugs and partying, etc. He's a year older than me, so he's off at college and doing more stuff. This really really bugs me, as an understatement. I can't even describe how much ...

It was all a game and I fell for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I cant talk to friends or family about this or i will never live it down. Just a little background. I am 44 single mom of 2 kids, when they were younger i got burned bad in a relationship and vowed to wait until they were out of the house to avoid ...

Needs advice on how to get over an abusive relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - Hi. everyone. So here it goes.. I have been broken up with my ex for almost about a yr now but I can't stop thinking of what happened and how mad I am for putting myself in those shoes. I always told myself I would never date a guy who was abusive ...

Did my fear of intimacy ruin the relationship...how do I fix this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - So any thoughts, opinions, and advice would be greatly appreciated. I recently turned 27, and have never been in a REAL relationship, so I am very immature when it comes to certain communications and how to relate to someone else. So...I've been ...

Some guy kissed her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - guys i neeed help pleaaaase.. my girlfriend just told me a guy in her class kissed her while they were on a break.but she didnt kiss him back she said it all happened in 1 second!! they were talkin and he just kissed her :S i dont know what t...

I need to always have attention from men

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I have a need to always have attention from men. No matter what I am doing, or who I am with I feel like I must be the center of every man's attention in the room. It could be guys I know or complete strangers. I don't even care what they look ...

Do I continue with a relationship that will never fully develop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now. We both have children that live with us. So far the relationship has been smooth, no fighting, no drama etc. I went to have my tarot read a few months ago and i was told that we were both guarded, ...

We should still be in our honeymoon stage but we aren't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. In the first month and a half of our relationship things were wonderful. He wanted to see me all the time, he told me he was crazy about me, sweet talked me and showed me lots of affection. But then ...

Is she going to resent me for going against her parent's will?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I dated for about 5 months, then got into a really bad involving my trust issues and we broke up because we both decided that's what'd be best. A couple weeks later we both realized we weren't even slightly over each other because ...

What do women want in a person?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - Good evening, Dear Cupid community: In my experience, there comes a question that men often ask: What do women want? The reason I post this question, is because some of these questions I see here in the community stem from this. There seems to b...

Is it wrong to read his text messages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - First off, I know it's wrong to spy on your partners phone records and/or email account, but I have done both. I hacked into the email account and can see text records from phone account, but unfortunately cant read texts. I notice an occasional 4 ...

How is it that a guy can be enough, yet he should still improve himself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - What I don't understand is when women tell you to accept yourself, that you're enough, and then they say to keep trying to improve yourself. That doesn't make sense to me. If you truly believed you were enough, then you wouldn't bother improving ...

I'm not sure if he cares anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are together for 7 years now, and the first 4 of those were a fairy tale. Everything was wonderful! Then, I got a little too drunk and kissed another guy and told him about it (from start we decided to be open about stuff and tell ...