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Archived questions from: 11 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I thought she liked me...now shes flaking? Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 September 2010 (M) - There's a girl I work with that I'm crazy about. She's 25, a single mother, and 9 months out of a 6 year relationship with the father of her child, whom she insists she is done with (she tried staying with him for the sake of the baby but said ...

He's the only one keeping me sane, but I don't want to drag him down!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - ok, well ive been with my boyfriend 4 months and i know its not long but he's the only one who makes me happy. i had a bad year and im still dealing with everything for the last 10 months. somehow my boyfriend made things better and i swear i think ...

I just want to cry and move away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Ive had the worst week of my life this week. Firstly, im a single mum to a 5 month old boy. Im finding it very hard to bring him up at the moment. His dad is around and sees him as often as he can but im still finding it very hard. Then I had a huge ...

I know what I want and it's him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - iv been wonderin whether i should even ask this question... met my boyfrend bout 5 mths ago. and i cnt even say in words how madly in love we were. we met every single night and just clung together for the whole night. i finally thought i found the ...

I still love him...how can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Hi...I've got a problem... It is this guy...we've been togheter for 4 months but last week we broke up... after the break-up we said that we hated each other and alot of mean things... but after 3 days...he called me and he apologized for what he ...

Is there any hope for this man being any better than he's shown himself to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Is there any hope for this man being any better than he's shown himself to be? I was with him for five years- where he lied/cheated/manipulated me repeatedly. Last time we spoke (a week back), he admitted he never 'dweels' on things. He doesn't ...

What is going on with my relationship? Is my bf Inexperienced or just not in to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Okay, i have been dating this guy for 2 months. Everything was great the first 2 weeks. He defiantly plays head games with me. To start we meet though friends. My best friend is one of his best friends. She told me right off the bat that he is ve...

I was a good girl and now I'm wondering why I didn't do the bad things that others do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I was a virgin when I got married. I will admit to heavy petting and finger penetration. But no complete sex penetration. I was saving myself for marriage. I was a good girl. I was married for 26 years when my husband past away suddenly. ...

My boyfriend ignores me, and it doesn't make sense!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - im really confused , and wondering if anyone can help me. i met my bf few month a go online, we talked on the phone and then decided to go on a date and it was great ! we both liked eachother so much and he was so sweet and carying; sex was also ...

He doesn't love me the way that I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - i went out with a guy for 3.5 yrs.. love of our lives (to each other)..we had a long distance relationship..i lived over there with him for 1.5 yrs.. msot amazing time. got to see how we are really face to face instad of over the phone etc...we ...

My boyfriends has commitment issues after 4 1/2 years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Hello, for the last 4 1/2 years Ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend. I cannot tell you how wonderful it has been. There's no doubt in my mind that he loves me very much. Although our personalities are quite different we have always kept...

How can I date someone that works so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - So, a few months ago my boyfriend got a job. The problems we were having in our relationship were finally getting resolved, but then once he started to work, things got so much worse. He works so much-especially on weekends, which is usually the ...

Does having sexual encounters with multiple partners always have bad very long term affects on people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Does having sexual encounters with multiple partners always have bad very long term affects on people? As in 30 years later? Can you not remember the pleasure only the pain as you "hit the wall"? A sexual past (as a teenager) one incident with 5 ...

my parents are opportunists, that jumped on the money wagon once I started making good money

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - My parents want to take advantage of me, what do you think? This is a huge problem that I have with my parents. They want to take advantage of me financially. They supported my education, and they want their money back. However, in my country ...

I jumped to conclusions, broke up with him and now he won't talk to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - This boy and I have been seeing eachother off and on all summer. The other day I had 3 girls tell me that he was cheating on me. One of the girls like brought up her brother like he was interested in me or something. I'm not interested in him. ...

I gave my daughter the wrong advice and don't know how to make things right

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

11 September 2010 (?) - Three girls on the bus the other day told my daughter that her boyfriend was cheating on her. One of the girls has a brother that I think he is a little bit interested in my daughter and I think that she was trying to see if maybe my daughter was ...

He says he likes me but doesn't show it anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Ive been seeing this one guy for a long while now, im crazy about him, but the problem is when he said he was crazy about me im thinking second thoughts about whether he is or not. When ever we made plans he was always ther on time treated me so ...

My boyfriend hits me every time we argue

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Hi. So iv been with my boyfriend for 5 years this year and during the 2nd year we was together he started hitting me everytime we argued. The thing is...He said i go on and on and thats what makes him hit me. And he carried on until i cry or u...

I don't know how to be social

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - Okay, real quick- I am not antisocial, just don't know how to be social? I guess, it takes a certain kind of person to vibe with that doesn't make me feel like im playing along in a game to be apart of a conversation. So it is my sophomore year i...

Why doesn't boyfriend ever invite me to parties?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i see each other everyweekend, fri sat and sun. every once in 4 weeks or so he will say he is going out to a party with friends etc. i dont mind this but the fact that he never ever invites me to come to parties with him or clubs...

The more he tries to pull away, the more I push

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - All the answers to my previous question make sense given the info I provided but I'm not convinced it is the full story. To recap, I met a guy 8 weeks ago and we became intimate and intense very quickly. When we are together he is very loving and I ...

Left and right sides of brain do not agree!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I am so confused. my left side of the brain is telling me he just used me for sex. He would never take agirl like me seriously, he would never like somebody like me, he is so much better than me, he can have anyone he wants, why would he choose ...

He's still stuck on his ex and can't be with me and its breaking my heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I met this guy through my friend who had been dating him for over a year. She’s a maneater, plays a role and then is onto the next best thing. As a couple, they were practically married, basically living together and showering together just about ...

Is friendship and companionship enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 9 years. During the first 2 years we had really amazing sex and it was an important part of our relationship. Then in the 3rd year we had sex less often until it finally stopped all together. I didn't want it to ...

Why does he act as if we never existed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for three years. We had a beautiful child together and overnight he broke it off. I am so confused one week we were fine he said he loved me i told him i felt him slipping away and he said he loved me and his feeling has not ...

Is he spending to much time playing video games? or am I being needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what I want to ask... so I'll just type... I am confused and unhappy in my relationship of over 2 years. I love him and he loves me. I just feel really lonely when I'm with him often, because he likes to spend as much time as he possi...

Does he want to get married or is he just stalling? I am wondering if I should walk away.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I've searched online for an answer for a while, but nothing ever seems to fit just right so I need to go ahead and ask this myself...is it time for me to leave? I want to get married. My BF of 4 years keeps saying, "yeah, lets just go do it" or "...