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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I will try and explain my question as best as I can,I know its long but please help.Here goes... Me and this guy have known each other for 6 years altogether.We dated for about 10 months and then we moved in together when I was 16 to his area which was about an hour and a half away from my family and friends.After 3 and a half years I found out he had cheated on me by visitng a massage parlour and had paid to have sex.I was in denial at first because I thought we were solid,then I came to terms with it and was devastated. I didnt know what to do because I had nowhere to go mums house was now full due to my brother moving back in. So somehow I managed to stay living with him and am still here today. He says he loves me and says he hasnt moved on and doesnt want to lose me. Sometimes he tries to get me into bed, but he keeps going to the massage parlour or hiring escorts when iv asked him not to.He lies and says he doesnt go but I know he does.Sometimes he gets back really late and says he finished work late but its because he has been to the parlour.He starts at 6am and most nights doesnt come home until 8pm-10pm.Anyway now I cant handle it anymore Im absolutely fed up of him and all his lies and false promises.I need to get away from him.I thought about renting a room in the area by my work but I cant afford it (only got a shop job). Also thought about renting a room up by my families area but I cant afford that either especially as I wouldnt have a job up there.I really dont know which way to turn. Any suggestions anyone might have please reply with them, anything!!(the situation is getting desperate) Thank you very much for reading
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Oh how horrible for you sweetie. I agree that you need to get away from this house, i think you should ring your parents and tell them whats happened, am sure you could sleep on the couch even for a few weeks until you can get a job and a bit off money behind you, am sure your family dont want to see you stuck and would be more than happy to have you back until you save a bit to rent a room, good luck x
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