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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Help! How can I let him know that I care so that he will understand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has brought up some complaints a few times over the course of our relationship, and though I feel like I have been making an effort, he still complains about the same things. (I think it is justified, however). I am not demonstrativ...

I don't understand what I did wrong, and why he's acting this way now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I met a guy a couple of months back while I was staying with my friend in Pittsburgh. He lives in WV, but he's only a half an hour away from her apartment to where I was staying. It was one of her boyfriends real good friends. I wanted to meet ...

Is a God who does not exist, more important for her than the man she claims to love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, I am 22 and me and my girlfriend are in a relationship for the last 3 years. There are a lot of points that I must highlight before going to the real issue. In the 1st year of our relationship, she was flirty with guys and used to ...

How do I learn not to be distracted by boyfriends annoying habits?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - My question is how to to stop getting annoyed at the quirky habits people have? I can admit that I am probably an easily annoyed person, so I will assume that my boyfriends habits are totally normal, and that instead of trying to make him stop I ...

Do I have my priorities straight in this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I am going to a one off gig that my favourite band are doing in a few weeks, and its the day after my boyfriends birthday. i will be away on his birthday as this concert is no where near where we live. he is saying i think the concert is more ...

My girlfriend won't talk to me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

4 September 2010 (?) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...

He throws ice water on me when I'm asleep!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. we have 2 small kids together... in the past 7 years he has never been a really good boyfriend.. but in the past 2 years he has become very abusive and controlling. every day i get yelled at, threatened, ...

I found out that his friends hate me and talk about me behind my back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Hello fellow cupiders, I am really gutted at the moment. Yesterday I found out that the best friends of my boyfriend for many years, and whom I thought of as my friends as well, absolutely hate me. My boyfriend and I have been together for alm...

Bad(ish) boyfriend suddenly becoming wonderful overnight, turns out he's been watching porn. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Sorry guys, it's another porn story, but please listen to me. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2/3 years now. He was wonderful at the start, but then he seemed to stop caring. He wouldn't do anything nice for me, didn't call me beautiful, di...

I pushed my boyfriend away because of insecurity and now I don't think I can get him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a long distance relationship, my last boyfriend cheated on me, so im very insecure and suffer with jealousy, and now my boyfriend has gone very cold on me, we use to talk about the future etc, but thats all stopped, its kind of formal ...

I feel like we are growing apart, how do I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend works 4-11 at night and I go to school from 8-3 then work from 5-9. I feel alone. I miss him so much it feels like I never see him. The I my time we spend together is once in a while on the weekends. It really hurts being away from ...

After three years and a child together, I doubt my feelings for my partner! Confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Am I really in love or just in love with the idea of being in love? I am having a relationship with someone for 3 years already and we have 1 child already. The problem is that often times, I am in doubt of my true feelings for him as well as h...

Why the silence all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - He's not divorced yet, said they're in separate rooms for 4 years. I honestly am too! Same house, separate rooms for 4 years, not married though. We've known each other for 35 years, and have been talking and seeing each other for 9 months. He's ...

He left me soon after my abortion, then I found out he was engaged the whole time! Please advise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Hi, i got pregnant because my method fail, i have a genetic condition which if i get pregnant and labor a baby i have the change to grown tumors all over my body,also spontaneous abortion, hypertension, and a chance of high complication, even death ...

Can such a hard relationship end for the better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - A couple who is in a relationship for almost 4 years. There were several break ups involved in their relationship but patched back. The girl who is 20, has went through a lot of emotional hurt with him. She has cried before and in the past, th...

Depressing Love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title. Hi, first timer here...ok well, so I've been with this girl for a little over a year now and we're really in love, atleast I know I am and she says she is just the same, only when we take "breaks" they drag on in agony fo...

Does she still feel the same about me, or is there another reason she could be angry with me all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - my question is what can i do when my girlfriend seems to always be in a bad mood i have tried to help her with her problems by comfertng her the best way i can but she always seems to find something woring with the way that i confert her and from ...

I don't like when the guy I have been seeing for 4 months just shows up at my door!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I am dating a guy for the last 4 months. I feel like he is already trying to mark his territory. Gave me two teddy bears with his colone sent.. three pictures of him on a frame. He left his toothbrush with his name labled. Now he is starting to ...

He said he doesn't want to live with me any more! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - me and m boyfriend have been dating for about two years and a half and now we lived togther for a year and a half. Now he doesnt want to live with me what should i do ? I scared that at the end he wont change his mind....

Frustrated...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I know Im not unlike others. My husband who can be sweet when he chooses has been so mean lately. He gets mad at me at the slightest word he doesn't like. He can be so demanding of me and what he wants but today I only asked if he would stop to say ...

Do people usually talk to friends about arguments they have in such great detail?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend, after a (very long) argument that we had last night, told his friends about it (it was a very stupid argument, and it was my fault). Anyway, he refuses to tell me about what he told them, and what they said about it (apparently though, ...

My family are blatant in their discrimination

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I come from a rather conservative background, where caste based discrimination still exists. Around 7 months ago, I landed myself, my first job. where I met this guy, almost 10 years senior to me and we hit it off instantly. I've been seei...

I love him and I want to be with him forever but I'm scared he doesn't feel the same way anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years. Lately we've been arguing a lot and I feel like he doesn't love me the way that he did in the beginning of the relationship. He's been avoiding me for 2 weeks straight now. he hasn't called me ...