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writes:I am getting really confused!My boyfriend is going through an angry patch and everything I do and everything I say ends up making him agitated with me! I do not know what I am doing wrong!! and to my knowledge I have been nothing but supportive and have always put his needs before my own.I ask a question or ask for his opinion.. then he says he gets angry with me because he is the one that always needs to make the decisions.I make a decision he snaps with me again.I don't know what to do anymore. Reply to this Question
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (29 September 2010):
 Yes, I agree! I can't add a thing. :)
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 I think dirtball needs to change his name to something else. That was a really good answer.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (29 September 2010):
 It might be time to take a step back and give him a little space. Whatever is causing this he will need to work it out. I would suggest telling him why you're backing off though.
Something like, "It seems like you're always mad at me for something and I don't know why. I want to work on this with you when you're ready. When you are, give me a call. Until then, I'm going to give you your space."
You might want to clarify that this isn't a break up, so that he doesn't interpret it that way. But if communication is causing a problem, then he needs to get back to a point where he can communicate before progress can be made.
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