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Archived questions from: 9 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend seems to have the hots for his neighbour!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - please help as this is driving me insane! I'm 36 and been wth my partner for 2 1/2 years, we dont live together, he lives alone and i live with my kids (not his). he has never in the 11 years at his address socialised with the neighbours - he ...

My boyfriend is giving me mixed signals, but he says he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost a year. We have been going out for drives and movies but he has never tried to kiss me or hold my hand till about 2 months back. Last month we made love for the first time. He says it was the first time for ...

If she marries me her parents will never see her again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - Hi, I am a working professional from India.And currently living out of India for work purposes. My financial status is not so great but I do well to take care of a family.Recently, I met a gal and I have been facing a real common issue , but its ...

She was drunk and told her I'd prefer she not dance with guys but she did it anyways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - Operate Conditioning Question... Hey guys and gals im having a little ruff patch with my girlfriend. Its not really bad but it started when she gave me a "drunk" call a couple of nights ago. She asked if she could dance with other guys and I told ...

Girlfriend never accepts her mistakes and instead blames me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - My Gf of 1 year never accepts her mistakes and instead blames it on me. Recently she asked me if she could go meet a guy friend who had proposed her. i let her when she said they were going to a coffee shop. But 2 days later she told me that they ...

I met a pillar of society with a hidden cocaine, alcohol, and cross-dressing habit.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I met a man who posed as a great guy, deacon in his church, father of 5, honorable discharge from the marines with a steady decent paying job. What he neglected to tell me is that he had a 10 yr coke habit, kids that wouldn't talk to him due to his ...

Should I apologise to her again personally?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - hi i had a fight with my girl in the office. our friends and other colleagues were also there. she shouted on me and i did the same thing. afterwards i realized that it was my fault. due to my guilt i apologize her by writing a note rather than ...

My boyfriend is really starting to grate on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I just moved in with my boyfriend a little over a month ago, and he's really started to grate on me. He doesn't have a job, but his parents pay for his rent and living expenses (he's in his late 20s for what it's worth). This annoys me, becau...

I'm really worried that he's gay and doesn't know it, is that possible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - After going through a difficult long-term breakup I decided to join an online dating site just for fun. Surprisingly I instantly met someone really good looking and we chatted for about a month before meeting in person. He was even better in real ...

G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...

He wants to marry me but how am I supposed to live with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are being a couple for a year now. A few months ago we had a little fight and I told him, in my anger and between the lines, that if he wants to leave this relationship, he's free to do it. He said that he'd be OK whether he...

Boyfriend says I nag him, am I a bad girlfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - Hi dear cupid advisors, My bf has been pulling away from me recently, i have asked him why here is what he says: he thinks i am a nag, he is in debt, i have been telling him not to spend, save his money, cut up his cards. i have access to his ...

He said he didn't love me and I was just a "sex thing"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - i have a big promblem ive been seeing a guy im in love with he's been treating me me very very poorly he used me for sex he wanted his friends to make out with me. ive told him lately that i love him he said he doesnt love me and he doesnt have ...

He's telling me everything to do and I'm sure I can't live like this all my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 year and 3 months and have been living together for about 8 months now. he doesn't want me to visit my friends or make new friends, he doesn't want me to talk to any guy regardless of whether i know him or ...

Sometimes I'd rather be alone than be around him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - ok so i have been with this guy for 3 years now, and we have had our up and down moments, but lately its like he jumps from one extream to the next.. one minute he wants to be jewish and goes full force now he wants to be christian and become a ...

Going to meet my half-siblings, My mom is a bit mean.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

9 September 2010 (?) - So I just got into contact with my two younger half-siblings. I've never had any contact with them and didn't even know they existed till a few years ago. These are my dad's kids (I don't have contact with my dad) We are planning to meet. Both our ...

Do men get PMS?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for a year and eight months, and have been engaged for the past five months. I have been confused by the way he acts sometimes. I had a family dinner with my parents and his parents. Earlier, or before the dinner, he ...

What can I do to help myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - I desperately need help with this so forgive me for making it such a long essay of a statement. Before I lay my dilemma down before your eyes, I must ask that you don't judge me too harshly. Yes I know who I am, yes I have many good friends, no I do ...

Love hate relationship, we fight all day then go to bed loving each other?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together 4 years off and on we live together n we have love hate relationship we fight all day about who does more, leaving messes, people comming over, dishes, money, and groceries. he also thinks that i pick on him ...

Slapped infront of my kids!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - my wife i both cheated i finally came o realize this wasnt the path we both should be on for our kids sake and our as well but just when i thought it was to good to be true i was slapped in the face only this time he was around my kids it crushed me ...

How can I stop psychologically abusing my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I am afraid I am destroying my relationship with my boyfriend. I am always challenging the things he says and making him feel as if he's wrong to have said them, even though they're nothing important - like him expressing that he likes a film I ...

I keep pushing men away! What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I feel like a mental case, I was in love and engaged to be married, i kept leaving cause i was unhappy, but now that it is all over after 4 yrs and it ended about 7 months ago...im finding it hard to get with any other guy. im okay when there is...

I don't want to be alone, but there's no spark in this relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I think I should break-up with my boyfriend, but im terrified of being single! We've been together since christmas and he had apparently really liked me for quite a while before that.....i had just come out of a bad relationship and was just loo...