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writes:how do i show my boyfriend i wasnt lying about being true to him while he was away. someone mistakenly called my bf by a different name. thinkin it was one of my friends. (they kinda look alike). this friend had once visted me on campus and ended spending the night coz he was too drunk to drive home. (nothing happened). at that time he was abroad schooling for three years and i had agreed to wait for him to return. now he believes i hooked up with him. hes not in the country at the moment so he cant explain to him what really happened. i had been honest and true to my word. but he just wont believe me.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 You can only tell your side of events to him, if he doesnt believe you theres nothing you can do.
Its not up to you to prove your telling the truth to him part of what makes a strong relationship is trust and if he has none for you then its not a good thing.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 There is little you can do to change someone's mind once they've made it up.
You have to explain what happened being 100% truthful. If he won't listen, that's his problem.
Still, someone else calling him by the wrong name is very shakey grounds to accuse someone of cheating. I'd venture he's looking for an excuse to get out of the relationship or has cheated himself and is redirecting his guilt toward you.
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