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anonymous
writes:Okay so about a year and a half ago, I was at a small house party with a few friends and I met a guy, I was only 16, and although I wasn't a virgin, sex was the last thing on my mind. Me and this guy fancied each other and we exchanged phone numbers and before the night was over we kissed a few times. We began to text, meet, we kissed a lot, then after a couple of weeks we started going out. I fell for him big time, like you wouldn't even belive, he is the nicest most honest beautiful genuine man you could ever meet, and to this day we're still together. But after 17 months of been together we haven't had sex. I'm 18 and he's 23. So it's not as if were kids. I think he loves me back, he says he does, but he says he won't have sex till he's married, he's very old fashioned. But to see him you wouldn't believe, he's the biggest flirt and touchy feely person in the world, we've done stuff, but it's not the same. And atm I am very sexually frustrated and horny all the time. Every time I see him I just want to pound on him haha, even though I kinda understand. I just don't get it! I wouldn't ever force him, but surely by now he should of got the fact that I love him more than anything and I'm not using him! Id never cheat on him! And i dont want to end it with him, What can I do?????x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): Hi,
This takes me back!!. You sound like my 1st love. We used to be touchy feely with each other and have some very heavy snogging sessions. She wanted to "go somewhere quiet" so we could be intimate, but I didnt (not that I didnt want her..was worried about getting her pregnant (didnt know much about contraception back then))
But I did this out of respect for her, and I wanted to get to know her....anyways we split up ....but have recently got in contact again and the feelings are still there. We are now making up for lost time!! ;) and getting married next yr
You could always buy some sex toys that might help you out with this until you get married.
Good Luck
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 All you can do is at this point is be patient with him. He sounds lovely! But, if he wants to wait, look up other alternatives to satisfy you. Meanwhile, focus on the emotional aspects of your relationship, build it so that your love blossoms into something powerful and then, one day, don't be surprised if he tells you that you are that special, lucky girl who will have him heart, body, and soul. He's one of those rare men who values his body and you'll show him your love and respect better if you're patient and don't push. Wish ya the best!
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (29 September 2010):
Then wait until you are married...After that...hehe...Make up for lost time.
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reader, BeautifulCapricorn  +, writes (29 September 2010):
just be patient n wait.
do u know how many guys would pounce on u without loving u?
it is admirable to find a guys who loves but want to wait till he is married before sex.... he is the type of guy tht u keep.
u wont die if u dont have sex, trust me.... im 24 and i am a virgin, i get horny all the time but it is controllable.
that is his decision, so understand him.
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