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writes:i'm 18 and i have this boyfriend i i'm with for 9 months. he was so sweet and charming the first 2 months but then he started to be very controlling with me.he tells me what to wear, he even forbidden me of adding my pictures on facebook, he gets very angry if i don't do what he says, tells me that all his friends say he's better looking than me and that i'm ugly, he tells me he has thrown his future in a very good university for me although he's lying because no college accepted him. he even told me that the guys i know think of me as a **** and i should not talk or say a single word to any male except him or he will leave me.he is like that for a week and then he becomes the sweetest guy on earth for a few days and then when he's sure i changed my mind and i will not break up he's back to being controlling.i'm sick of this, every time i tried to leave he does every thing to make me feel guilty and get me backand now i'm so attached to him that i'm afraid of being alone if i leave him.what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): i think you should leave him.
no sweet guy says he is better looking than his GF, that's very bad thing to say.
if he love you, he would say he is better and lie about his future, even if he made sacrifices he wouldn't say it that way to you.
don't be afraid, you'll find someone who really loves you and adore you.
best luck
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reader, MsVick  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 He is abusive, check out this website for more information: http://www.thereislifeafterabuse.com/Page7.html#Ab%20Rel
Anyone who tries to control you and keep you from having friends is most likely abusive and insecure. He wants you all to himself so that he can treat you as he wishes and you will have no where to run.
Don't let this guy bully you, take control of your own life and tell him to leave you alone and never come back.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): ur too young for this!!!! scared to be alone??!! ur teenager!!!!!
girl, the reason why he is so control is because he has low self esteem, he is full of insecurity.
dont let that happen to u! leave him!!!
if u dont leave him now and let this go on, when u r like in ur thirties (if u come to ur senses)u will look back at ur life n see how much time n energy u wasted on him.
he is manipulative! u dont want someone like that.... as a woman, i rather be alone than be with someone like that!
n as far as being alone .... there r too many guys on this earth for u to think that u will be alone
LET HIM GO!!!!
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