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Archived questions from: 26 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why would he do this? I love him so much...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - me and my ex was together 2 years, we always had a good loving relationship. Im 19 and hes 22. However last year our elationship fell apart when i fell pregnant. He comes most of the time to see our son and over the past 2 months we have been ...

Divorced or bereaved dad - or is it the same thing? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - As a divorced dad - now with a new lady partner (NB: I live alone) - seeing my children home (they are 50 miles away) - and saying goodbye to my partner hurts me so much I do not know what to do for the best. I feel that I am living a real be...

I don't know if he wants to sort things out or just wants me to shut up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - hey im stuck and dont understand guys behaviour. I have previously wrote up if any of you remember that my friend was barely speaking to me, he would never make any effort with me to make converstaion but he was fine with everyone else. It got ...

How do we get out of this rought patch we've hit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I've been dating this girl for almost five months. Before her i was in an abusive relationship with someone else who constantly put me down and made me the most insecure person in the world. My current girlfriend and i have just recently been ...

My boyfriend is like 2 different people and I don't know which one I'm getting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - Hey. my bf of 3 years wants to move out. he says he needs space from me and he's miserable living in our home. i've been paying the rent, bills, buying the groceries, doing the cleaning and taking care of his dogs. he spent this past summer sleeping ...

The first few months were awesome but lately she seems to be treating me differently.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been going out for about five months now. The first few months were awesome but lately she seems to be treating me different. She gets agitated by the stupid little things i do or say..the ones that used to make her laugh. ...

How can my dad leave and show he doesn't care about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - A few months ago a bad thing happened on my dads side of the family. My older cousin killed himself. My parents are divorced and my dads family lives in flordia, so my dad started going down there for months and months at a time, i couldnt believe ...

Guys are so confusing! Come on now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - So it's been about 3 weeks that weLve been broken up. My ex and I and He's stating that "I'm glad we're friends, It's better than nothing at the moment"....WTF?? I know, I like being his friend to but why does he continue to flirt with me, have sex ...

Should I try to apologize or talk to him after 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I don't know if this is right place to ask. He was a really good friend of mine. I was really having a bad day at that time, I lost my job, he said something that really bringing me down, not an insult, but nothing positive. I was stupid enough to ...

I'm not sure what to do now that my feelings for him seem to have changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

26 September 2010 (?) - For the past couple of weeks, my boyfriend and I have been having disagreements. He thinks I'm being hypocritical, and I think a lot of things he says to me come off as condescending and rude. We've been together for more than a year and a half, and ...

Her alcoholism and depression are making me sad and confused. What's her deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - Me and my ex broke up four months after her dad died. She told me she had severe depression. She also told me she's an alcoholic and used to be a cutter and that the day we split she really felt the old urges to cut herself again. Naturally this ...

He hurt me so bad before I don't know if I can trust him to not hurt me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I split up from my boyfriend at the start of June. We went out for 6 months during which me and my friends think he treated me badly, it was both our first relationship and we had been building up to it for years and are both 16 years old. we had ...

Why is my boyfriend so angry and why did he stop responding to my messages?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - know it sounds childish but Need advice to handle this prickly situation...wid my bf..? ok my bf and me have been dating for 10 months...and yes he has some trust issues cos he has been cheated on before.He is pretty quick tempered..and moody at...

He puts the qualification before me now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is training for a new career [4yr qualification] and it means he is very busy. I accept this and am being very understanding. But the problem is that he's never there when I need him cos he puts the qualification before me now. I don't ...

How can I get our friendship back on track after I told him I didn't really like his sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I told someone that i didnt enjoy his sex now hes ignoring me but he's really sweet and i miss him we were friends before anything..how can i get our friendship back on track? ...please help! :(...

Why is he saying these hateful and hurtful things about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - Hey all, well this is my problem. My now ex, who I was with for 9 months, suddenly dumped me out of the blue, gave me no reason (not a real reason anyway - something like Im not ready to be committed) - then 2 weeks later has a new girlfriend, is ...

When will he be a man and not a little boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 22. Unmotivated, lacks any discipline and has absolutely no direction in life. My boyfriend has four crazy sisters. His mother and sister never finished high school. That same sister will have two kids before the age of twenty-on...

I'm confused and dying inside, please help me save my marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 17 years (we've been best friends for 26) and have 2 teen children. For the most part, we are very close. He seems to have issues though about hiding things from me and lying about them. We used to fight almost ...

I don't like my family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - My father has 4 elder brothers - 1 brother and 3 sisters. They've always been united and got along excellent. They're really supportive when one of them has problems, they're always THERE, "one for all and all for one". I honestly appreciate this, ...

Broke up with boyfriend of 6 years because he wouldn't propose!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - First of all, this really sucks. I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we have been through a lot. I'm currently in graduate school and he moved to be with me. The only problem is he hasn't proposed. It's not like he's one of those guy...

He says we are just mates but I want more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - dear cupid I found this website on being noisey on advice things and now its my turn lol Basically ive got a f**k Buddie and recently we have gotton on really well, basically i prob see him most days and have a little kiss and thats it, ...

Two weeks before our wedding day she left!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - So my partner of 6 years left me 2 weeks before our wedding day because she decided she doesn't love me anymore and needs time to sort out her feelings. I know the reasons why she doesn't love me anymore, and I've talked to her about it a few time...

She just doesn't seem interested so what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - i am 19 yrs old and i told a 18yr girl ive known for years that i was into her, that i was attracted to her and that i thought she was beautiful. ( she's single,never had a boyfriend ) i told her this when i was on vacation through e-mail. When ...

I finally got a nice boyfriend so why do I think about somebody else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I finally got a bf and he is the nicest,sweetest,awesomest bf but for some reason i keep thinking about this guy i had a crush on before we got together!...

My partner has been of no help to me, despite all my help and support of him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - i've been with my partner for 4yrs. in that time i've helped him doing jobs for his family, helped renovate his flat and spend my free time chasing around doing the things he wants to do, all of which i enjoyed. the problem is that i've had a rather ...

Can she really be this evil?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - I really need your help. I had a relationship with a woman from work and it ended a few months ago. Since then she's kept her distance from me at work and has had a string of bad relationships (sometimes two or three at a time). In the last cou...

How to trust again and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - How do I learn to trust someone again, when I got dumped by my ex completely out of the blue and when things were going well? It makes me feel insecure now, that it could happen again...

10 years, 2 kids, is my boyfriend gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - is my boyffriend gay? im in 10 years deep with kids. am i paranoid or is my gut feeling right? is my boyfriend gay? we met at a rave 10 yrs ago, he seems straight with all the hetero porns and magazines in his room and all the sex we had, however,...

I need to do something to get the spark back in our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - Hey hieee, I am Kaustav from India.I m in Love with this girl for almost 2 years now.Recently I had gone for a Trip to Nepal with my male friends for almost a month.We were in in constant touch with her on the phone though.B...

Okay, what is wrong with me that I can't stop thinking about this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - okay what is wrong with me? I just got out of a very bad long relationship. ran into an guy i knew in high school. went out on a 2 dates with him and then i suggested we b friends bcus im not ready for a sexual relationship yet and he wanted t...

Dumped out of the blue, should I contact him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I'm 23 and was dating my bf for nearly a year and everything was going well. Then one day he calls me out of the blue and says he wants to breakup. I was in shock, we hadn't been fighting at all. He said tat he wasn't attracted to me anymore and ...

Have I done something wrong.. I am not able to decide for myself...Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - Hi, I had a good relationship with my ex-gf(that's what I always thought) but when I started my new job, I was unable to spend the same amount of time with her as I previously did. Meanwhile, she got close to my best friend(Mr. A). She used to ...

Social problems affecting dating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - I am a young looking 32 year old single male who has never dated. I have lived independently for almost 10 years. Recently my mother has taken an interest in my love life and asked why I haven't found someone yet. I guess this reopens the p...

Do I stay and hope it works out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I am 4 months pregnant, and have been with my boyfriend/fiance for almost a year now. We get into these horrible arguments and will call me some really hurtful names, names that he knows kills me inside. I tell him how I feel and how depressed I am ...