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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I've done everything I can to make him happy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hi me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and half years and we have 2 kids together. i recently found out he cheated on me with his ex not too long ago, he tells me he was drunk and it didnt mean anything but he slept there also so i dont ...

The difference between the sexes, or getting over a break-up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - So, last Saturday (9/25/10)I broke up with my boyfriend because I felt he wasn't fulfilling my sexual needs. He was my first love and we were together for three years. Because we have been together for so long, we are also best friends. Therefore we ...

Need advice on dating a cop!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I have been officially dating a cop for about 6 months, but we met 9 months ago. He is a loving, thoughtful, and easy going guy. We have a pretty good relationship the only problem is my trust issues that I have, and it's mainly because I have hea...

Relationship confusion ... Is it normal for me to question our relationship after 2 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - There are so many "views" and comments out there that makes me more confused; "you'll know when you meet the right guy", "love is all you need", "there is more to a relationship than love", "soulmate", etc. I am in a 2 year relationship. We...

Ashamed and disgusted that I lied about being pregnant twice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - When I was younger (Im now 27), I had really low self esteem and a drug problem. When I started a relationship with a guy, it would always end badly because I would become clingy or too much for them. I could not deal with this rejection and on 2 ...

I cant deal with the fact all my ex's have new girlfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - In the past couple of days Ive come to realise that all my exes (4) have got new girlfriends and for some reason it really bothers me. Apart from one (the love of my life am still not over him), the other 3 I dont even have feelings for anymore so ...

Why cant I seem to leave this guy behind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I've been texting with a guy I met at uni years ago. The thing is we ended up having cybersex, I didn't really have fun but I thought maybe we could date sometime go put or something, the thing is he is not willling to and appears and disappears in ...

We seem to be fighting every day.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half. He's 5 years older then me and works full time while I go to college. We used to never fight but lately it seems everyday he starts a fight with me because if I don't answer his text ...

He wants a break, but what if he doesn't have any answers by the end of the week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I am looking for some guidance and maybe some encouragement during the hardest week of my life. My bf and I have been together for almost a year and 8 months and just recently he has decided he needs time to think and we are taking a break f...

Was my boyfriend's behaviour appropriate?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is in real estate. He went to a closing with his female agent. even though she lives closer to the closing site, she drove back to the office to meet y boyfriend so they can go together. I had no problem with that but after the ...

Should I meet up with my holiday fling? The whole situation is so complicated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I worked for some friends abroad for a year. and while I was there i got involved with my mothers friends husband (Im 18, he's 34) The affair was short and I expected to go home at the end of my work and forget all about it. Problem is I just cant!! ...

Stuck between my boyfriend and my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Guys I am feeling horrible at the moment. I just talk bad about my good friend. Ok maybe I should let you guys know a bit of what happen before seeking for your advice. About one month ago, my boyfriend and my good friend (A) and me plus another ...

The man I love has HIV, how can I help him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi there, There is guy I work with. He is such a great guy and I've really started to get on really well with him. But he said to me we could never go out because we work with each other. I kind of accepted this and moved on. He then got a boyfr...

He said we are on a break, what does that mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Well my boyfriend came to talk to me last night and asked for a break. I wouldn't call it asked though cause I did not really have a choice, and I know why we are having this break. There are a lot of things in his life he needs to get together ...

Fiancee and confusion! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] hey guys this is long story but ill try to make it as small possibleee i could do well with some ''outside'' advice so im going out with this girl... its been 11 months.. but in the beggining it was really...

Falling in love with my brother in law

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - i'm 38 years old and i fell in love with my brother in law who moved with us recently, my husband is always travelling and doesn't have much time for me or my kids, who became really attached to their uncle, he is much younger than me and passing ...

Should I approach him saying I saw it and ask if that was the first and last time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - I've posted previously about finding pictures of my bf and some other guy on my bf's spare phone that I needed to use, and came across that.. when my bf gave me the phone he commented saying enjoying snooping around where your nose doesn't belong. ...

We are thinking about marriage but I have a few problems, can anyone advise me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - hello to all, this story is quite long. but please read it and advice. i am 16 currently. i am in a relation with someone. the problem is that i feel he is opposing too much on me though he loves me very much. am actually the 3rd girl in his life...

How do I find the strength to leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles I really hope you can help me. I have been in a relationship for close to three years now and for the duration of it I believe my partner has been cheating on me with different women. Back in March something wasnt right so b...

I'm struggling to accept this relationship because of her passionate kiss with another man before she met me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi All, My mind is in total confusion. So please Can any one help regarding this. One girl is in love with me. Even me also just started loving her. Actually she was loving a another guy before in college days. They were friends from 8 months an...

I cheated on him with his brother, then he found a new girlfriend but came back to me.....and now he it seems he is cheating on me with his ex! Where does this leave me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Dearcupid,i had a lover of one year and i cheated on him with his brother and he dump me,after a year i found that he has a girlfriend of nine moths,they had a misundrstood and she dumped him,and i startd dating him again.they have been separated ...

Is a second chance possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Me and this girl have known each other for 8 years now through contact over the internet. Earlier this year we found out our mutual love for each other, we were in regular contact and loved just taking to each other. After I graduated I decided to ...

My husband can't decide if he loves me or not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - When i met my husband six years ago, he was the love of my life, and I knew it right away. In our first conversation, he told me he would marry me. I thought he was crazy, but he was right. Except, two weeks after the beginning of our ...

I lied about my age when we first started talking, and now I need to tell him the truth but I don't know how....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I'm 16 years old, I've been meeting up with someone who I like very much for about a year now, and it's just been meeting and hanging out a bit in the past but now it's starting to be more like it could really go somewhere despite obstacles. which ...

I'm horrified I have let it get this far when we are both in relationships, but part of me loves feeling cared for again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I'm... In a bit of a pickle. I have recently moved in with my boyfriend of about 8 months, and thought everything was cool. I even went out and joined a local community group. There, I met this guy. He's kind, caring, likes giving hugs, compliments ...

Am I being taken for granted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Am i being taken for granted. I feel that my partner of 3 years are taking me for granted. His has two kids living with us, twin 15 (boy and girl) and they are great children but very lazy. Never help with cooking, giving a chore results in moodi...

My fiancee wont tell me about her past and it depresses me whenever I think about it....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Ok, there's been some things eating at me recently, I am 20 years old, engaged with a baby, my fiancé is 25. She won't tell me how Many people she's been with becuase it'd make her feel like a "slut" she told me it was over 15, but was married ...

We are not having sex and she doesn't seem to want to resolve the situation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - After 3 years, my woman now says she is too tired or has a headache, etc...something always to put off sex. It used to be off the hook. We used to do it twice a day.... Now she takes trips without me, works late everyday, won't hang with me on ...

My kids hope their father will come back; how do I introduce the new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Been living with my live in partner for more than 6 yrs, we have 2 kids.He works abroad and i found out that he has other woman there.We separated for only a year and i start moving on.I have a boyfriend and he wants to meet my kids.Is it ok if i ...

I want this to work, but in person he didn't seem sorry

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - so i have been dating this guy for about a month and at first things were good. he was very sweet, he always wanted to hang out, he would compliment me all the time, he would make me feel wanted. however, this week things seemed to change. we got ...

He says she's just a friend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - My husband has been sending texts to his "friend" at work that says things like - only if you caddy for me while topless and nice ass! He says that she is just a friend and that he's sorry and didn't mean to disrespect me, but what should I think?...

He disrespects me, should I leave him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 9 yrs and have 2 children. We've had many issues in the past with his dishonesty and our sexless marriage. I am the one who always wanted sex, but after a few years of not getting it, I became numb and pretty ...

He smokes weed every day and I hate it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - my bf smokes weed every day and im really starting to hate it. i recently decided to show him a few articles about the effects of weed and he just laughed and said he already knows what hes getting himself into. i dont know if i should break up with ...

A snapshot of my lonesomeness

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Not a relationship question but i wrote this recently, after getting out of a long relationship...Its kind of a snapshot of my lonesomeness, wondering what the next chapter in my life will be(even though i am more than happy its over i still felt ...

How do I organize the household chores with my live-in boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

28 September 2010 (?) - I live with my boyfriend. As of late, we've been having issues splitting chores around the apartment. It's become a pretty big issue with us. I feel like he doesn't do anything as far as cleaning up when things are dirty, but he thinks if he makes ...

I can't cope with my wife's mood swings!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - i've been married for a month. its so very very hard. She is on medication for depression and she sometimes has described her self as bi-polar - in which case, if that is the case, is the prozac she is on appropriate? How things go is that thi...

What can I do to get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hey My partner and I have been together for almost three years now, but after our first year together he cheated. He broke it off wth me long after he did this but didnt actually tell me had done it untill a friend of his told me. We got back toge...

She says we're not having enough fun

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - help, my GF is considering leaving me, she thinks we are incompatable because i dont do enough fun things with her and do enough nice things for her....i feel shes borderline taking me for granted. shes been out to see her ex and came h...

I need to console my ex without pressure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5173 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend left me about two months ago due to me being unfaithful. We've spoken every day since. Sometimes it's good, and other times not so much. However, we both still love each other very much. A couple of weeks ago, we ended up getting ...

Help me because I don't know how to get over her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - hi its been over i month me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up, neither of us really wanted to break up but it just ended up happening and i love her to death but we both did some stupid things that we cant forgive eachother for in that month, ...

Which person is the most insecure?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - This is a question for all to answer male/female young/old,single/married.who would you say is the most insecure person the female because she has realised that after 7yrs together,45yrs old and a child the man she loves and wants to spend her life ...