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female
age
36-40,
*eccamega
writes:I've been seeing a new guy for about 1.5 months. He is 21 and I'm 23. Like him a lot. But he forgot that we had plans. This is like the second time. And the other week we were supposed to go out on a date. But he showed up drunk, with his friend. And they got kicked out of the venue. I was livid, I had driven a long way to get there. We had a huge fight. We didn't speak for a week. He apologized. But now he forgot about me again. I told him that his behaviour sucked. That if he isn't interested, I'll go and meet someone else. He said fine, do that. He didn't care at all! I didn't expect that answer. I'm so confused. Before this he said he wanted to be exclusive and asked when he'll meet my parents. Why is he sabotaging?
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reader, escribanus  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 He do not care about you, get the message dear. Dump that guy and start having more selfrespect.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 Only a month and a half and he just forgot about you, no apologies??? And he shows up drunk to a date with a pal, and is so obnoxious that he gets kicked out of the place?
Girlfriend, CaringGuy said it once and I'll say it again - dump him! Don't introduce him to your parents, introduce him to the slam of your front door in his face. This relationship is already putting up red flags and he is already behaving like a jerk. It's not going to get any better. You deserve a lot better than this, this guy sounds like a sleazebag!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 September 2010):
You've been dating for 1.5 months and it's already gone wrong once. You said you'd meet someone else and he didn't care. He turned up drunk to meet you on a date. Come on, wake up. He's a loser through and through. Dump him and find a guy who isn't such an arrogant idiot.
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