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Archived questions from: 10 September, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is he a FWB or a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - my friend doesn't know if shes boyfriend and girlfriend with this guy shes been having sex with. she likes him alot. but every time she wants to see him, he says yes we will meet up but then when she calls him he would tell her hes busy or not...

How do I change where we are in our relationship right now and how do I make things better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating a man for almost 2 years now. I am 20 years old and he is 30. He is one of the most serious relationships ive been in. i dated in school but nothing serious and i wasnt sexually active with any of them. And then when i graduated i ...

I told him I was pregnant, he said he was fine but now he's not talking to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I think I'm losing the father of my baby to be. I told him that I was pregnant and he flipped!!! Then he said he was fine! But now he isnt talking to me? Im so confused. I want to keep the baby but would it be the best for it? I dont want to be a ...

Found out booty call guy no longer returning phone calls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - Here's the deal: A woman finds out that F Buddy/Booty Call had a GF. When the GF was told of his actions he in turn got very angry and left very nasty messages. Now the woman hasn't heard from him in several weeks. What do you make of his...

Boyfriend signed up to dating site and exchanging numbers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I an an issue. I've been with my bf for 6 months the first 4 moths were great. I fell for him and he admitted falling for me. I only saw him weekends nad ocassional sleep overs. but the last 2 monhths he started actind diff. Distant, cold and ...

I keep having dreams about my ex and I don't want to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - Hi I need help or advice. I been broken up with my babys dad for about 2 years. He has a new family now n I have a boyfriend sumwhat u can say.anyway I knew it would take time to forget my ex not completely cuz that's inpossible but at least my love ...

My boyfriend's female friend is rude to me and he just doesn't see it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I am not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2years. He has a female friend who is very rude and disrespectful to me. After awhile he would begin to see some of the stuff and would not allow her to interrupt me or pull him away ...

All the drama with his ex is making him question our relationship. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I'm confused n don't know what to do please help? Me n my boyfriend have been together for a couple months now but have had quit a bit of problems but they weren't about us. He has kids with his ex who's is now seeing someone else but always caps n ...

I've stuck by him despite what he did to me. Now he won't talk to me because I slapped him when I was drunk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I slapped the man I adore to death this weekend when I was drunk, well we were both drunk. He now doesn't want to speak or talk to me. I clearly don't want this, what should I do? A bit of back round on us. Him and I have been on and of...

I need a break from my attention seeking son, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - hey, since i got with my fiance 2years ago, it seems like everyone is against us. we've both lost 3/4 of our mates, hes lost his because they've tried splitting us up and making up rumours. iv lost mine because my so called mate tried it on with him ...

He said part of him wants to be with me and part of him doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - Me and my bf have only been together a couple months but have already been through so much together. He tells me he loves me and I won't lose him but last night he told me that part of him wants to be with me and part of him don't. What does that ...

I can't bring myself to trust him after his emotional affair, that he doesn't think was an affair!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - Were do I start I have been married for 15 years with 3 smalll childern I would not say it been happy but I have learned to deal with issues. My husband for year verbablly abused and emotionally drained me after he found out c years ago that I had a ...

I'm a bit concerned that I moved on from my ex too quickly, I don't think I'm over him.

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10 September 2010 (F) - Alright, I had my first boyfriend 5 months ago. Our relationship had its ups and downs and we constantly fought We ended up breaking up in July due to a girl, who happens to be his current girlfriend. I recently started dating a friend of mine, 3 ...

Am I crazy to think we could ever recover from him secret visits to massage brothels for 'happy endings'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I have been together with my partner for 4 years. We recently got married and I have found out that he has visited a massage parlour/brothel for massage and "happy endings". After initially denying it, he has admitted, after I found a website of the ...

How can I trust him if I know he is going to lie to me to keep me 'sweet'? I'm 6 months pregnant.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - [Mod note: the title selected by the poster "should i stay or should i go??" has been previously used.] me and my partner have been together for almost a year now but have known each other as friends for about 12 years and im 6 months pregnant with...

I feel I have to change myself to look like these pornstars he looks at daily......

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - hi im 25 and live with my partner of 6years,we have two children,together..we have a great sex life,we watch porn together sometimes and i know he also watches it a lot online by checking history. I dont mind him watching as I know all men do its n...

If this were your partner's past, would you be as upset as I am?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - I met my girlfriend on a popular on-line dating website. Her story was this - she had been doing on-line dating for 5 years, but had never been out on more than 2 dates with anyone she met on the internet. She is a divorced mother of one child, and ...

Time is not healing me at all! What should I do about my boy situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I’m 15, never dated and never kissed and really f**ked over. There’s this boy. Let’s call him x. I’ve been inappropriately close to him 3 times in the past year. We became tight over internet chat over the July holidays. He always made me...

I am completely crazy about her and I can't forget her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - I met this woman on a language exchange website. I'm a 31 y/o from England and she is a 32 y/o from Brazil. We have been talking a lot on MSN and we become really good friends. But now I have fallen completely in love with her. But she has a ...

How do women deal with former lovers who were better?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - How hard, or dissapointing is it for you women to go from a guy who is very well hung and mind blowing in bed to a guy who is just average in both the size and skill departments. Let's say that the well hung guy was great in bed, and you were only ...

Am I a sucker if I take her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - It is a long story but i think its important to say what happened leading up to today. My girlfriend and i have been in a relationship for 4 years this past august. She came to me last week and said she needed space and and it came to a shock...

I woke up naked in bed with my girlfriend's sister and I had not even been drinking! Should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - i woke up naked in bed with my girlfriend's sister.i got no memories on how this happened.all can remember is that i was invited to her birtday party.by her sister i had two soft drinks and thats it.should i tell my girlfriend about it or should i ...

How do I convince him that taking a break for few months is not a really good idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - Hi My and me bf are together for an year. We are in LDR for a month and my bf says we need to take a break for couple of months and see what happens after that. i.e no Phone, Email, or IM chat anything. totally cut from each other for 2 months. I ...

I do not believe my girlfriend...has she cheated?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - My partner and I have been seeing each other for about 15 months and she has lied to me on numerous occasions but denies cheating on me. I love her very much but her explanations for things that she has done leaves me doubting her. Here is ...

Should I keep it going because I love him so much and am afraid to be without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - our relationship has lasted almost two months... in the beggining he was so great i thought i could find nothing better then this and this was all i ever dreamed of in a guy but then exactly after a month hit we started arguing over the silliest...

Has he broken up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - Hi I am seeing this guy for the past 1 year. FOr the past 2 months we are in LDR (Long distance relationship) since i moved to different location cause of my work. Would return back after 3-4 months. For nearly 2 weeks my bf is acting really w...

My boyfriend's father is standing in the way of us getting married and the whole situation is really hurting my boyfriend....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating with my boyfriend for few months now and he wants us to get married. The fact is they had their onw conflict with his father before we even meet. Now he is asking his father to go to my family for marriage negotiations but...

Will he come back to me? He never responded when I told him I loved him.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - Ok so me and my bf have been dating for 13 months,everything was perfect, I love him dearly and still do. But the past couple weeks we would just be arguing about stupid things, and it just continued. So last week we went out and everything was ...

My ex has tracked me down after all these years, but she is married! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - Hi, I had a wonderful/fantastic relationship with an ex (Sophie),we even talked about marriage. We were always 100% honest with each other.Anyway we split some time ago as I was working abroad and she couldnt handle a LDR. She recently tracked ...

I think my girlfriend is cheating would someone please help me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - hi i think my girlfriend is cheating on me. we've been dating over a year now, the first few months was fine, but now alot of stuff has changed, and I was wondering could anyone help me out on what to do, and here are some reason why i think sh...

Should I walk away or just step back and wait for a bit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for the past 3 months. We're both in our late twenties, he was very into me initially and then we agreed to be exclusive to each other after we started becoming intimate. We've had a lot of problems as I had caught him ...

The question has been bugging me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - Ok, we all know that when you have a F*** Buddy it's just about sex, there isn't much of a friendship there or whatever. So, my ex fbuddy still contacts me because he was adament he wanted to stay friends (he now has a girlfriend), to be honest i ...

How do I tell boyfriend he's a little jealous and I need my space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for like 1 and a half years. We get along great, we always have. We've only fought once. I feel safe and comfortable around him and when he kisses me there are definite sparks. We talk about getting married a ...

(asker's original title) The One Who Got Away ..........

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - When I was 18yrs old I started college. I met a guy who I thought was great; through mutal friends. At first he acted like he really wanted to get to know me. He would message me all the time and we would always chat online. He messaged me more ...

How can I stop her making a HUGE mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - Well i finally found myself with the perfect girl for me... i'm the happiest i have ever been in my life. But there is a problem i don't know how to deal with... You see we both just graduated high school and in high school my girlfriend had plans ...

Her boyfriend mistreats her, and I want her to be with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - There is this girl I like, but she has a boyfriend. I'm always there for her when he hurts her and when she is upset with him or he isn't in the picture, my relationship with her is really close... but it seems like at the end of the day it's always ...

She rejected me but now is texting and I don't know how to reply

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - ok so over the summer i really liked this gurl and i thought she liked me back so i tried to kiss her and she said no because she had a boyfriend. well now she just sent me this message on facebook saying "what's up baby. i just wanted to tell y...

I want to be more than friends with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - I am deeply in love with this girl. We dated in 5th grade and we started talking again last school year. She is the perfect girl for me, her personality is so much like mine and she is so beautiful. She just broke up with her boyfriend of a year and ...

Desperate not to be trapped again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I'm 32 years old and am engaged to be married this November. I really think I love my fiance and I'm sure he loves me, but I am terrified of getting married. For starters, I know I have a lot of baggage left over from my first marriage (I did ...

Why couldn't I just be happy to have someone in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - All my life I've run away from relationships only to bounce back into them. I ran away from home at 17 to be with a man who ignored me. I ran away after a traumatic event with my then husband to the Army. I have been running ever since but I hurt ...

Doesn't get things done on time, what should I do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - What does it mean when a man says i am tired of you trying to dictate when I need to do something??? He is the worst procrastinator. I have sat back and tried to let him handle our family business. But he will lie about doing it and it never get...