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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Confused by mixed signals! How can I get her to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi All, Wonder if any girls could help me here? Ive known this girl for some time now and she said at the end of last year she liked me.... I turnt her down as nicely as I could saying that I didnt know her enough and wanted to get to know...

She wants more of a commitment but idk what she means!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are only 15 and 16 and our relationship isn't as strong as it was before. We have been going out for 8 months today and she wants to have some kind of commitment with me but i don't know what to commit to her with. she said she ...

Got back with my gf and she wont get over me sleeping with someone else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me and i slept with someone else because i thought there was no chance that we would get back together. Now we are back together she cant get over it and keeps making me feel really guilty about it ...

She cheated and is unappreciative and I don't want to leave her because she's pregnant.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi everyone! Let me thank you first for reading this topic ,all your advice is really appriciated ! I am in a quite difficult situation now, my girlfriend is pregnant ,but our relationship has been really hard for me ,since this was my f...

Feeling sad! I don't think my boyfriend is the one but don't want to end it either!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Im in my mid twenties, living at home, have a good steady job and a boyfriend of 7 years. I am now utterly depressed. My boyfriend and I were about to fill out a form for a flat but i just broke down in tears and couldn't face doing it. Problem is, ...

Things were great and as soon as we had sex things changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I hope I'm not just avoiding what I already know, but I just want to make sure I'm not over reacting or letting my emotions get the best of me. Ive been dating this guy for about two months. Its a little wierd though because we met over the holidays ...

My boyfriend buys porno mags and hides them but I don't understand!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I was 17 when I fell for my brothers best friend. He was 25. He lived in Alabama and I lived in Michigan but he had come up to visit and that's when we got together. I moved to Alabama on my 18th birthday and I am now 21 years old and he is 28 ...

She has a kinda promiscuous past! how do I deal with this when it comes up?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I've been dating a girl for 7 or so months, and she is great. A little while into dating her, I started to find out that, to put it plainly, she was a huge slut in her past. Not only that, but a lot of the people she was promiscuous with...

His ex is causing trouble! Is he telling the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i`m having a bit of trouble i talked to a girl who claimed to be my boyfriends ex girlfriend and she told me that he asked her out a few weeks ago when we have been going out for 5 months he has already been out with her and she went out with him ...

Should I continue this complicated secret friendship/relationship with a teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - So here is the deal. I was infatuated with my female performance teacher. 47years old, 1 child and a partner. I am 16 years old, graduating in 2 years. Since I have managed to tell her about my feelings for her we became friends. But that was one ...

Issues with my boyfriend, pregnant with his baby, upset by his actions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm in quite a serious dilemma... I met this guy and fell pregnant the second time we slept together. The good news is that we've both stepped up to the plate and decided to embrace our situation. The only problem is, i'm battling to accept is ...

How can I handle having this baby on my own?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hi I am in such a bind and I would like someone to help me please! I am currently pregnant with my 2nd child with the same guy I had my first child with. Well me and him have been broke up for a year now and he does not want nothing to do with me. ...

How do you stop talking to an ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - What is the best way to cut contact from an ex? I am in a very toxic relationship right now and I know that cutting contact is the best thing to do. But how? What if you can't resist yourself but you have to cut contact? I wish it would be that ea...

He didn't respond to my texts! what went wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I met a man online we had two very nice dates in the same weekend. I asked him if he liked me on our first outing he said yes a lot staright away I said I did too. We hugged and cuddeled a bit both times we saw each other, and I mean just hugged - ...

Having dreams of incest and now I can't look my father in the eye, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I've had the same extremely disturbing dream the last couple of nights. My dreams consist of my dad and I... doing something really disgusting with each other. Committing incest. In my dream last night, my dad wanted to go again and I screamed o...

Do husbands always lose interest when their wives age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm so panicked now... When I read this posts ,it looks like there is an epidemic, of marriage goes bad almost like scheduled ,for 20 -25 years. I keep reading about husbands ,who goes off sex, and losing attraction,or just simple luck of love. Me ...

My ex won't talk to me and he's seeing other people and I can't let it go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I feel like I am about to explode this minute. I don't know why but I have been broken up with my ex for a year and I never can seem to let it go. I know he's an asshole as he left me for another girl. I know guys like him don't deserve a single...

He said that I was better off without him for the moment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I am really sad at the moment...im 40 and my boyfriend is the same age, anyway we had a great time on friday and last night he said he was thinking about me on email...we were still exchanging emails and he thought i was in a funny mood with ...

My boyfriend of two years is an alcoholic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of two years is an alcoholic. he use to smoke pot on a daily basis. after we started dating he quit because i didn't approve. i have accepted his drinking because he doesn't do the pot anymore. he has been clean of it for over a ...

She blames me for having HPV.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - So this is kind of a unique situation...My ex girlfriend who I love with all my heart had cancer a few years back and it was very intense for her life and overall emotional state. It is something she would never want to go through again. Initially ...

How do I get out of this sad, draining relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i am 28 and he is 35, the problem is we are always fighting as a result am so drained and dont think the relationship is going anywhere, i want out but he doesnt, we promised each other to change but nothing works.I tried everything to make this ...

She was a virgin and I was a virgin, I lied about being a virgin and she found out. What do I do?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and ...

I want her but she is hanging out with him and I'm hurt...what can I do?

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26 January 2010 (M) - ok so i posted only last night and got one answer that was kinda helpful but you see the girl i like and want (my house mate and my best friend) shes got a guy in her room she said hes just a friends from work and that they are hanging out but ...

I am worried I crossed a line and did major damage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I feel bad about the most recent talk I had with my boyfriend and I don't know if I caused irrevocable damage to us. I am 25 my boyfriend is 20 and age has not been an issue until recently (and it isn't really an age thing anyway, just ...

Is she right for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - I have been with my partner for 5 years and we have been through everything together. I love her dearly but i am scared that my life as i have known it is completely changing and will change forever to suit her values and not mine.We want to be able ...

I cant have the girl I want because she is with another guy and is afraid that she will be blamed for my break-up with my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hello, there is one girl called H that i loved for 1 year. And H loves me too. But right now H has a boyfriend called J and she is afraid to hurt her boyfriend J. And second thing H is afraid of is that other people will think that the reason for ...

I'm feeling confused about our relationship: I like having him around but I cant deal with his mood swings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hi I have been seeing my b/f for around 15 months. In that time he has been moody at times (as most people can be). Last week though, after booking a short break abroad he rang the next day to say cancel as he was feeling unhappy in himse...

While we have been having troubles in the bedroom, he has been secretly asking girls to meet up with him for sex online!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I really need some help and advice. Have what I thought to be a good relationship with my boyfriend, but obviously I don't. He has had some trouble recently in the bedroom (don't need to say anymore) and I have been supportive and reassuring d...

Does he love me? Or what the heck is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Good Day all.Well you see my husband is very rude these 2-4 days. i did nothing wrong at all but he is rude towards me when he wakes up, during the day and after work . he is a bit friendly late at night but he doesnt say goodnight, hold me anymore ...

My online guy already has a girlfriend, what should I do before we get any closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Dear All, I am getting divorced from my husband (our marriage was dead for a long time, this is only making it formal) and broke up with my boy friend of 3 years . I have been single for close to a year. Now there is this guy whom I met on facebo...

How can I get him to "unleash the beast?!"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Ok, I tend to be a sexually "dominant" person in bed. I like control in the bedroom. It's a lot of fun and a turn on for me. However, I do like to be challenged with man-handling and all things that come along with male domination (minus demeaning ...

Worried about my boyfriend's suspicious behaviour

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hey im about 2 months pregnant wit my bf's baby that we planned on having. We are both really excited. Or so i thought.... The past couple weeks he's been acting suspicious. He doesnt come over, doesnt call, doesnt txt, missing Dr appointments. ...

I have cheated and lied to my husband, how can I rebuild his trust?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I really need some help. I have cheated and lied to my husband. And he does not trust me at all.o%! And I know that he will leave me if he can't trust me, we have 2 children together. I love him so much and don't want to loose my family. How can I ...

Even though we used protection I am paranoid now about being pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Well ok I'm 22 years old. Last time my period ended was on December 25. I lost my virginity on the 7 of January. my boyfriend and me had sex three days in a row.. but every single time we used a condom we even checked before and after condoms ...

WIll he 'grow up' without my intervention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hi!!! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and a half and I am 18 now, and he just turned 20. I know that he loves me and I love him too. There is only one problem... I am afraid for our future. I know that I am young but I am ve...

His friends staying over is affecting my sex drive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and have been living together for 3 years. Almost everyday his friends or his brother come over and play either madden or Modern Warfare 2 until late at night and one of his friends ends up sleeping ...

My girlfriend spends a lot of time just thinking ......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Me and girlfriend been dating for couple weeks now, well it is going good by far. She been thinking a lot about stuff like us and she always seem to be down. What can she possibly thinking about? I don't know, it kinda bothers me... What can ...

We share a half sister but I still love her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Well there's this girl, I've known her my whole life. Her brother and I are best friends. I'm in love with this girl. I see her every weekend when I stay the night at her grandma's house. I'm 16 and she's 13. A couple of summers ago I told her that ...

How do I protect myself and my baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I were together for three years and I thought we had a really strong bond. We had a daughter about a year ago. He told me I would never have to work, that we could live wherever I wanted in the world, that he would provide for me. He told ...

I want my ex back in my life ...............

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm wondering whats up.My ex and I hung out. Everything was super good - no awkwardness, we laughed alot/flirted and yet nothing came of it.I thought atleast friends..but I havent heard from him much.Then I thought maybe he just wanted to fool ...

I met a guy online, we met up, we stayed in touch, now he is too busy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I met a guy online. We talked back and forth for about a month through emails, texts, and on the phone before we met in person. The first date was awesome. We both felt that instant connection with each other. We then had a second date and it ...

I have had sex with my cousin but I cant decide if I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i cant decide if im in love with my cousin. he is everything to me. we started talking about 4 years ago now and we are extremely close. we have done alot of sexual things. im 14 almost 15. i would do anything from him. i few weeks ago he told me he ...

Do I worry too much about breast size?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Moderator's Note: link to website removed. I recent found a site where some douche tries selling a PDF manual to convince a wife or girlfriend to get implants. I mean, not all guys are like that obviously, but do really most of them wish their pa...

I introduced my husband to my bi g/f now he can only perform sex with her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Okay, to start off with, I am a bisexual female....I have been with my husband for 10 years...I am 27 and he is 29...We have a wonderful relationship but since I have gotten with this girl and let him join in, he can only get hard and stay hard ...

I really like him a lot and want to make him like me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Ok , so , first of all , i just wanna thank this website and all the people that take the time and amswer questions!!! :) so this may take a bit of explaining , ;) theres this guy that ive had a thing for , for a realyy long time, and i never used...

My wife has cheated on me but I want to save our marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - My wife left me last year. We were together for 5 years married for 3 years. At that time I had nine months of college left. I worked hard in school and my job for her and our two kids. She didn't live with me where I am attending school because ...

My boyfriend doesn't touch me ..............

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - how can i get my boyfriend to touch me.i wonder if he is cheating on me and am i teh problem...

I was caught in a compromising situation at midnight by the police

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - me and my partner got caught with our tops off kissing in a car park at midnight by the police. I have never done anything like this and probs wont again. The police man took my name and done a check and then left...will that be the end of ...

We are constantly at loggerheads and I don't know how to fix it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - if its not one problem its another!!! agian me and my husband are in a crunch... he says i dont treat him with respect and i say he doesn't treat me like the women i am... lol....how can i make our relationship better so we are closer and so i am ...

Trapped into marriage and wanting to get out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi im a 31yr old man who is going through the hardest time of my life at the moment,these are my problems. 9yrs ago i finished my apprentiship and had enough cash to head overseas. At this stage i meet a girl that i was very clear to about my plans ...

This girl is driving me crazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - She teases me (makes fun of me). Whenever I talk to her she gets really loud like if I make fun of her she pretends to get mad (she almost hit me!). She's not a loud/flirty person at all and kinda shy. We usually don't talk (usually shes th...

I am feeling drawn towards a much older man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I really like this man who is much older than me.I am 25, and he is 44, and i am finding it difficult to talk to him about my feelings. We have known each other a couple of years now. At first, i gave him space as he had just come out of a long term ...

I keep questioning my boyfriend about his feelings for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - so my boyfriend who is 21 and i(17)been dating for 11 months now. we haven't had sex. I feel like he might be cheating on me or has lost interest in me. we live 3 hrs away and he comes to my house every weekend, we are on the phone every night till ...

I thought my feet were firmly planted on the ground and then ... I fell in love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I am a college student (sophomore in my undergrad). I'm 18 going on 19 this year, and I am extremely mature, proffessional, and intelligent for my age. i'm level headed and care about my future a lot. I'm not trying to sound cocky here at all, just ...

I went too far with him on our first date, now I am worried if it made him think less of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hello guys!! I have a question: I went out on a date with a guy I met at my college. At first I didn't even want to go out with him although i liked hiom because I had a huge crush on someone else. But when we went out I had an amazing time with...