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Archived questions from: 15 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Does he just need time... or is it really over??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I've been with a guy whom i fell in love with we have been going together for about a year. everything was perfect never argued till one day during the summer of 09 i told him i had gotten a call from my ex husband's friend whom i had stupidly slept ...

Four months on I am still letting what he does affect me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I posted a question on here a few months ago about an internet 'relationship' with a big age gap which lasted for 8 years... to save repeating what I asked here is the link: http://www.dearcupid.org...

She has told me what she did with her ex and I think it makes her look easy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now and i love her but she dated my friend a little before me and her but that's ok I know about that all along that's not a big deal. What I just found out is that thay started dating the last week of ...

Despite my good intentions I just can't let it go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - HELLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP! You may remember posts I have made regarding my husband's 'texting affair' and the 'kind' gesture of his 'lady' friend when I confronted her, telling me he had done it before. I also discovered that he lied for 8 years ab...

I just wish I could understand him .........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - What do you do when your friend/ crush found someone else? Its not like he’s going out with anyone but today he said goodbye to his gal pal and she said goodbye Robbie Bobbie. I was totally heartbroken! I didn’t even talk to him on the bus because I ...

I am miserable when he is around, I am dreading him coming home!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I'm really confused. I don't know if I want to be with the father of my child anymore. I care about him a lot and I know he cares about me but we have so many problems that I just don't think we'll be happy. I tell my friends about the things he has ...

Trying to understand why my gf started to hang out with a bad group of friends. Any insight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hi, i recently broke up with my ex-girlfriend 3 months ago. And i REALLY need help with this situation. During our relationship we had our ups and downs but it was mainly because of this groups of "lesbian girls" That would start stuff and try to...

He isn't himself lately. What's up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hey :) for the past few days my boyfriend has been acting strangely. We go to different schools in the same town so we only get to see each other a few times a week, but when we do he's always happy and funny like usual. He is also happy and funn...

I don't understand why our relationship is this way! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - in the begining we met and became friends and both were showing attention in each other, physically, teasing etc ... then we became closer n closer.. anyway later on i kissed her after two months of knowing each other then she sent me a message ...

What good is a marriage separation, living apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - My husband walked out three months ago and we are "separated". We've only been married under two years, and it has always been rocky. What is a separation supposed to mean? Is this something that helps? I don't see it that way, I see it that my ...

I left my bad hubby and then got entangled with the wrong guy, what can I do, how can I meet other men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (?) - I am going through this very bad break up and i do not know how to deal with it. In the past year i have made very bad decisions...i left my husband and that was a good decision because he was hitting me ...but because of the problems in the ...

We broke up with no further contact from her! It seems heartless..what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - I was with w woman for the last ten months in a pretty solid relationship. We started to argue about some differences here and there and big things turned into bigger things. We seemed to not be able to come to an agreement on some things so I ...

Just newly married, and not sure what to think of my husband's female friend! And advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hello.. I am 27 years old, I have a month and a week married, so basically new wed. I have a couple of problems that I would like to share and I would love for someone to tell me another view of my situation. My husband has a female friend at w...

My wife lacks the initiative for sex. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - This question about my wife we got married 16 years, we are from Inda. we both are educated engineers. from the right beginning onwards my wife do not have sexual initiative..always if I need intercourse I have to take initiative. she is healt...

He's into Tranny porn, and talking to him doesn't work as he has a bad temper! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Last week i found my live-in boyfriends stash of Transexual porn. These "girls" are not of the pretty or feminine variety. He begs for Anal sex which I tried and hated because its soooo sore and he doesn't slow down when i ask him to (pain). A...

We split, we continued to communicate, I went on vacation, she found somebody else, I decided I wanted her afterall, but now its too late

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - In August 09 i split up with my girlfriend over silly things like hardly seeing each other due to the distant.. anyway after the split we still continued to keep in contact via emails during working hours - she would continue to email me for advice ...

My husband doesn't want sex, and I have run out of ideas

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - If your husband does not want to have sex with you for more than a year, will you divorce him or ?or stay with him , for the rest of your life? I really don't know what to do...I tried almost everything medical ,no problems, sex therapy ,spice u...

As my husbands behaviour deteriorates I am finding solace with an old boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hi,please advise/vent/give input. I'm married for 8 years have 2 children and currently in a difficult place. My hub and I have always had ups n downs however problems were never really properly dealt with..we kinda just moved on. Most of the time ...

He didn't end his online message with a "x" does that me he isn't interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Is he intrested or not? This guy at uni has been making moves for months to be honest monday and tuesday was great.. wednesday he added me on my uni email account and emailed me.. but i've looked at his reply and i feel hes not intrested. what do ...

I was willing to have sex with no strings but my friend turned me down

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hi I was wondering what may be going through this guy's head? We met a few months ago and before New Year's he came over to my friend's house one night and was being very flirty with me, and kissed me a few times and we cuddled up on the couch ...

Tough Relationship Problems

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - My Boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and hes always wanted to be with another girl from his past while dating me.. i dont want to lose him so i let him be with us both but now im sick but i wont admit to being upset or he will get mad ...

Family feud over wedding. Please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hi there, I have a problem (again) I became engaged to my boyfriend of 2 years in october just gone and have been on cloud 9 up to christmas. When I was 9 I was adopted and my mum has a brother who has two children a boy and girl (tha...

Not your average teacher/student relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - So My family has been friends with another family for a long time. Their son was nine years old when I was born. At all the gatherings where our families would come together I would hangout with him(Dave) and my older brother(who is 10 months ...

I don't want to see my mother, but worry about depriving my kids of the grandma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hope someone can help me out here!!! When I was 8 my brother raped me for 7 years straight. I ended up pregnant by him when I was 15. When my mom found out I had to tell her what was going on, I was too scard to tell her before that. It has been ...

Everytime we fight, my boyfriend blames me for my past. Please HELP?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about half a year now, and he says that he has serious plans to marry me. I am an ex-escort, and he used to be my client. I stopped working when we started dating, but before that, we became close fri...

Dealing with a mate who works late hours

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Question. My fiance just got a new job his work stays open till like 3 and 4 am and I'm worried that he won't have much time for our new baby and won't have time for me if I have to get a job. I don't like his hours but at least he has a full time ...

Fist fightwith my girl now what

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - i got into a fight with my gf a real fight its her fault though but i think i hurt her bad. I started questioning her about this guy she been hanging out with from her wrk and i started reading her email from him out loud he was talking abou...

Is there any way to know if I was sexually abused or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - i was physically and emotionally abused as a child by my biological father until the age of seven although it was more emotional than physical. up until this past year i had no recollection at all about my childhood until age 8. i have always been ...

We broke up because he didnt love me anymore, but it seems like he is willing to be my friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Me and my ex broke up because he doesn't love me anymore and is tired of arguing and the relationship just doesn't work. It's been on and off a few times with 2 days of time inbetween. He wanted a stable life. Concentrate on himself. No more drama. ...

I am acting like a jerk because I want her to break up with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - I think I need serious help. I haven't been happy one day in the past 3-4 months after I left my ex. I'm starting to get worried, i'm constantly thinking about her, and I'm always missing her. I'm with a girl I dont even like, I have lately stopped ...

My cousin's ex is telling my fiance lies and he is believing them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid: My cousin's ex boyfriend, Joe (name changed)works with my fiance and he is constantly telling my boyfriend lies about me. I dont know what to do. I am getting extremely frustrated. Help!!! To make a long story straight, my cousin i...

I really like this girl but our cultures and religions are just too different

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - basically theres this girl that i get along great with i.e. we would tease, and playfight with each other. we pretty much find some way to text/fb each other everyday and we hang out whenever we can so in a way shes pretty much my best friend...the ...

I have a live in boyfriend but am finding myself attracted elsewhere

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, So this is a little bit long, but I think some back ground info is neccessary for the question: I've been dating my current boyfriend for over a year, and we live together. We get along great... never fight or anything, and I l...

I am in love with two men, and I need to decide who to stay with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I am in love with two men. have been in love with the guy I thought was the one for six years, he lives in another country and wants me to move there and that is the main issue or was. He got fed up and cheated two years ago, and I loved him so ...

I am dating a girl two years older and it bothers her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - Well I need help with a situation that me and my girlfriend is having. We been dating not too long ago, I am 15 and she is 17, but she is worry about the age and she said it bothers her alot, I've try many ways to convince her that age doesn't ...

I am trying to move on but I keep imagining him with someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - is it normal to want to live without someone because its over and u have to ... but cnstantly think about how devastating it would be to learn they are with somone else and be consumed with sadness even tho your trying hard to move on?...