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Archived questions from: 27 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Help! Why are his friends like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hey everyone.... I have a partner for quite some time.... I need your input about his friends.... even before we got together and had my housewarming his mates ignored me... even though we were housemates... went out for dinner they shut me out...

Is he unable to commit to marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend who has been divorced and single for the last 15 years. He has had long term relationships but has never lived with or made a commitment to any of them. We have been dating for a year and a half and he recently asked me to live ...

Am I a drama craver???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hey, ive been with quite a few guys (i started very early) with my first bf at 10 - we were more just mates with the occasional kiss on the cheek to show off to other mates. i then moved on to this boy who i was seeing for a few weeks and then he ...

Why doesn't she answer my question about her feelings?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - my ex contacted me for advice on tax (im an accountant) after few weeks of no contact (she is currently seeing someone else). i took this opportunity up to tell her how much i miss her however she didn't acknowledge my feelings just carried on ...

Bending over got me a new name with my partner!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - My common-law partner and I have been together for almost 8 years. I have never been unfaithful nor would I ever consider that as an option. My partner on the other hand has. The problem however is not the past affairs but an incident that ...

She wont kiss me and wont say why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - im 17 and i have a gf but its hard to make her talk to me and she wont kiss me and wont say why, recenly ive been finding her friend very attractive. her and her freind often fall out about thing that each other has done. its usually my gf wh...

I want to marry another woman

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - i am 38 years old business man. i married 9 years back and i have one child. these last few months back i fall in love with another girl and her age is 25 years. for my business that girl is very important, i love her and she also love me so ...

We say some rally nasty things to each other.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - Hi all, just thought id come on here to vent a few of my frustrations and get some feed back as i dont really have anyone to turn to for this sort of thing. My girlfriend and i are in a pretty intense relationship, weve been together almost ...

I don't know what I've done wrong and why things have changed??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Dear cupid I started seeing a guy a few weeks before I went to Thailand for three weeks. We eneded up sleeping with each other on the first night, he pushed me into it and said he wouldnt judge me and said he was looking for a gf etc so it s...

I am more than expecting that with his current behaviour hes about to run out on me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Myself and my boyfriend have been on and off for a few years, we've walked away and come back to each other 3 or 4 times now, we lived together for a year but stuff happened and i left and im now living in a different house. In december we got back ...

He abuses me because I am insecure..how do I stop being this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We have an 8 month old daughter. We have always fought verbally but now its getting worse. He hits me and chokes me and throws things at me. And he says the reason he does it is because I am insecure and ...

Why did she message me after everything, I did to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I'll try to keep this as short as possible. I dated a girl last year from about April to June. It was a very short yet meaningful relationship. I was in love with the girl, and I'm pretty sure she was in love with me too. We never confessed it to ...

He is a good, kind man, but I want more from him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hi guys, I have posted on here before but sometime ago and your replies helped me a lot. I met my partner nearly 2 years ago on a dating site, we used to live over 2 hors apart then and only see each other on a weekend, He has 2 kids from a pevious ...

My g/f sometimes sleeps in the same bed as her mum

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - My gf (she's 22 years old) some times she still sleeps with her mother when her father is at work on the night shift. She is not the only daughter but she only does sleep with her mum, I find it kinda weird ?How do you view it? Thanks ...

Is he just taking it slow or am I in a FWB situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - So the scenario is: I've only ever had two relationships and I am 21. One was four years, the other was a year. I've only had two sex partners before this guy. I like this guy from work. He's nerdy and dorky like me, but much more experienced than I ...

She said if we broke up she would probably kill herself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I would like to be objective, but I realize being in the relationship makes it impossible. That said here it goes... I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3.5 years. Were both 23. It has been pretty good save a few big blowups ...

Why do we argue over money all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - if me and my partner keep arguing about money, is it right to even consider marriage? we have been together 9 years and got together when we were 18. we love each other and generally get along well but our we tend to argus about money a lot. ...

He promised he would stop talking to her, but I found out he still is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend talkedto this girl that I very much hate, he promised he would stop talking to her, but I found out he still is talking to her thinking I don't know a thing. What is this suppose to mean??????...

I really worry about my inability to provide for majority of her needs.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - Hello,am 17 in love with a girl of 20. She really loves me,and i love her. But i am not working and i really worry about my inability to provide for majority of her needs,she tells me not to worry that she loves me whether or not i provide for her ...

I was cheated on and since then I became paranoid and jelous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I have a serious jelousy problem and I really need any advice you can give me to stop it. I was cheated on and since then I became paranoic and jelous, I use to be quite laid back about my guys and their time, but since the ex who cheated, I became ...

My one and only is gone. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - im sorry if this is too long. a couple of years ago, the one girl i knew at the time i would spend the rest of my life with was murdered in a car accident. we dated since i was 15. i was on probation for a fight at the time. i got into a fight with ...

I'm afraid I will never love again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - im afraid i will never love again, truly love again. im over my ex, hes a completely different person than what he was before so all i have left is just the illusion of what was. ive been dating this guy for about 6 months roughly but weve been ...

We're getting married but we have issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Ok where to start I’m 21 years old I got with my first boyfriend when I was 12 my mother allowed him to move in with me, once I had sex with him at 13 he started putting his hands on me I stayed with him for almost a year only because my mother ...

I'm attracted to her sister and my gf is on to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriends sister and I have had a "relationship" for a couple of weeks now. My relationship with GF has been shaky lately and I am really attracted to her sister, who has already said she loves me and would give up everything for me. Now my GF ...

I just wanna have some fun but he's past it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I just turned 21 and my boyfriend is almost 29. I'm ready to party and get wild and just have fun! But he always says he had his time to party when he was "young and dumb" and all he cares about now is working working working! I wanna go out to the ...

How do I know if he is "The One"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I have ben together for almost 4 years and we def. Have our ups and downs just like every other relationship and I was wondering when the wedding bells should riing? I love him and anytime I bring up Marriage and Babies he gets ...

I cheated and cheated and ...cheated and feel terrible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my guy for around 5 years on and off... on and off because of several reasons including me getting involved with other people. There are some serious flaws in our relationship like kids vs. no kids, religious things etc.. but ...

I don' know if my b/f still loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hello Dear cupid.. I have problem here.. I'm not sure if my boyfriend really loves me or not.. It's been almost 2 years we have together and broke up once about 1 month.. When we started together he also, he treated me very nice and romantic...

My husband wont say "I love you"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - My husband has never said I love u in the 10 yrs. We have been together. I asked him why when we first were together. He said when he has said it in the past that all went to hell after that. Well 10 yrs later and I still can't get him to say it. Is ...

I want to have my cake and eat it too

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I am married and have had a crush om a co worker for the last 7 months. I have been quite good at hiding my feelings from him til recently when we have spent a lot of time together at work. Working one on one. I let it slip about my crush on him ...

My boyfriend wont believe he is my first

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone!i hope somebody could help me with this problem.I ve never had any man in my life,but my first boyfriend said to me that i was not a virgin.and that hurt me so much because i thought he was my only one.and every time i tell him that he ...

I have a b/f and a bit on the side and I just met the man I want to marry

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I'm here to hear how stupid I am when it comes to matters of the heart. I moved in with a guy I knew for barely a month, and proceeded to create the biggest relationship mess of my life. We dealt with alcohol problems, cheating, ultimately trust, d...

I seem to have lost my direction in life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I'm truly stuck right now. I haven't handled myself well in the last year and I am scared to see how far I can go. I was doing pretty well for myself last year and then met a guy. We broke it off a half year into the relationship and he said and did ...

Not sure how to get over this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so I met this guy a couple months ago one night when I was really drunk. I often feel uncomfortable and tense around many people and mostly keep to myself, but this night for some reason I felt incredible. I didn't have any worries, and I ...

Not sure how I feel, do I want the relationship to go on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I’ve been with my BF for almost 6 months. He’s a great guy and I really couldn’t ask for more. He treats me well, he respects me and he’s planning his future with me. I however often get confused. When we first started going out I left him for som...

What does his behaviour mean? Does he miss me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I dated for almost 7 months until he broke up with me 3 months ago (via text messaging, very cowardly). He said that he felt like it was more of a friendship than a relationship, but he said it could be because he was moving in a month, ...

I'm so insecure in my relationship all of a sudden! How can I stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years and just recently (about 6 months ago) I've started to become really insecure. I am getting more and more insecure everyday and its for little things like if he says no to something that i ...