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Archived questions from: 29 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I know there are plenty of fish in the sea, but I want this fish

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Ok, Here goes. There is an attractive girl. We have really been talking recently and getting to know each other really well recently. I know she likes me. She thinks I'm nice, she even told me she thinks I'm cute. Today, we were talking and she told...

I feel I have been pushed into child access arrangements

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Me and my long tearm boyfriend split up this week. We have a 2 month old baby and we both agreed that, he would have are daughter for 3 day at his home and 1 night. This means that I would be takeing care of her for 4 days and 6 nights. Their is ...

My boyfriend get mad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) - Me and my boyfriend started getting sexual but not have sex and I gave him a hand job but he asks me all the time to give him one and I just don't feel like it or want to and when I say no and why he gets kind of mad but it's not like he forces me ...

Sex is not as much fun for me as it is for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Ok, so here it is I have been in the same relationship with the same guy for over a year now and i get super wet im talkin like really wet drippin wet were if i stand up its drippin down my leg and he thinks its all sexya nd stuff and well it really ...

Do I have the right to be hung up on being hurt by my girl before we started officially dating??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend met under unusual circumstances which ultimately led to me getting my heartbroken right before we started dating. At the time I met her I was currently dating someone else. I had already been planning on confessing to my ...

Am I a fool to believe his promises that he won't cheat again? I want this to work!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I know everyone is different but do you believe in those sayings 'a leopard never changes its spots' and 'once a cheat always a cheat'? Having read these sort of replies on here many times its now happened to me. My partner has cheated on me an...

Three is NOT company...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - I'm in a horrendous situation and I need help. I'm living in the same apartment as three of my exes, two of which live on the same floor. I'm not on speaking terms with one of them and she's doing everything she can to drive me crazy because I ...

I miss him loads all I want is to be his friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Me and this guy had a casual relationship for about a month,but he asked me 4 a serious r.ship a number of times which i said no. We had a big arguement because there was another woman on the scene and i was jealous he wasnt just seeing me.I sai...

I don't understand my own feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 years and me broke up in Dec, I had started feeling feelings for my boss, Ive been waiting for my boyfriend to do something for ever, he's struggled with a drug addiction, and things just never seem to go right when he does try, ...

Every time I let him come back and get "sucked" back in because I care about him. Help..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 4 years. This is both of our second marriage. He had 2 kids and I had 4 kids from our previous marriages. We now have a 2 yr. daughter together for a total of 7 kids. This man can be loving to me and the ...

It bothers me a lot that he finds nude girls on movies attractive..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Im 23 and have two boys 3 and 8 monts. I just got out of a very bad relationship of 3 years. and now im with a new guy. We ave been together for about 5 months. And he's great, i love him so much and i know he loves me to.But theirs a problem, at ...

Unhappy with my life...what direction should I go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I am a 31 year old female. I feel as though my life is slipping away fast!! I feel that I am not at the stage of life I would like to be at. Part of me feels I made some poor choices and I also resent my boyfriend for leading me on.... I love my ...

I love my husband but he acts like if I want to be with him I am taking up all his time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I have been married for two years now and this is my second marriage.. I am trying to learn from mistakes from the first one. For example. My first husband and I did nothing together even when we were at home alone we were in seperate rooms and ...

Can you please tell whether or not I should go back to ex-boyfriend? or should I get married and be together with my new boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - what can i do to forget my ex-boyfriend? we had been together about 5 years,i still love him so much, i'm sure that he loves me too, but it's just that i can't live together with him becuase he is a hot-temper person to deal with sometime. i asked ...

Please help me get my girlfriend/solemate back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - I am a 30 year old guy living in Manchester, UK who as recently split up with he’s 25 year old girlfriend (she left me on dec 18th 2009 and its now jan 29th 2010) after our lives were shattered by the lack of money due to our dependence on cannabis ...

My wife is being very secretive

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 7 years and we have 3 children. My wife is on facebook and has a lot of guy friends on there and she will not except me as a friend I ask what are u hiding and she says nothing I talk to my girlfriends she has ...

It's as if she doesn't want to even see me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Basically, my girlfriend keeps having mood swings at me and keeps telling me to **** off.....half the time she says she is joking. I have barely seen her outside of college for over a month and i used to see her often, but she says its because...

After three years I am getting fed up with my boyfriends behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years in July, but feel like im the only one whoputs any effort into the relationship, i always go to his house, he always expects me to get up realli early and go to his in the morning for sex, he hardly ever comes ...

I'm walking on eggshells ................

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Hi, me and my girlfriend are going through some problems. We've been together for just over 4 months now and in that time we have encountered a few turbulent periods in our relationship. One ongoing problem is sleeping at her flat. I find her bed ...

I have a boyfriend but like another who I texted, but I get no reply

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - okay, i went to a club the other night for my friends birthday. my friend also invited some other friends of his who i didn't know. i started talking to one of them and he was so funny and sweet. he was good looking and had a really nice smile. i ...

I don't feel like having sex with my boyfriend any more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend had fantasy sex with his friend (girl) he knows. It looks like every time he is imaging to have sex, he will think about this girl. But he told me he will never have sex with this girl in real life. Is he lying to me? He loves me...

I don't know how to tell b/f of previous relationship problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I was in a relationship for 7 years. I was very young when we started dating, I ws 16. He ended up being very mentally abusive. Were no longer together, but due to him my self esteem has taken a huge hit, and I no longer feel pretty, and worth ...

Was it reasonable to push her when she came at me with a hot iron?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - I've been married 10 years. On Thursday evenings my wife drops off our 7-year old son at football training and I drive from work to collect him. A few times there has been a last minute change and my wife has texted me but I don't think I've...

I felt left out of the dinner convo. Should I not see my guy friend tonight so he does not think he is getting off lightly.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I attended a friend's meal the other night. It was at my guy friend friend's house. I cooked dinner and it went well in general, until both of them chirped on about their faith and music interests. As the night progressed, I felt left out and ...

I accept his views but don't like him pushing his religion on me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I am currently dating a guy who I have gotten to know through work. At first glance, he seemed shy (or antisocial). I don't work with him often but when I did I realised he was a friendly person, and after a few weeks, we started hanging out. We get ...

My wife is very childish when I scold her.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - My wife is 27 years old and I am 29.She's my sweetie and I do really care for her.But regarding few things i have some concern.I donno how can I help her to improve on those certain issues.I convince her.But nothing has worked yet. 1.She can't ma...

I think my boyfriend is selfish.... or am I selfish by thinking this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I am really confused. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and he seems so selfish. Don't get me wrong, there are many good things about him which make it hard to decide whether I should end the relationship. He works hard, he...

How can I not ruin relationships by being too protective?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm an overprotective guy unfortunately this has led to many break ups over the years. What I am wonding is how do I control these feelings so that this relationship don't end up like the rest. Any advice is welcome....

Stress is affecting our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Stress eats up our relationship, communication, sex and everything. How can I improve it?.... My husband had not been lucky about his career for the past few years. He tried to be his own boss by doing real estate. He just quitted his job when we ...

Has he lost interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Guys, please help me out with this. Ladies, I know you'll have great pearls of wisdom too! My partner and I have been in a relationship for 18 months now, and I feel that he may have lost a bit of his interest in me. He said that he is not an ove...

How do I find the courage to dump someone I love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - How do I find the courage to dump someone I love. I am weak, I cannot find the words nor the ability to end it. My girlfriend is emotionally abusive, and I was raised by a father who was too. I am stuck, caring about her, I have tried to break up ...

My boyfriend always thinks I'm talking to other guys and thinks I'm tired of him and its p***ing me off so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is the best. He does everything he absolutely can for me. He tells me he loves me everyday. So here's the problem...in his past relationships hes been lied to and cheated on with two of the girls he went out with and they both broke up ...

I was on the phone with her a few hours ago and she said hold on one second and I said ok, I was on hold for 30 minutes before I hung up.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - i am 14 and my girlfriend of 7 months in 16 our relationship is really good we go a lot of places and she is always laughing at my jokes and i laugh at most of hers but lately my girlfriend just disapears from time to time, i'll be texting her and ...

His best friend is a woman and we are jealous of each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a BFF that he had as a child. When his wife was killed a few years ago, she reappeared. She had been a daily/hourly part of his life since the death. He and I started seeing each other last spring and she judged me from day one. I ...

His words say he loves me, his actions say otherwise. Which is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Ok to really sum up a 3 year relationship is hard but i will try to provide as much information as possible into a little paragraph. Basically he tells me he loves me all the time with no problem. He looks me in the eyes tells me im his dream girl, ...

Seeing him so content with his wife and kids hurts.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - i dont know what to do and really need advice.. my life is a mess. I have grown up as an only child and never had a perfect relationship with my parents. When i was 16 i coincidently began speaking to someone id seen around my area, because he used ...

It hurts to hear about her ex all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Hey guys, you can call me boi, im 24 this year. my problem is... i met this girl on facebook around august last year, and we connected immediately. We started chatting and sending each other messages.. seemed like she had a problem with her ...

Is it possible I went too far and need to leave him be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I dated a guy for two years. I thought we were really close, and someday (in my eyes) i thought we would marry. I'm not sure what his thoughts were but i know for sure he is a commitment-phobe, but not once in the two years did i bring up ...

I just have this bad gut feeling that the bar maid is texting my bf.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Saturday night I was out with this guy I have been seeing for about 3 months. We went to one of the Bars he is familiar with to see a band. I knew no one. Every time he spoke to someone (including a few women) he knew he would turn his back to me ...

Stuck with Stupid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - (Mod Note - OP's own title) I'm living with this girl. I say girl because she's young. Almost six years younger than me. She's a dunce. A rock. A meatheaded idiot. I've been with her for a couple years, forgiving her idiocy because she was ...