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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Big trouble with him ..and his Mother! Should I go stay or go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - dear cupid i need help!!! i've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and i dont know what to do should i stay or should i go thats the question i need answered. first of all we been together for 2 yrs and he has'nt had a job that he last for more than a ...

Should I stay and be patient, or is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been off and on for 1 year and 8 months. He has never cheated or lied to me. I have lied to him, but he forgave me. We are totally opposite. We really love each other and can get jealous over little things. I was going to ...

Would you forgive a woman with an extremely promiscuous past?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I am a 28 year old woman with an extremely promiscuous past. I slept with 70 guys. I had committed relationships too. I came clean with my boyfriend and told him the extent of what I had done. He continues to ask me for every detail and I respond. ...

BF won't marry me. I'd love him to, and my parents would love that, too. Plus, this new online guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (?) - This is the most chaotic time in my whole life. Situation n.1 My BF of nearly 4 years, living together, won't marry me. he says he loves me and sees his future with me, but that unless I change some traits of my personality( ie being too blunt)...

The girl I love is in the hands of someone else

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - I'm a 20 year old male from Holland. I've never been in a relationship before. There were some girls that said i was attractive. I didn't feel anything for them and i'm not a guy who takes advantage of them. I would not want to break their hearts, ...

She wont get over something or try anything different again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - I'm not sure what to do. Me and my fiance have a son together and things are AMAZING relationship wise the only real issue we have is she can be a little on the lazy side but anyhow. While she was pregnant she we completely ballistic Im not...

My boyfriend's mum annoys me to hell! How can we start to get on better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - so annoyed me and my boyfriends mum dont get on she annoys me to hell!! been together 2years and we have a 7month old daughter help me please...

My boyfriend is so cold and unaffectionate to me I'm starting to think he might be gay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Im so confused and lost i dont know what to do. My bf who doesnt act like one is well confusing me perhaps there is a better word. Anyways, dating 3 mos i do all the driving he doesnt come to see me not sure i ask but he doesnt. The problem is when ...

Text Message Communication Problem - Opinions Needed

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I wonder if someone can read through this series of text messages and just give your unbiased opinion along the way of who is right and who is wrong or if we're both wrong (I know there is no right or wrong, but we just need someone to media...

I don't feel we can be friends after the break up because I miss him too much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Dear readers, I'm going through the depressing moments in a breakup of a long relationship. I thought this would be easy because i foolishly thought my anger would just make it better for me to forget. Now i keep thinking that i lost him and i ...

Does the problem lie with me? Is there any hope for this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Hi Firstly a little back ground on my GF. She used to be a player and have flirt with other man. Now she has pledge her fatefullnees to me but still has many male friends. She talks about sex very casually to them and she seems to share many...

For the last 6 months he has been fading away from me, I just want my old boyfriend back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - ok, ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. but in the last 6 months, hes fading away from me. i know hes not cheating on me but i feel like hes falling out of love. our sex life has gone crap because hes always tired, he works 20hr shifts 5 ...

After I couldnt make her orgasm I feel like a failure and I have lost my sex drive! But if I don't make passes at her she thinks I'm cheating! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Hi im 24 and me and my fiancee have been together 2yrs. we are both pretty insecure people but are expecting our first child any minute now. im very stressed atm and finding work mentally demanding alongside all the preparations for baby. anyway now ...

Is minimal contact best way to fall out of love?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - I fell for my best friend (female). Didn't say, because I was certain she didn't feel the same, although we are ridiculously close. Anyway, many of our mutual friends were convinced she did feel the same, as although she denied it verbally, her ...

Why am I still missing my alcoholic, absusive ex boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - right i have recently split up with my alcoholic boyfriend as he smashed my mums windows again and has gone to jail. this is the second time he has been to jail for this crime against me,the thing is he doesnt actually know we are finished because i ...

How can I fix our relationship after I found out about his double life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now , we were best friends for two years before he finally asked me out , just before he asked me out i found that he had like around 50 chicks sending him nude pictures and he was playing all ...

Is he taking me for a ride?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - hey i recently met a guy who was on a reality tv show in the uk, and had his '15 minutes of fame'. I didnt watch the show and so just saw him as a normal guy. He took me for a meal and we had a lovely first date, then i saw him everyday for a b...

I suspect my partner of cheating. What do I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Is it a good way to Confront my partner if I suspect her of Cheating ? I am not sure. Trust Level is sliding... Asking her on those lines would be like giving up Trust and Confidence, that took years to build. (Denial is expected) Not...

Is it possible my boyfriend has changed for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Do people ever truly change? When my bf and I were first together, we had a lot of problems with the way he treated me. He treated me pretty badly and didnt seem to really be with me for who I am. He seemed to only want sex as he would continuall...

How do you get over insecurities for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - To start things off, I'm 19, turning 20 in March. My boyfriend is 22, and we've been together for 7 months. Lately, I've become unsatisfied with the most basic and essential things in our relationship. I've discovered though, that most of these ...

She has been an incredible partner both in bed and in satisfying my fetish, so should I marry her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - I'm 26 years old and I have a major foot fetish. I know this friend from school and I told her around 2 years back about how awesome her feet were. this happened over a casual conversation and after a few weeks few weeks later (after a lot of foot ...

Did my fiancee cheat on me? And how can I tell if she has been around a bit before she met me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] So I'm going to try to break down a lot of facts into short statements: Dated a girl for 4 months and moved in together. Lived together for 5 months and got en...

Is there a chance I could win her over despite her being completely in love with her boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Okay their is this girl. I met her in one of my classes my second day of school. She was gorgeous and fun to be around. We never really talked all that much, then we just started talking more and more and i started to like her just a little bit. ...

How important is saying 'I love you'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Hi I'm looking for some advice. My story is a little long winded! My boyfriend and I had been together for a few months shy of a year when suddenly he ended things. His reason being he felt panicked as he is turning 30 (I'm 25) and that he is not r...

Can a relationship where both people involved have a mental illness ever work? I'm worried this could become very messy but the connection is incredible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year, for somebody else who can satisfy me more. My previous boyfriend did not like sex, so we never had it. I am bipolar and we frequently fought, and I would go from hating him to loving him very ...

My friend thinks the world revolves around her? what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - my good friend is a good friend, we are very different, shes louder and a smart ass, im quieter, but we get along. But..she is so self absorbed! with most ppl she talks with. She has had a career where she has performed now her career is ...

There are too many things getting in the way of us being together, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - im 15, i like a guy older than me, in general being around him makes me happy. but things keep getting in the way like his age, which is 19, family and other people. these people are constantly around him and his family, aka his brother hates me ...

Am I wrong to take this opportunity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - To all the aunts and maybe some uncles, I would appreciate any input. I have an absolutely wonderful boyfriend whom I have been together with for almost 4 years. We have been through everything, and stand by each other through everything. I lo...

My boyfriend is abusive and on steroids. I'm so confused about what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. When we first started dating he was taking steroids and it became unbearable and I ended it after a few months. Three months later he sent me an email and apologized..so we ended up getting back ...

Is it too soon for a new relationship...and a baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I'm a 22 year old mommie of 2 baby boys 2yrs and 1yr, I was with their dad for 3 years which was really traumatic this is why: he's the type of man that wants everything to be the way he wants to (controlling, possessive, and jelaous guy) 2 years ...

Why won't my boyfriend touch me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 18. I've been with him for 6 months, and I'm completely in love with him. He's my first "real" relationship, as in the first that didn't revolve around sex. He cooks for me all the time, he keeps me entertained every ...

My boyfriend is addicted to Second Life and it's becoming too real for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is addicted to Second Life. He is on there constantly. He has a job in there , he is also a woman in there. He is obsessed with this to the point now he just has to be there. He talks about it always. At first he was worried about how i ...

Will this really work or are we just kidding ourselves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I am engaged to a guy that I have been with for four years now. We have always got along, but I am scared that we aren't asking all the questions we need to ask before marriage because we are afraid our answers wont match up. The situation is we ...

I have to beg him to focus on me. Can anyone help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for a while now, and throughout the time of our relationship, there hasn't been any affection on his end, nor have my needs been met. He works, but plays hours of video games. I have to beg for him to give a break ...

He loves someone else but isn't going to do anything about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - ok i need some advice. my boyfriend and i have been going out with each other for four years, about six months ago he told me that he loved somebody else but he wasn't going to do anything about it. it took awhile but i'd thought that we had worked ...

Wife hates ex wife's crass comment to 9 year old

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - My current wife hates my ex-wife whom I have almost no contact with. Help! I am usually pretty good at figuring things out, but this.... My ex wife is callous, crass, and often tells my kids (when they are with her) crude 'jokes' and talks about ...

I love my boyfriend but I DON'T love his habits...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year now. Previously, I dated someone for four years, who would technically be the perfect catch. My ex-boyfriend was motivated, had at least two jobs while attending a huge medical university, and has ...

Please give me advice on what is the best course of action to rescue this friendship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Here's the situation.. I fell out with a female friend of mine. She is an au pair and moving soon to a new place and getting a new number. She said she didn't want to talk or meet me again due to us not getting on so well one night, but not really ...

What gives? Why was my friend so mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

4 January 2010 (?) - For Christmas, my friends and I try to get together to exchange presents. I hadn't heard from one of them, "Jenny," so I sent her an e-mail saying that we should meet up and exchange. In response, all she said was "absolutely" but she did not say ...

I see my boyfriend more as a friend than a boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2 and a half years now and I'm not sure what to do. Our relationship to an outsider would be considered good, we don't argue a lot and we treat other each other well. We've had our issues in the past like ...

My girlfriend had a baby and I didn't know, now I'm not allowed to see my son! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - 9 months ago I was dating a girl Jessica, who I really liked, I go to college out of state and I'm not home alot. One weekend while I was home we were at a party and we got into a huge fight. A don't remember much about it but I know I said some ...

Broke up with ex, and now we talk on the phone a lot, but what does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Hey Everyone, My relationship with my ex ultimately fizzled and we've had this weird phone relationship since we broke up. We still talk regularly and the conversations stayed platonic until one night we were sharing our past Christmas memor...

I need to know where I stand, please help.

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4 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, here's my problem. I really like this guy and have done for almost a year now. We've been out a few times and he knows I like him but I'm not sure that he knows how much. Also I'm not sure he likes me the same way. He's told me he likes ...