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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is he more attached than he let on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hello: My boss is like 44 yrs old. He is very immature.. Well, I have been pulling away from him for some time because of an attraction between us. Needless to say - It went to HR. He asked to stay cordial with me and wanted us to sti...

His anger problems are tearing us apart...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 3 years collectively now. I've broken up with him before because of his uncontrolled anger problem. He gets angry at the smallest things and then I have to try and calm him down. Usually when he gets angry it ...

Why is she distancing herself from me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

31 January 2010 (?) - I am a middle aged female. My very best friend is also a middle aged female. She say's she has had low self-esteem all of her life. What I don't understand about low self-esteem in regards to my friend, is when she thinks I am distancing myself or ...

My boyfriend became violent and doesn't tell me what is the matter. Can you help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hi. my boyfriend is a very nice person and is very caring. recently he has been quite violent and aggresive. i dont know whats wrong. ive asked him and he says nothing is bothering him. can anyone help me please. ...

Guys, what makes you think a girl is easy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - all guys that comes my way. thinks am cute and sexy. and they all just seem to want sex.. i dont dress sl.utty..or give it up easy.. but i do however, flirt with guys alot..(thats cos they always start flirting with me first) and when they r...

Bad relationship with my husbands kids! How can I change things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Several years ago I got involved with an older, married man. At the time I thought it was simply a short fling, but it developed into a relationship that eventually led to him leaving his wife. I do not feel the need to go into the 'gritty' ...

Should I take police advise and sue my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have an awful ex - he abused me emotionally and sexually for years (physically only right at the end, when I was finally getting out). I'm wondering if revenge is worth it at all? I could either do nothing and continue working through my issues, ...

We have gone from a spontaneous fun sex life to ziltch. Is it me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 31. We’ve been together for 2 and a half years. At the start of our relationship, our sex life was brilliant, it was fun, spontaneous, sexy and naughty, I would often dress up in naughty outfits/underwear, and we would use ...

I text him, he says he doesn't know who I am, or that he doesn't want to talk, and yet I still wonder if he could be interested in me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone help needed please, i like this guy and we got on really wel, anyway we stopped talking for a reason i cant really explian 2 u it wasnt bad but he didnt belive that it was not me, Anyway everynow and then i text him sometimes he rel...

I quickly ruled him out, but now am wondering if I was too harsh

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - There is this guy that is interested in me, however I have ruled him out on after two dates, an informal meeting, and two chats online. He gave me a pretty tough first impression to get over as he didn't seem like he cared about others feelings or ...

Is he Gay or am I Crazzzy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I hate to think this way because I love my boyfriend with every beat of my heary buuuut there's a few things I'm starting to wonder about latley. ((Hopefully I'm wrong)) Ok so my bf and I have been together for nearly 4 years. This is my First ...

Is he interested or not? Should I drop him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Below is a text from a guy I'm dating. "sorry i was hung over so it took a while to reply im sick atm. i finish work there at 6. wanna catch up in dalesford lemme knw xoxo." It took him 24 hours to post that.. he always takes forever.. I tri...

Is love supposed to hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I need some major advise i am so confused i wonder at times is love suppose to hurt? i have two daughters with two different men and the last man was almost perfect except for the fact that he didnt work..he was so nice understanding and romantic ...

Am I being unreasonable in my distrust of him and by getting angry at the drunken states he gets into?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hi. I'm 19, and I've been with my boyfriend for about a year, he's 21. Before going out with him, I'd only had one previous sexual partner, when I was 17. My boyfriend, on the other hand, has had about 10 sexual partners. None of which he dated, t...

I think he has feelings for another girl! How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend has feelings for another girl... Should I talk to him about it? What would I say if I talk to him about it? HELP!!!...

He told me he's territorial and doesn't want me hanging out with other guys! What does he mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hey i gotta question whats it mean when my boyfriend tells me that he doesn't want me hanging with other guys or really talking to them.....he told me hes territorial...??...

He accuses me of cheating everytime I go overseas! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have a seven years old relationship with a gentleman who is accusing me of being unfaithful to him everytime i travelled overseas. I went overseas three times since we are together and he thinks i am having sexual intercourse with guys in those ...

It seemed great, and then he doesn't want to go out. Was it just for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I just got dumped by a guy I really liked after less than a month. Things seemed great at first as we had a lot in common and our personalities really seemed to click. After two weeks he suddenly seemed distant, but when I asked if something was ...

He calls me names and he has stopped taking care of himself. Should I dump him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend calls me a bitch sometimes when he's mad. We've been together for 4 years now, but we just got back together at the end of October after I broke up with him for 3 months. One of the agreements for us to be a couple again was that he ...

What does it mean when someone only calls you talk about their problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - When you meet someone and get into a relationship with them while they're going through a rough time, but then they finally come out of it a while after you break up (they are finally improving their life and are happier), and they used to call you ...

Do I just sit back and let my boyfriend disown his family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old. Our relationship has been plagued by the same problem from the very start. I am West Indian and he is East Indian. So, his parents come from India and mine from the Caribbean. Both of our parents are ...

Planning my future in the Navy. My friends don't understand and I feel isolated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hi i'm applying for the navy soon (in july to be precise) so i've been training phisically, mentally and emotionally. i've also been getting as much experience as i can on ships n that. but i'm only 15. half the people who are 16 in my school ...

He flipped out when I answered his phone. Is his anger justified?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Tonight, I was playing a game on my boyfriend's cell phone. A private number called, so I handed him the phone. He pressed the ignore button, which ended the call. I went back to my game, and the private number called back about a minute later. I ...

My wife's sexual fantasy excluded me! Should I feel badly about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - I have a question; my wife and I have been together for 15 years or so. We have talked about sexual fantasies in the past and my wife claimed she never had any, or the ones she did were like me and her having sex in the backyard etc. she said tha...

I feel like I'm missing out on my youth by being in love.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 23 years old and have been in my relationship since I was nineteen, so we're going on four years now. We live together, have a dog, and are partners and best friends! The problem is... I feel like i'm missing out on my youth...

How do I convince my ex I lust after her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - My ex-wife and I have been divorced for 3 years. We were married for 10 years and have 3 beautiful children together. We are both very involved in our children's life and communicate on an almost daily basis. Mostly regarding the children. She ...

I admit being OTT about hubby talking to another woman, but he says I am nasty and vindictive!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have recently got married for the third time. My new husband speaks daily with a woman we both know and I asked him to stop. He told me that I was trying to censor him, nothing is going on and that he won't stop contact with her as there is no ...

Has he been cheating & should I stay or tell him what I know & get rid of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I am with my partner for 5 years and I thought we were very close until recently. He's 52 and I'm 46 and we are both divorced. During the first 2 years together I herad remarks/comments/rumours about him and other women and whe I asked hi...

My ex sexually assaulted me and I don't know what to do

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so im sorry if this gets long, and i know that im more in the wrong than any of these guys! I just really dont know what to do anymore, ive been with my amazing boyfriend Richard now, for 11 months, everythings being going great, hes so kind ...

Save your "you are just a kid" speeches

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - Ok righto. My beautiful girlfriend's mum brewed up a shit storm with a friend of my family. The mum is a hell of a lot less immature than than my love. So after the fact things between my girlfriend, lets call her Ella, and me have been a bit ...

I don't know if I should trust him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I am packing up stuff into boxes at the moment to move house with my boyfriend and I came across his leaving card from his most recent employer - it was signed by loads of people. I was looking at the card laughing at some of the comments when I ...

My girlfriend lost a bottle of her favourite perfume while in a club with me last night... And she wants ME to replace it! What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - Last night in a club with my friends, I got separated from the group. I decided to text my girlfriend to find out where she was. When I couldn't find her from her directions I told her where she could find me. When she got there she waved to me, and ...

What sort of man would do this to his child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have had a married lover for over 25years, when I met him he was not married, anyway I have 1 son with him and he has 3 sons with his wife, he paid child support for the child for 19 years, But he (my son) caught us talking dirty on the internet ...

Why doesn't he like me asking questions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - My partner and I have just started to workout together. He is a police officer and ex-military and is very experienced in this area, but I am not. I am the type of person that asks questions in order to understand what I need to do, and he gets very ...

Our relationship has come to a standstill, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - My wonderful boyfriend and I have been together for eight months. It was beautiful, blissful... up until a little over a month ago. There is really no specific moment in time that either of us noticed a decline in anything. We are very compatible ...

I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...

Long Read - My boyfriend's drug problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I don't like feeling so torn, and I tried to mentally prepare for this to not happen, but it happened. My ex was in a bad place in his life when we met. He tried to make it seem like he was not, but it soon became obvious to me that he had not ...

My gf is pregnant, wants to keep it, but I don't.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - My gf is pregnant. We've been together for 5 years. I don't want to keep it. She didn't want to either, but now just accepts it and wants to keep it. We rarely even have sex and she was on the pill, of course this has to happen. She just looks at ...

How do I get through to him that while he might find it attractive I find shaving my pubic area sleazy and gross and uncomfortable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - My husband keeps asking me (repeatedly) to shave (or at least severely trim) my pubic area. I prefer to just shave the sides to keep everything inside the underwear. If it was up to me (i.e. no embarrassing moments at the pool) I would stop shaving ...

I know there are plenty of fish in the sea, but I want this fish

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Ok, Here goes. There is an attractive girl. We have really been talking recently and getting to know each other really well recently. I know she likes me. She thinks I'm nice, she even told me she thinks I'm cute. Today, we were talking and she told...

I feel I have been pushed into child access arrangements

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Me and my long tearm boyfriend split up this week. We have a 2 month old baby and we both agreed that, he would have are daughter for 3 day at his home and 1 night. This means that I would be takeing care of her for 4 days and 6 nights. Their is ...

My boyfriend get mad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) - Me and my boyfriend started getting sexual but not have sex and I gave him a hand job but he asks me all the time to give him one and I just don't feel like it or want to and when I say no and why he gets kind of mad but it's not like he forces me ...

Sex is not as much fun for me as it is for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Ok, so here it is I have been in the same relationship with the same guy for over a year now and i get super wet im talkin like really wet drippin wet were if i stand up its drippin down my leg and he thinks its all sexya nd stuff and well it really ...

Do I have the right to be hung up on being hurt by my girl before we started officially dating??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend met under unusual circumstances which ultimately led to me getting my heartbroken right before we started dating. At the time I met her I was currently dating someone else. I had already been planning on confessing to my ...

Am I a fool to believe his promises that he won't cheat again? I want this to work!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I know everyone is different but do you believe in those sayings 'a leopard never changes its spots' and 'once a cheat always a cheat'? Having read these sort of replies on here many times its now happened to me. My partner has cheated on me an...

Three is NOT company...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - I'm in a horrendous situation and I need help. I'm living in the same apartment as three of my exes, two of which live on the same floor. I'm not on speaking terms with one of them and she's doing everything she can to drive me crazy because I ...

I miss him loads all I want is to be his friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Me and this guy had a casual relationship for about a month,but he asked me 4 a serious r.ship a number of times which i said no. We had a big arguement because there was another woman on the scene and i was jealous he wasnt just seeing me.I sai...

I don't understand my own feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 years and me broke up in Dec, I had started feeling feelings for my boss, Ive been waiting for my boyfriend to do something for ever, he's struggled with a drug addiction, and things just never seem to go right when he does try, ...

Every time I let him come back and get "sucked" back in because I care about him. Help..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 4 years. This is both of our second marriage. He had 2 kids and I had 4 kids from our previous marriages. We now have a 2 yr. daughter together for a total of 7 kids. This man can be loving to me and the ...

It bothers me a lot that he finds nude girls on movies attractive..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Im 23 and have two boys 3 and 8 monts. I just got out of a very bad relationship of 3 years. and now im with a new guy. We ave been together for about 5 months. And he's great, i love him so much and i know he loves me to.But theirs a problem, at ...