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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My mind is consumed with what she claims was drunken sex romp!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - So I met this girl at a party a while back and we hit it off super well. And we started hanging out.. a lot. We spent a lot of time together and were messing around, we hadn't had sex for the first 2 weeks that we hung out (On my call, she wanted it ...

He is always correcting me but I don't want to hurt his feelings by saying something

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - There is this guy that I know.Ive known him for about a year or so now.I have a huge problem with the way he is always correcting my grammar.Sometimes I will say went when I should have said gone.I say hamburger meat instead of ground beef.Sometimes ...

He is taking his friends advise not to get back with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - He goes with me at school. We hang out together and my friend told me he talked with her and told her that he STILL loves me after i broke up with him twice and the truth is i still love him to. She told him to talk to me but he still has'nt ...

I am being replaced by my wife's vibrator

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - I posted before about my wife's low sex drive, partly due to being on anti depression medication. After a long chat, she decided to stop taking her meds and try cognative behavioural therapy in the hope of it increasing her libido. Everything see...

My best friend and I are fighting over a boy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - My best friend is saying stuff about me and I want to punch her in the face..Should I? This all started over a boy....

Is he keeping me dangling, or does he just want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Right, Me and my ex boyfriend J broke up due to his violent abuse and cheating on me. But the night after I broke up with J, I snogged another boy called T at a house party, I partly think it could have just been because I was hurting, But after...

All seemed to be going great and then voila! he disappeared

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I have known this guy for several months, we are on the cycling team together he is 22 and I'm 20. Last week we danced together and made out at a party. He came over to my place the next day and we kissed, cuddled and made plans to spend time ...

He usually initiates contact, should I email him?

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23 January 2010 (F) - A relative gave my email address to this guy (lives in the US) sometime in July and since then we have been exchanging emails occasionally. Last December, I went to the US for a holiday and we agreed to meet up. We went to see a movie and had ...

I feel I cant match his last girlfriend for looks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm dating this guy and everything is great. Execpt I feel like theres alot of pressure on me. The last girl he went out with was gorgeous, she's really pretty and one of them most desired girls in school. I feel like I cant possibly li...

We are cousins and madly in love, should we tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - ok, well a few years ago my cousin came to stay with us for a while and we imediately became really close, then one night he kissed me (although i had been wanting too for ages i didnt, because i wasnt sure how he would react.) anyway we ended up ...

How come everybody likes the same guy I like

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - ever since i liked this guy everyone else wants to date him, why though?...

How do I quit being so overly jealous here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - here goes my prob. m very jealous, everytime i see my bf talking to some other chick i go green. i always embarass myself infront of people because when that happens i dont care where we r i shout at the top of my voice its so embarrasing. the other ...

Can I love her if I don't find her sexy? How will it work without sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - ok guys there is this girl i think i love her, everything so damn great when im near her, its so fun when we are together. i feel that shes the i want to live with forever. but the problem is, i dont find her sexy at all. is this really l...

He never initiates saying "I love you", but when I say it he says it back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for 3 wonderful months. We've gotten very close...met the family already, gone on vacation together, and he tells me all the time how happy he is with me. A few days ago I said those 3 words..I love ...

Does this mean anything or am I just kidding myself that he cares?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Wow, This may be too log for some but here goes. I had been with my husband for 7 years. The last three were awful. I treated him like crap and it was as though he didn't exist. I was never intimate with him and we never even slept in the sam...

What are the main signs that he is only looking for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Hello! I've recently got back together with my boyfriend after i dumped him. I dumped him because of family related problems which made me push him away. My boyfriend felt that in our relationship he/ we had become selfish( not seeing friends etc). ...

If a straight man in a relationship with a straight woman receives "a massage + a happy ending" from a male masseuse--no emotional intimacy involved--is that cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Brief facts: I'm female. Been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. I'm very, very open minded. Compared to other relationships I've been in, our sex life isn't so great (for various reasons), but there's a lot of love between us. I KNOW he's int...

Please help...I love this girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - Hi, have a question my girlfriend of six months sent me this email the other day.what should I think of this.I care for her deeply.(I'm not sure where I'm going with this, but when I ask for time to get my thoughts and feelings inline, that's pretty ...

There are no more butterflies..bored but scared to let him go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - hey, so i dont really know what im asking. But i know i have a problem. I have been seeing this guy for almost a month. We have been on a few dates and text constantly. When we started seeing each other, he was friends with my friend so she didnt ...

How can I help my girlfriend feel more secure?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - Hi I could do with a little bit of genuine advice, because Im in a bit of a pickle with regards to an issue that keeps being raised in my relationship. I am 21 years old and I have been with my girlfriend nearly 15 months. I love her so ...

How can I sort this all out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Sorry my question is so long but i couldnt shorten it anymore.If you need to know anything about it please ask. Me and this guy met up and liked each other.after a week he asked me to have a relationship with him which i said no because i find it ...

My b/f says he doesn't know what he feels for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend says he doesn't know what he feels for me and needs to see me to help him decide. I went overseas and he had to move back to his hometown cos he lost his job. We had discussed we could manage a long distance relationship cos...

My girlfriend is suspicious and always frowning at me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - hi there. my gf and i are having serious problems since she saw me holding her sisters waist. she thinks we have someting doing but we dont! she frowns at everything i do,call me names,even in sex she frowns. please u guys should tell me what to do. ...

Should I give an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - I started hooking up with a friend of mine about 4 months ago. We love each others company and have a great time together. She knows how I feel and she bounces back and forth between feeling the same way, and just wanting to be friends. I want to ...

BF wants our LDR to become an open relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my guy for over 8 yrs now..since like school days....but it has always been a long distance relationship.. when we started i used to look very pretty and was a very confident girl....n he found this very attracti...

I'm giving off 'stay away' vibes to guys and want to change that

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I am a confident girl and I'm having trouble seeing why guys are not attracted to me. They never approach me or bother to look at me twice. However, the guys are not solely to blame. I will admit that I am intimidated by the opposite sex and it's ...

I am making my own plans for my future but sad I will never see my mother and sister again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

23 January 2010 (?) - i need help. i am a girl. and me and my girlfriend are planing to leave home after 18 , after school. we are not telling anyone . its like running away but we are legal to. everything is decided. at the end of this year we are leaving. but my mum ...

We've been dating for about two months but now I don't even find her attractive anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - Some background info to start out: -We're both in high school -This relationship is both our 1st relationship with anyone -We've been dating for about 2 months, and we've known each other for about 5 or so. -We see each other everyday at schoo...

Decides now he does not want to be with me coz I lied in the past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - me and my guy has been knowing eachother for 2 and a half years. for the first year we were good but i felt like he confused me.i lied to him before and he has forgave me. now hes saying hes not ready to be with me because he wants to make sure i ...

7 years on and he still has excuses not to marry me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Ok i just dont know what to do anymore. I was married for eighteen years. It was rocky marriage and stayed for the children. I was filing for divorce and had met this man that swept me off my sweet. He pursued me so strongly. He was so honest and ...

Read his letter and tell me..should I work this out with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Here is a letter my "fiance" sent me.. we have a 21 month old daughter have been together for 3 years. Please read it and let me know if I should bother trying to work this out. thank you. ----(from him) So let's cut the crap. I don't ...

My BF constantly flirts with other girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Hi me and my boyfriend has been going out for 3 months, its going good however, he keeps meeting random girls when he's out and he is meeting another girl next month and staying over at her house. He is also meeting up with his ex, and a random girl ...

How can I be noticed in real life and not in people's sugar covered depiction of reality?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - I've always had issues getting dates and relationships for some unseen reason, the only flaw that people i know can see when i ask them to honestly tell me what my problem is, they answer that the fact that i am basically a nerd and i wear clothing ...