New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in January, 2010, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (16), 2 (32), 3 (20), 4 (43), 5 (40), 6 (30), 7 (17), 8 (23), 9 (17), 10 (26),
11 (26), 12 (34), 13 (23), 14 (51), 15 (36), 16 (32), 17 (34), 18 (41), 19 (43), 20 (28),
21 (35), 22 (24), 23 (33), 24 (18), 25 (35), 26 (55), 27 (37), 28 (35), 29 (40), 30 (16),
31 (23),

Archived questions from: 19 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

(More questions from January, 2010)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We want to move to different places. what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - Well, my girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now and living together for half that time. We do love each other and are good to each other and with each other. She's currently 32 and I'm 28. The problem I'm facing is that we live on ...

My girlfriend is a bitch to me, but I still love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - I'm in high school, my girlfriend and I have been going out for like a month and a half now. I really do love her, but there has been some problems lately. Okay well, she's white and thinks she's black, she says she loves me, but is constantly ...

Help! Should I wait it out.. I don't know what to do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - i have been dating my boyfriend for over a year. we went to the same school, we saw each other every day. we were inseperable. recently i had to move out because of my mother, and now im in a different town, and going to a new school. On top of ...

He broke into my home and stole my jewellery!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I'm still having problems with all this guys. i have mentioned before about this thief of a boyfriend i had, he was convicted of fraud and theft on myself last year, has been in and out of prison and has stolen from EVERONE he meets for his ...

I wish I could just make things right and show her what she means to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - Hello, So I'm 28 and my girlfriend is 24 and we've been together for just over 2 years. Throughout the relationship I had the upper hand and as I reflect on it she has definately put in more effort. Approximately a month ago we got into a stupi...

I feel so ugly compared to Monica Bellucci (my boyfriend's heart throb!)

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I feel so ugly... my boyfriend has a huge celebrity crush on Monica Bellucci, and has seen many movies in which she has sex scenes, with a lot of nudity. I know that she's really beautiful, especially for her age, but it still makes me feel bad that ...

Since getting back together, he's made no effort to reassure me--and he's the one who cheated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I were together four years (lived together/wedding booked). he cheated on me and started going with this other girl (I didnt know), he split up with me but maintained we were on a break. Treated me really badly - didn't say sorry and said ...

Is this a cheating husband or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - if my husband emails and call his exgirlfriend who he cheated on me with when we were dating and he's telling her how she's pretty and her lips are so invting. would that be considered cheating? ...

Do you think she forgave me for talking to her boyfriend like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - ok well my homegirls boyfriend is really cute abd i like him. yesterday i was on myspace and we were going back and forth asking questions. he asked me if he was my type and i said yes and then i asked if i was his type and he said idk i dont want ...

She told me she couldn't do "girlfriend" and took it back. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - I have been dating this girl for about 5 months now. She is a rape survivor and it happened about 3 years ago in a long term abusive relationship. She really is an amazing woman who had to deal with alot. Recently she said she want me to be her ...

Why are some guys like this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - what makes it ok for some guys to think they can just touch girls and when the girl stands up to him she gets called a name. is that right?...

Should I break up with him because I still feel second best to this other girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - When me and my boyfriend started going out he was texting a girl everyday which i didnt know about. He used to text her everyday before he got with me anyway because they were good friends but he used to really like her and even asked her out before ...

What's going on with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I honestly dont know what the hells going on! I need your help, badly, because i cant let this guy go. Yes i really like him but even without that coming into it, hes means a lot to me as a friend and i hope we can be great friends. I just dont ...

I saved myself until the right guy came along, but now I have slept with him he told me about his past and it disgusts me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - hi.. i have a pretty big problem with my boyfriend, im 18 he's 19. i had saved myself for someone who i cared about, and that person was him. i saved myself because didn't want to be another number on some guys list of conquests, another story to...

My boyfriend is obsessed with smoking pot, how can I talk to him about this when he hasn't listened in the past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend smokes pot all the time and i HATE it. he has his cannabis card or whatever you want to call it, but hes OBSESSED. its basically all his friends do and pretty much all he talks about. any time i talk about doing something in a certain ...

I hurt her feelings but I want to make things right because I like her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - I hurt her a girl feelings accidently, and now she doesnt want to talk with me or let me talk to her. i was going through some problems so i didnt talk with her one week or 2, i dunno rly what to do,im feeling guilty and i really like her and i cant ...

Not crazy....just really want him back! Any advice would be great

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Me and my ex were together for three and a half years. I love him more than anything in the world and would do anything to get him back. Our relationship was not perfect especially in the last month or two but we were really happy before that. ...

He messed me around so I blocked and deleted him. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - ok so this guy i really liked..we got one..screwed me over..gave me false hopes.. screwed me over.. basically.. we were dating for a while.. we had sex..i gave in cos he kinda pressured me and i regret it soo much..the night we had sex.. he told ...

My heart has been broken one too many times and I'm scared to let my crush in, am I driving him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid There is this guy at work which I totally adore, and I have the biggest crush ever on him. He is everything that I look for in a guy! My question is that my heart has been broken once too many and i'm so scared to let him in, am I dri...

Dont let jealousy control your lives, learn to forgive and forget

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - To everybody, have learnt in my relationship that its jealousy that had caused most arguments. For all you lady's and gentleman that come on asking for help the biggest help i can say to you is DONT let jealousy over rule you, it did me, and it got ...

I'm 8 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has been distancing himself from me, maybe men are not right for me and I should become a lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together into this one post] Question 1: I jus found out yesterday that im pregnant. My bf has been distancing himself from me(not calling, texting, or coming over to my house). ...

She has me wrapped around her little finger......how can I stop her talking to my enemy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - hi, my girlfriend has me wrapped around her little finger,She has recently been going out with a friend that gets her into mischif, they both meet up with an old friend that i call my ARCH ENEMY!, The truth is im a verry jellous person who loves her ...

Do I believe my eyes or is he right in saying it is just my head playing tricks on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - hi i,ve been married 13 yrs now and i have a problem last yr an issued arrived which caused my trust to vanish he wasnt unfaithful or anything but he lied and covered up things to continue his lies n i caught him out. since then we argued n i think ...

How do I tell him I want a break without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - i work nights and am constantly on standby and my bf works days, and we are constantly fighting when i am off... so how do i tell him i want a break until i have a set schedule? i dont like hurting him but i am unhappy at the moment....

Did she get back with me because she really does like me or is there some other reason behind it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - Wow, havent been on here for a while. Well lets get to the point. A few days ago, my gf decided that it was best if we took a break. We had been going out for well over a year now. Then, about 2 days later she said that thats not what she wanted ...

I gave her everything she needed yet she still cheated on me! It makes me think I never want to fall in love again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - i have been with this girl about a year now, and i treated her so good, just like a queen, always was there for her and she even told me that i was the only one that she could ever tell embarrassing things to and be so comfortable with it. but jus a ...

My girlfriend won't give me oral sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm gonna go straight to the point; My girlfriend won't give me oral sex. She says she doesn't like doing it, even if I tell her that I really like it and would really love to do it to her first. I'll be straight, this is my first girl, so ...

My girlfriend keeps lying about her past and I cant handle it anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - I dont know if I want to stay with my girlfrend and I really need some help here. I know it should be my own decision but I really dont know what to do anymore. She had told me everything about her past. Well I had though everything. She had tol...

My friends say he is a creep and doesn't deserve me, but I still really love him! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost a year. We have been together for over 18 months. He chased me, professed his love and moved cities to be with me. I forced myself to love him and now he is making me very sad. He lost h...

Why did he have to go looking somewhere else for that kind of attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (?) - I feel like I'm not good enough for my boyfriend. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything has been great until recently. I found out a couple of weeks ago that he had been getting in touch with this girl who had called his ...

Did I freak him out?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

19 January 2010 (F) - I had worked with this guy for about 2 years and I had admitted to him that I liked him, and he had an idea that I did. He said he didn't really want to start anything because we did work together, which is understandable. I soon left and began a ...

How do I overcome this jealousy I feel towards my boyfriend's ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I feel jealous of my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. They're still friends and that isn't really a problem; she's really cool. The problem is more of the fact that I'm comparing my looks to hers. She's really tall. I'm only 4'9. She's extraordinarily ...

Pregnant and worried he is cheating on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I'm afraid my fiancee is or soon will be cheating on me. I'm 4 months pregnant and I've let myself go a bit because of it. I've found emails of him emailing craigslist girls saying he wants to chat and he's looking for a friend AND lover. He even ...

Why did I cheat on him when I am the one accusing him of cheating?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

19 January 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I was in a very long relationship (two years) and i honestly thought that he was the one for me. After a while, i realized that i was chatting on the internet to men i didn't even find attractive. My relationship at the time was very ...

I am profoundly hurt over her behavior!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend proposed recently and gave me a beautiful ring. We have been together for over 6 years and we are very happy. I called my best gf's first and the one that I thought was my very best friend, said she was at a bar and too drunk to talk. ...

What if there is a third party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 1 year and 7 months.We are both 22 years old.She is sleeping in our house for at least 2 to 3 times a week.We used to have so much love and care for each other but it seems that it all turn around ...

How to make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - I've Known my Girlfriend for 2 years before we hooked up as being good friends. The reason we didn't hook up before in the past, is that she was already in a relationship. what makes it interesting is that it was with another Girl. Anyway to make a ...

Online dating and trust

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - hi there, I need your advice on my situation. I am an international student in the US. During my thesis writing, I felt so stressful and boring, then I googled and joined a chat forum where I met a guy from Singapore. We started to talk and he s...

Conflicted - To leave or to stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for 6 years, I am 24 he is 29. we have been living together for about 5 and a half years. Anyway, recently I have caught him out lying and being dishonesty to me in regards to his activities on dating websites. I bas...

He's a pathological liar, and says he's still in love with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I'm a little confused as to what to do with a situation concerning this guy I dated. It's been over a year since we broke up, but we decided to remain friends. Before anyone gets any ideas, I have not been intimate in any way with him since w...

Old lady - old question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - My husband is an alcholic and his drinking is getting worse every day. Been in detox four times in 2 yrs. I can't take in anymore. I don't know what to do next. I love my home. can I keep it on my own income? i am 50 something. We got married ...

I got into a physical fight with my brother and now my boyfriend wants to beat the crap out of him.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 January 2010 (?) - I am a 17 year old girl and well last night was a really bad night. My twin brother and me got in a physical fight. I was already really upset and he was just getting on my nerves because he was calling me names and saying stuff that was starting to ...

My boyfriend needs to be more motivated...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I have recently got back from a year travelling. My boyfriend and I met one year before I went and as it was something I always wanted to do I decided to go anyway and we decided to try and make it work as we really liked each other. We worked at ...