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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Please help me fall out of love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - Basically im in a massive shit hole of a situation! It will sound wierd but I wanna fall out of love with someone. the person I fell in love with is my step sister and its a horrible feeling. I also done the stupid thing of telling her I love her ...

How can I change this mentality he has about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I've been with a guy for 3 years now, however, I have doubts about the relationship. When I first met him, I wasnt living a good lifestyle (I was Bi-sexual, and had a lot of guys), and because of him I changed for the better, I stuck with him ...

I feel violated by his video antics!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Last night I found video on my boyfriend computer, about a week old, of him filming up the skirts of women. I found 5 videos, i dont know if there are more. The video clearly shows his face, and him on escalators, putting his camera phone up girls ...

I feel betrayed and cheated. Did she cheat on me or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - So here's the story: I started to hang out a lot with this girl last year (I've known her for a while from college). She still had a boyfriend but he was to leave her after four years and eventually she cheated on him with me. We had a wonderful ...

Boyfriend flirts with other girls, what should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - So I have been dating my boyfriend not to long and I really like him he treats me so good, he makes me laugh and smile and is very sweet. He has told me before we dated that he is a flirt but he will not date other girls well he get's these friend ...

I am not coping with his past and the 3some he had!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Years ago my partner had a threesome with his then wife and her female friend in their house, in their bed whilst their child was at her granny's. It was his wife who initiated the threesome, she took her friend back, etc. His wife has always been ...

A question for the guys, why does my ex-boyfriend act this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Ok so me and my ex have been broken up for 3 months, he was talking to a girl about 3 weeks later and they started dating about a week after that. He lied to me when i asked about her and i asked several times, later on he said he just didnt wa...

I know I have to move on but why do I keep thinking that one day will be back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I am so confused about my situation. I know I have move on but why I still keep thinking about it that one day will be back together. My bf broke up with me before New Years Eve. He told me 12/27/09 that we have different goals in life. That h...

I think my boyfriend is an asshole but he is the only man I want!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles i really need help my boyfriend and i are having problems he is selfish and unaffectionate a smartmouth asshole but he is the only man i want and can think about he is my first and i care about him a lot but everyone keeps ...

He's hit me before but we have a kid and I don't want to leave him, what do I do to make this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half we have a 5 month old baby together.the first time he hit me was when i was a couple months pregnant i had never been in that situation before i felt as if my life was about to end thats how bad it ...

My mum is dragging my husband into our arguments, is she trying to sabotage my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Dear cupid,av got an issue that hurts me deeply.well i got into a very huge fight with my mum recently,she always barks orders at me and insults me evry chance she gets,so i bursted and told her that i wouldnt talk to her ever if she didnt start ...

Is he a friend or a bit more? I don't know what to do about him seen as I have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I have known my friend for nearly twelve years now but we never got close until secondary school, now he is always on my mind but i have a boyfriend and have been with him for two years and i do love him but its my friend we always talk we are so ...

Is there any way I can help him get over this so we can move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Please help me? :( I met up with a male friend (the first time I'd ever met him) a few months ago as STRICTLY a friends thing. I did this because he did something horrible to me and wanted to apologise in person, so I invited him down. I feel ash...

Is he just in denial about the baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I let myself be used and abused willing by a ramdon guy i've know for a little while, now i'm pregnant - the thing is he has a kid and we joked about having kids, not that i really thought anything of that, kids were the last thing on my mind. It ...

Fiance won't marry me because of ex sister-in-law's behavior!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - My fiance of two years (we've been together a total of 7.5 years and have a two-year-old daughter together) recently told me that he never wants to get married. He proposed on New Years 2008 right when the ball dropped. That summer we had some ...

What do I do about these deep feelings I'm having for my fiance's best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Good Afternoon Aunts and Uncles, I hope you can help me. I'm having love issues, as I'm sure alot of other people out there are aswell but I'd just like some advice as I wouldn't dare voice this aloud to anyone else. I've been with my boyfrien...

I'm so confused! Does he love me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Hi i will try to keep this as short as i can. My story starts way back in Jan 2009 my boyfriend and i had a heated row the first proper row in 6 years. A few days later he said he didn't feel the same way about me anymore his feelings had changed ...

Relationship going stale...

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18 January 2010 (F) - hi I am frightened that my relationship has gone stale. we have been together just over a year and i feel as though he is fed up of me. i try to talk to him about it but the truth is i dont know where my insecurities are coming from. i cant giv...

I feel betrayed, we broke up and while I was home crying he was off having sex with lots of different girls, now he wants me back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - My bf broke up with me, then went out and had sex with a bunch of random girls, and now he wants me back after 2 weeks of being broken up for. Why would he do this? He says he realises it was all a mistake and that he didnt appreciate what he had ...

I found a photo on his phone, he says its nothing but why keep the photo?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - i have just found a photo of a woman on my husbands phone which he had hid in his phone files when i asked him who it was he lied and after alot of shouting at him he admitted he had kissed her on a night out when he was away on a stag doo. He said ...

My ex girlfriend and her friend cooked up a scheme to get back at me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - So, I went out with this girl for maybe 3 weeks. A the end of the three weeks, she dropped me for occasionally saying stupid (not mean, just stupid) things, and not calling her on a holiday. I tried to get her back for maybe a week then about a week ...

My boyfriend cheats on me, I wish I could just walk away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - well my Bf is a jerk, we've been together for more than year and a half. he keep lying and he does a lot of internet dating. I went on holiday for XMas and came back on the 4th, when i came back he aid we will make a fresh start and he gonna stop. I ...

I think he sabotaged our relationship because he anticipated it wouldnt last

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I hung out recently. He's been M.I.A. for months due to personal/financial probs.He contacted me,he was in the area - We talked and flirted for hours in the car.He talked bout hating the dating process,wants companionship,someone ...

I even joined the military to help forget her, but it isnt working

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - im in some trouble here. about half a year ago I started this girl who lives in canada while I live in the states. yea a ldr. we had such a connection. all the same likes and dislikes. are connection was so strong that thru some days after meeting ...

How can I create a better life for myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Help! I am lacking a good support system that I can trust. The two people that I trusted most have both betrayed me. My fiance' of 4 years cheated on me with my younger sister who was living with us. It has been one of the most painful times in my ...

Is there a place for a teenager to become a foster child without going to the police?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Hi there, I have posted on here before about my step father hitting me, and how my mother has chosen to be happy with him although he is abusing me. But now, I am at a turning point. I have searched all over the internet, and there is no foster ...

He proposed to me during sex! What do you think he wants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Hi, Last summer, I was about to get married but we broke up 15 days before the wedding. After 2 months, my ex-boyfriend wanted to talk to me after 6 years. At first, we were just walking and talking for a month. We used to talk about everythi...

I crave to be with her but she says she is not ready, if I give her a baby will she come and live with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - I met this girl on a nightout I fell for her hook line and sinker we speak on the phone everyday and have done for 16 months I love her she has had a lot of problems and there is a 13 year difference I'm 31 she is 19 she says she's not readt to be ...

He fawns over young employees and tells them I am okay with it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I have struggled with a situation twice in the past 4 years with my husband of 12 years. We have 3 young children. Each time he developed a "crush" on a much younger employee, which lasted 6-8 months (winding down now). Although no physical ...

Wife number two doesn't like children of wife number one, I have them once a week, and every week she complains

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - Should I leave my 2nd wife? She and the kids from the 1st wife don't click well at all, I've tried so many things but noting helped, the kids stay with us every Sunday, by Sunday evening she always bitch to me about them, so my week is always m...

I adore her, I want to make her fall in love with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - I have a really big problem, I like this girl that i've known since grade 9. (I am 17) She is my closest friend, someone I can trust no matter what and I have gone over in the middle of the night upset just to speak to her. I adore this girl so muc...

I hardly see him but I can't get him out of my head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Ive had a thing for this guy for almost two years, off and on. recently, i realized my mistake in suppressing my thoughts of him and have come to the conclusion that i could seriously love him. i cant say im in love yet, but i honestly feel like one ...

I offered to be a FWB, he agreed but now he isnt talking to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Last week, my boyfriend broke up with me (for the third time but this time I don't want to get back together)because he had enough with all the stress from me, school, and family (his parents are breaking up and he would had to get a part-time job ...

My boyfriend has a body fluid fetishes

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is into all fluids that are produced by the body and his "fetish" has now gotten out of control. He wants me to take a laxative before anal sex so that i can s!%t on him during sex. If he's in my anus will the poop come out?.... and ...

How do I deal with my boyfriend's daughter?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is 50 and has two children a 14yr boy and 16yrgirl (he rarely sees his boy). my partner's been separated from their mother for 15 years (who is remarried and has another child)- the daughter has him wrapped round her little finger and ...

Shouldn't relationships be built on trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - here's the situation. i've been dating this guy and he's said some pretty mean things to me/doesn't apologize/etc. and i've tried to break up with him but always he somehow convinces me to get back together with him. then we traveled togethe...

Despite a loving relationship for 17 years I am still bothered by the guys she knew before she met me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - OK - after reading all the other posts and trying to compare mine with others - I could not! So, here I go. I have been in a very sexually active relationship with my current wife of over 13 years especially when we have been together for wel...

I have proof she cheated but she is still in denial

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - what if you're you been a girl with a year now, and she thought she could be slick and have a side relationship with a another guy, but when you caught her and even gave her sure proof, she denies it. even when u have proof of them flirting...

What should you do if you have a selfish boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - What should you do if you have a selfish boyfriend?...

I have proof she was cheating, but she still denies everything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - what if you're you been a girl for with a year now, and she thought she could be slick and have a side relationship with a another guy, but when you caught her and even gave her sure proof, she denies it. Even when u have proof of them flirting...

She said she liked me, and I started liking her, but now she says she hates me, what did I do wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 January 2010 (?) - I'm 14 and this girl used to have a major crush on me, and i didn't feel the same way, eventually i started liking her and now i am totaly obsessed. We went out and even though her feelings hadn't changed she ended it. She then started ignoring me ...