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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I stop having feelings for my friend's boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I have a huge problem, my best friend and me have been friends since 8th grade, two years ago she started going out with a kid that i introduced to her. Before they were going out i thought he was kind of cute and felt really atracted to him but now ...

My mom won't stop calling my boyfriend gay!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Ever since my boyfriend and I started dating, my mom has poked fun at him. I usually just laugh it off, because I used to poke fun at her boyfriend, but lately it's been getting a little harsh. We've been together for 7 months, but we haven't h...

Unhealthy relationship. What do I do for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - I am in love with my best friend, I think i am obsessed with him I told him how I feel, I love everything about him, His smell his eyes his hairy body he is fat and has the cutest face he spits, farts, snores and is fearless he is a bear type he is ...

Is he taking advantage of all the freedom I give him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - so my boyfriend spends a lot of time with his friends playing football, video games and other stuff, but i think he spends to much time with them and not enough with me sounds crazy right, well i do things with my friends but he hardly do anything ...

How can I love someone when he doesn't love me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - How can I love someone when he doesn't love me back? How I know is when I have to beg my husband to hold my hand in public that's not love And we fight a lot. He has children with his ex wife and we have a 21month old little girl and a 9 week old ...

Should I be worried about my boyfriend's behavior? Or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - hi, this may seem stupid but its making me feel down, me and my fiance have been together a yr and half. im 9 months pregnant. we was ordering a take away online and instead of putting our post code he put his exs. it seems really dodgy to me, why ...

My girlfriend has a low sex drive and I am worried it might cause problems in the future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Ive been dating the women of my dreams, for almost 2 years now. We want to get married. only problem i fear is that she has a low sex drive. Now to be honest im a nymph :) how do i get her to be free and open with me, i am the one constantly ...

I don't think he's gay, but why would he look at gay porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a good relationship with a strong black man for 5 years. He has always been interested in porn, and his brother explained that it was common when growing up because their Dad had tons of porn in the house. I started a high demand job ...

Do people really love or care about you if they don’t want you to succeed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I’ve been visiting with my boyfriend his family every other weekend for about three years now. I’ve gotten very close to his mother and am close to his sister and children and friendly with his father and brother-in-law. I haven’t worked in the ...

Is my only option to break up with her? I don't feel I should be responsible for taking care of her and paying for all her bills!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Dear cupid, My girlfriend and I have been dating since april of 09. She is 19 and I am 20. It was love at first sight when we met, but in ther last couple months I haven't been happy at all. You see, her parents are kicking her out in february ...

I'm so sexually frustrated but I don't want to seem pushy and rush her into something she's not ready for!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Hey, I'm 19 years old (nearly 20) and have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 6 months now. only, I still haven’t moved past 1st base with her yet (we've only kissed) It seems to be the only thing that’s bothering me about the whole ...

After this last week he has scared me a little, should I stay with him and get married or leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid I am involved in a gay relationship with my best friend. He is married but now separated. We have been together about 1year and 5 months. We have never had sex as yet but we do sleep together in the same bed when I go spend the night ...

We were getting along great and suddenly everything has changed, I don't know what went wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - okay i know this is probably a stupid thing to get so upset about. i just really dont know what to do! im 17 now, when i was 14, i met this guy.. he was 18, so i never thought anything would go further than the comforting hug which i got every now ...

Why is my boyfriend not replying to my texts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend went to his dads for new years and because of this he had to break off a date. he didn't text me at all or call and i texted him 2 times with no answer. then at new years he texted me happy new years and i told him that back and th...

How can I make sure that she will want to resume our relationship some point later down the road?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Hi, i my girlfriend recently just broke up with me. For the past 11 months i have been very happy with the girl i have been with. She is terrific and i love her very much still and care about her. I know she still has feelings for me but i can't h...

We argue about everything and he always blames me for starting them! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I have been in an relationship for 1 1/2 years we now have a 2 month old baby and he lives with me and my 12 year old son. We argue about everything.... no matter what is! We are good together financially seems everything else is a problem. He ...

I'm worried I might just be her safety net until she meets someone better!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - my gf broke up with me 3 months ago i dated this girl for three years.....two and a half were great. the last months we fought a lot but i was still suprised when we broke up...i just thought it was something we could get past...we took some time ...

What is he trying to tell me? Does he love me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Hi all so the guy im seeing told me he loves me but is not in love.But then he said he used to think he was in love with me.He also said he has deep feelings for me.What is he saying?...

How shall I face the relationship with my brother-in-law?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - i have a cousin that has two little children with a man that's not married with yet. this man, that i consider him to be my brother in law made me several personal compliments. that looked strange to me, but considering him to be a good family man, ...

I still love him and think he will come crawling back again, but he blew his last chance with me after he slept with my friend! How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - For about a year now i have been sort of seeing this boy on and off, he is a year older than me (im 14) and i always knew he had done stuff with other girls. loads of people warned me he was a player and was no good for me but i paied no attention. ...

Who is at fault: The girl for making inappropriate sexual comments, or the guy for not standing up to her and setting clear boundaries?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - When a girl is saying inappropiate sexual type comments to your bf, who is responsible? The girl, or is your bf responsible for standing up to her and making sure the boundaries are clear? My bf dosesnt see himself as having any responsibily in ...

My boyfriend seems more concerned with getting his ego boost from this older woman rather than considering my feelings in all of this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I am 21, and my bf is 25. We have been together for about 10 months now. When we first met, I remember him telling me that he usually goes for "older women" and has never dated someone younger. I felt a bit insecure and on edge because of that. ...

Is this my problem...or our problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been dating for eleven mos. It's been a pretty rocky relationship, and a lot of it stems from the fact that I suffer from both major depressive disorder and PMDD and I am not settled on any medications yet ...

I'm depressed about what I've done!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been together since I was 14. I'm now 21. Please don't judge and call me a horrible person. I know the mistakes I've made. I've been paying for them everyday. Anyway, back to the problem. When I was 17 I told my husband I ...

In love with best friend and she's what I'm living for!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I just dont know what to do anymore. I love someone even though I know I cant have her cause shes my bestfriend and we all know how that ends. Shes going through some pretty rough shit and all I wanna do is be there for her. Problem is I listened...

Am I A Monster?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - I am not a perfect person and i dont believe anyone is. But i do think i should be better than this. Im only just starting to see how much of a nasty selfish person i am. What i want to know is am i as bad as i think i am. Is there no hope for me to ...

I need to change for my relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I feel like i've gone through this with my boyfriend a dozen times,we've broken up because of trust issues mostly from me. We want to be together but find it hard to stay together happily. First off we went out for 1 year and broke up for 2 months ...

Haunted by my girlfriend's past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I am on my girlfriend's account, hence the female part. She has given me permission to write a question here, and has been very supportive in trying to solve this with me. She has even posted a question herself. My girlfriend is 17, and she's a ...

I told him I would call his home!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I was in a relationship with a married man and I thought I got pregnant and tried to contact him several times. So I called him a few times for about 5 days and he didn't answer. Then I sent him a message stating that I thought I was pregnant and I ...

I need a firm plan as to what to do with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - ive decided that as it is a new year i should decided what to do about my ex, i really miss and want him back even though i dont want to feel this way. hes my first love so its crazy to say i thought we were going to last forever but i did. i am ...

He makes me feel so rubbish about myself that I have doubts about us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Hey, I've now currently been with my boyfriend for two months, I have known him for six months we were together before for three weeks but it didnt work out as we never saw each other much but we realised we both wanted to be with each other AL...

His life doesn’t revolve around me so why should mine!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I'm getting the feeling that my best friend thinks that I need him. Just because I told him that I like him. I think that he thinks that since i like him that I am interested only with him. How can I get the point across that i don't need him in ...