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Archived questions from: 6 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Does he not care about me at all?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - my bf told me that he was entertaining his ex while i was at work wtf? he then said that she still has feelings after so long,after that he came to pick me up on work and was all jolly .then later that night he said he wanted have sex with her but ...

Did she love me or was she just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 2.5 yrs split for 6 months last year. During that period she had a failed relationship with a new guy and got sacked from her job Then she contacted me again and said she wanted us to work. She moved overseas to be with me again...

How can I get through to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Ok everyone i need lots of help. I was kinda seeing this guy but then we stopped talking, (it was all down to an ex of mines.) Anyway i had not heard from this guy until sunday when he texed me something very random then again he texed saying soz ...

Boyfriend says he needs time.. what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend through work about 7 months ago when he was with his ex girlfriend of 1 year, 7 months. He broke up with her about 4 months ago and we started going out straight after. However he went through a stage where he said he needed time ...

My girlfriend keeps breaking up with me so she can go out with other men, what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - hello everyone, so my girlfriend cheated one me broke up with me saying it was my fault, then when i found out it was cause she was cheating on me i forgave her and we got back together. then she started a fight so she could go on a date with ...

Am I doing the right thing by having a girlfriend right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - Hi, me and my girlfriend were steady for almost 2 years. I loved her so much and consider her my first true love. In the beginning i fucked up when she said no when i asked her out and i ran back to my ex and then realized it was a mistake and that ...

Husband texting and flirting with a married woman, should I tell her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - I recently discovered my husband has been texting and phoning a co worker with sexy suggestive stuff to titillate each other. He accidentally left some texts on his phone and they were sexy and loving. I am pretty sure it didn't go beyond that from ...

I lied to my girlfriend of three years about where I went to school.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - Hello, This is a pretty desperate act here but I need help. I have been with my girlfriend of three years and I love her with every fiber of my being but I have been lying to her about where I went to school for the entire duration of our ...

Should I tell him why I cant be around him anymore? I feel cheap and gutted that he doesn't want to date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - This is really long but I think I need some professional help. I have never had much confidence but when I started my new job a few years back it was meant as a new start and I felt really positive, however, after a few weeks things weren't g...

I cheated on my ex as a teenager, and now my current boyfriend cant let it go and says he wont ever be able to trust me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Hi, well I'm with a guy at the moment and everything is amazing, apart from one thing, before I was with this guy I had a bf who I cheated on whilst drunk, the guy I cheated with was a total nutjob stalker type. It was complicated at the time, ...

Things had been going well before she suddenly decided she cant do long distance anymore! What does all of this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - Me and this lady had been doing a long distance relationship for about 8 months. I would go visit her and she would come visit me. We never had the title boyfriend and girlfriend. i had come home in august and we talked about it and said that if we ...

The physical element of our relationship is lacking so does he have the right to be with another woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm interested to hear from anyone whose been cheated on by their someone they love.. HAS cheated on someone they love.. or feels patient enough to read my story and give me their honest opinion... So I'm 27 and have been with m...

Should I give him some more time or just give up completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - hey guys help please..my guy friend told me he wanted to be more than friends with me but he was wary as well having been in a relationship in the past that hurt him..he told me he felt comfortable around me i was really pleased as i also wanted ...

My boyfriend completely shuts down whenever something upsets him, how can I get him to let me in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have known each other for a year now and officially dating 2 months . I find that when he is in a bad mood or someone or something upsets him he shuts down completely. I have on numerous occasions tried to make a break through and ...

He is obsessed with me... I don't know what else to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - I have known this guy for 14 years and he has ALWAYS been in love with me... Warts and all! I cant do anything wrong in his eyes and believe me I have done some dodgy sh*t haha! He has only ever had 1 serious girlfriend and even then he was stil...

How can I prove to my girlfriend I don't watch porn and I have no interest in ever watching it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - How do I prove to my girlfriend that I'm not watching porn? She worries that she's not enough for me, we've been together for nearly 2 years and I want to be with her forever, but can't move forward until I feel like she's ready to be with me. P...

She has a boyfriend yet seems to flirt with me all the time! What's going on with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - hello. im in quite a dilemma here. I love this girl that has a boyfriend. she's my coworker and is the same age. she has had a boyfriend since highschool. we are really good friends and she is really close with me. a couple weeks ago she was texting ...

Should I tell my new partner that I enjoy dressing in women's clothes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - I am a man in my early fifties and I have recently met a lovely woman. I want this relationship to be successful and I want to be totally honest with her. My problem is that my honesty could destroy the relationship. I want to tell her that I like ...

Is there a way to separate from my second wife without having to sell my house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - dear cupid, I sadly lost my first wife 16 years ago age 58, I also lost her sister age 56 who was a widow, life can be a pig, I met a lady 9 years younger than myself who I regrettably married 12 years ago, the marriage has never been consummated ...

Help me please! How can I get my boyfriend to trust me and believe in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - i have a serious problem that i so desperately need help with .... I have been with this guy for 9 months now and at the time we were just seeing each other i was still talking and see my ex boyfriend and well i was very confused on what to do cause ...

How can I bring back the spark in our relationship and stop worrying about her actions with other guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - my girlfriend and I really love each other, however there is a slight issue. She is close friends to another guy and sees him as her good friend but then they used to like eachother in the past, although it was at different time. They would phone ...

What does she mean by sending me a message like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - Hi all, I had a crush with this girl for like 2 months back in March. We both know that we liked each other at that time but as it got complicated(cuz we are really distanced, she's from a state 4000km away from me) we didn't start. I know fr...

What would you do if your friend's boyfriend is in love with you, and you have feelings for him too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - What would you do if ur friends guy is in love with you and u have feelings for him also,before they meet.and now he is back for you,but you dont want to hurt your friend? ...

He says he'll get help so should I go back to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - The other day, my boyfriend and I were arguing in my car. He kept saying he was going to leave me so i fianlly got tired of the threats and told him that i was not going to beg him to stay anymore. At one point he just sat and let me express my ...

How do I stop destroying my relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - I have a problem with destroying my own relationships. Between the insecurity, short fuse, and accusations I push guys away left and right. It took me awhile to realize that it is a trend and its my fault. While some things I have every right to get ...

I'm so scared of losing her and I need her so much! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - Hello all, I've been with this girl for more than 2 years now, she's an intern, and will graduate in august, so on 3 Dec 2009 she broke up with me because she wants to continue her studying and become a surgeon, after 3 days of crying and beggi...

Why isn't my girlfriend attracted to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - ok so i have been dating my girlfriend for a year and 8 months and i love her with all of my heart. we have had a great relationship and we are basically best friends. we rarely fight and when we do we always work it out. our relationship started ...

What is my long-distance boyfriend thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend got into a big fight about 5 days ago. This is the biggest we've had in the year we've been together; granted we never really fought for starters. Our relationship is long distance and is been getting harder to handle because his ...

Boyfriend lies about porn and accuses me of cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i havent been getting along the greatest ill tell you why after i get throught this, after almost everyfight we have i talk to one of his friends ,lately it seems like his friend is hitting on me.. im not attracted to him at all ...

Ex boyfriend's friends yelling at me. How do I deal with my emotions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - I dated my ex boyfriend for a year now. I broke up with him because he didn't treat me like i wanted to be treated. We broke up once before a long time ago then we got back together again. My ex asked for his stuff back so i waited for him at m...