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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I a huge sucker if I continue with this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years, I'm 27 and he's 30. We have a good relationship, we communicate with each other and enjoy cooking and exercising together. But it's not perfect,I wouldn't be asking for advice if it were. Problems ...

My ex bailed after over 2 decades, no warning, told me he didn't love me, left me to be a single parent with no financial income, and sees our kids maybe every 4 to 8 wks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - What if 3 kids are involved? And the ex has cut them off financially and emotionally as well? That's what my ex did, bailed after over 2 decades, no warning, told me he loved me, left me to be a single parent with no financial income, sees our kids...

After reading his emails I worry he's gay and I am his cover

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - AHHHHHHHHHHH! i neeed help! im 19 years old and ive had a boyfriend for 4 years already!...hes a lot older than me hes 27. yeah i know such a big age gap but he is my bestfriends brother and by just going over her house everyday all day long we ...

She is so shy she might run if I approach her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - Slightly confused as to make a move on this girl or not ? She's in her early 30's and slightly older than me, we've been working at the same place for about 6 months, she's spot on, ticks all the boxes but i'm getting mixed signals, when she'...

I worry about my sexuality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - I am 16 nearly 17 year old male, And i have a problem. I am firstly very conscious about my appearance (overweight, i myself would like to be more muscular) but thats not important, i believe myself to also be a late bloomer...but thats not importan...

School, Crush, Dreams, Hopes and Fears

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I have a big crush on this guy in one of my classes and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. We had to do this project and we had to ask a person questions about them and write a story. One of my questions was something like what do you want to be doing ...

Should I let things settle and just be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I've dated bf for 7 years now. I've always had hope in him because after 4 months of dating, I wanted him to be my future husband. After 4 years of solid dating, I started to change my mind/heart. I started to feel that the grass might be greener on ...

Why don't I trust my boyfriend? do I need help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - So, im 18 years old and i started not trusting my boyfriend and getting fishy ever since this: to make a long story short: he gave me his email account/password back in sept to check something. In Dec, i went on his account because i got fi...

How do I fix my self esteem after dumping a narcissist partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - i have broken free of a narcissist after 4yrs. i know i must stay positive, use my exercise equipment, spend time with my grandchild,do some voluntary work, take up a hobby , go for a swim,but my self esteem is in the gutter, i have no motivation ...

My boyfriend wants to sleep with a married woman and I don't think it's right!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I'm a 25 year old female that has been dating a 34 year old man for 5 years. He recently came into contact with a former female college friend and they've been flirting online. Now, he plans to meet with her this weekend to go to a concert. He goes ...

How can I stop being so needy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - i am in desperate need of help, my partner and i met eachother online 4 years ago, and moved in with eachother 6 months after first meeting, hes 26, im 24. before we moved in we would chat on the phone for hours every day, in total about 7 hours a ...

Is he gay or are we just wrong for one another?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Hi. I've been seeing this guy for almost two and a half years(I'm older by two years and divorced with a son). One week after being together he said this reltionship wasn't going to work out.Nevertheless he kept loving me ,and calling me ...

I think my g/f is trying to get pregnant so I marry her. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - I have been dating my g/f for more than 6 months now and she has been hinting about marriage. We have been having sex since our second month of dating and up until a few weeks ago I was using condoms. My girlfriend went on the pill so I would ...

Have I wasted 5 yrs of my life with this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I've been living with my fiance for 5 years. He's 50 this year and i'm 47. At the start he said he wanted marriage and would ask me on a weekly basis but now he seems to have changed his mind. When i approach the subject he either says i'm starting ...

What do I do to save our relationship? What do I do to make up for my mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - A few years ago, I met a girl. We were both in relationships at the time and we carried on kind of a long distance friendship. About a year ago, after I split with my ex, we started to talk more, and even though we lived a long ways apart, we ...

I do not trust that this girl isn't going to attempt to sabbotage our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I posted a question yesterday about a mutual friend sending my boyfriend love letters and that my boyfriend is still friends with her, and im not, she lied about sending them after i found them, and threatened me to report me to the police when i ...

How can I stop my jealousy, be secure again, be sexy, feel sexy again and get my relationship to a normal healthy state??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - hello, i am 20 and my boyfriend is 41. we have been together almost 2 years. we started our relationship "Long Distance". After 3 1/2- 4 months of being together. I had my school prom and went with my ex. I kissed my ex and danced with him. I know ...

My husband is telling my friends his sexual fantasies! Is this ok?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Is it okay for a husband to exchanges emails of his sexual fantasies to two friends of mine which the two friends responded back to them. They have been doing for a while. This was his second time. I am confuse whether I should forgive him or ...

Will he leave me when he looses weight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Ive a bf who is overweight. He is planning to have a surgery but Iam little bit worried because he may cheat on me after surgery. Cause Iam thinking that oh nowhe is overweight and he thinks no girl looks at her thats why he is really into me and ...

I have a boyfriend so how do I deal with these feelings I have for a mutual friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I am in a terrible situation and I have no idea what to do. I am usually so focussed in life, knowing what I want but I am actually torn between what I currently have and what I can potentially get. I have been in a relationship with a man for a...

Is he trying to get my attention by telling me he wants space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

28 January 2010 (?) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for about eight months. Every thing has been alright, except that we have had one longstanding problem of attention. At first, I was always the one complaining that he was not giving me enough attention. He would like ...

He didnt get me a birthday present, am I just being used?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 1/2 months. A few weeks ago he moved away for work for 3 months. It was my birthday last week and he sent me nothing. Yes he rang a few times on the day and sent a few texts...its not like he forgot. I asked him ...

I feel very insecure with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend has been known for never being single for long. After a breakup, it doesn't take him long to get someone new. We have a history so I sure as hell hope I'm something special. Whenever I hear one of his ex-girlfriends' ...

He says he feels trapped, should I give him an untimatum

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - six years ago i caught my fella with another woman this wasnt the first time and i threw him out. i took him back on the understanding that we went out as a couple and he could go to the local occasionaly. recently hes been going nightclubbing with ...

Can dreams predict the future? Am I freaking out over nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I'm not sure if this post has anything to do with a relationship, but I really could use some help. I had a really weird dream last night, and I'm not sure what it meant. I'd like to hear from anyone who knows about dream analysis. I...

I'm trying to make him miss me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I will just introduce myself as Princess in here ^^ 19 years old this year ^^ hmm.. Actually I have problems with my boyfriend, he is 22 years old this year.. We been together for almost 2 years.. We started together on 21-04-2008.. I m...

I no longer enjoy her daily company.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - I am in a weird limbo with my girlfriend. I have both profound concern for the way she feels, but at the same time no longer enjoy her as daily company. My problem is I have no healthy relationships to define where healthy boundaries, and being a ...

I need help to get me back on track of focusing on me and my goals.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles i really need advice my boyfriend and i were having problems and i was sos deeply in love with him i stopped focusing on myself and my goals to help him obtain and find his but now i feel like i need to take a break from people ...

My boyfriend has told me many things that have made me feel so bad about my body.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - What can I do? My boyfriend has told me many things that have made me feel so bad about my body. In his mind, he's just being honest and blunt, but in the end "it doesn't matter, because I LOVE you!" - like it was a magical phrase to make me feel ...

I had to be stupid and ruin it by kissing his best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Okay. i really need help... my life is so complicated.. i know this is a love/dating site but i thought someone on here might be able to help me.. I was dating this guy for 2 years and then i had to be stupid and ruin it by kissing his best...

I want our relationship back but don't know what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for almost 3 years now. He has taken on my 4 year old son as his own. Things were so good in the first 2 years of our relationship. We were so happy all of the time, except for the ocassional fight from time to ...

Does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I was involved with a man and during that time we've had our ups and downs.. he used to tell me how I wasn't affectionate enough and that I was mean.. here's the thing , I care about him so much that I've been doing some self improvement both ...

How can I stop being so insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years and just recently (about 6 months ago) I've started to become really insecure. I am getting more and more insecure everyday and its for little things like if he says no to something that i ...

She talked about heartbreak with an ex friend, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, I've not been on one of these forums before, so apologies in advance if I'm not clear I have a bit of a confusing situation with my current long term girlfriend. I have recently overheard my girlfriend telling one of her frien...

Emotional cheating, should I accept it and move forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - If your partner/spouse of over 30 years with whom you had been very happy (most of that time) cheated on you emotionally and got close to someone else to confide in instead of you although declaring how much they love and always have loved you, ...