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Archived questions from: 22 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Does he like me or is he playing match maker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I am not the most popular 9th grader girl but I am the most fashionable and pretty cute. I have reason to believe that (lets say his name is James) James likes me but I am not sure, please help. We have math together and I often catch him glancing ...

I don't understand his sudden loss of interest. I can't get this man out of mind!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I met a guy, one who appears to be the perfect man. After a week of talking on the phone, we met. In my opinion, it was a nice weekend. After he left on Monday, we had a good conversation, but not as great as it was before we met each other. By ...

Should I go out with my best guy friend? Will it ruin our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - There are rumors going around my high school about me going out with my best guy friend. They think we are going out because we are mostly always together, but we don't flirt with each other or anything. Everyone says that we would make such a cute ...

Do I meet up with this guy one on one even though he knows I have a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - This boy I know asked me out for a drink to say thank you for something I had done for him. I asked my LT bf what he wished for me to do and he said he didn't mind if I went. He's now asked me to go out again one-on-one. He's knows I have a bf. This ...

Boyfriend is almost a foot taller than me and it makes me uncomfortable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Okay well I'm 5' O" and my boyfriend is 5' 11". We've been dating for 1 month but known his for 4 years. He says he has no problem what so ever with my height but it feels so awkward when we hug and when we kiss. I'm a lil lower than his shou...

My boyfriend no longer helps me clean house and he's lost his sex drive. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I just don't know where to begin…Okay I have been with my boyfriend almost 1 year. I do love him and I know he loves me. But is that enough? He lived with me for a while, but we decided it was best not to live together. I have 4 kids, and I was ma...

Can I stay with my bf who, at 45, is terrible at money management and always in a financial crisis?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - My bf always seems to have a financial crisis. I met my bf for over a year now. Few months after we were dating exclusive, I noticed that he was always anxious about money. Though, he doesn’t make lots of money but he works full time and make ar...

Should I text him first if he doesn't text me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - Ok, So I'm 19 years old and I'm gay. Anyways I'm just in the process of coming out of the closet, most of my close friends, cousins, aunts and uncles know, except my parents, but well I'm planning to do that soon. Anyways, a couple of weeks ag...

In what time frame does a guy know if he wants a relationship or to keep it casual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Ok. I am wondering about my situation. I have been casually dating this guy for about a two months. We talk on the phone..not everyday, but 3 to 4 times a week. I mentioned about a month ago, my birthday was coming up and on my birthday he called ...

I have feelings for my ex's best friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - I was dating a girl and lets say her name is....Brittney. anyways we never talked. well after having a falling out we decided to end things but me and her best friend keep staring at each other in class and we do talk ,but I dont want to mess up ...

Why can't my bf give me an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles, I've been with my bf for almost a year now. He has not been able to make me have an orgasm. He expressed it to me that he feels so sad that he can't do that. I've made him cum quite often, but sometimes he used his hand to...

My bf said one day I will realize I am too good for him. What does he mean by that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I've got a few relationship questions, and I'd be grateful if you answer at least one of them! We've been together for 9 months. He is my first real boyfriend. We're pretty comfortable around each other and can talk about almost eve...

How the hell are people able to break up and not get devastated??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - OK so it has been a week since this girl I was in a relationship and I stopped speaking. I initiated it because she was lying and hurting me and we talked about it for weeks before and I know it was the best thing. BUT...it is killing me!!! It...

He sort of cheats with dirty talk with girls fhrough emails, what should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hi All, I've been with my boyfriend for about 9months now. In this time i have caught him chatting up girls via email (randoms and old friends). We got through this and all was fine and i thought he had changed but recently he left his email ac...

Do I just tell him I want to wait for my birthday to have sex??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now. I am 15 almost 16 and he is already 16, he suggested us having sex, I was quite weary as to do it or not, this is because i weigh quite a lot and have very large breasts that ...

Why does my partner lose his erection during intercourse without ejaculating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - My partner loses his erection during intercourse without ejaculating? Why? I did not have a this problem with my previous partner! ...

I'm gay and falling for my straight best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - My name is Phillip and I am gay. This whole situation is going to get a little complex so bare with me. In November 2009 I told my friend Cory that I love him and since then he has avoided coming anywhere near me. I wasn't hurt because he was ...

He left me for another woman while I was pregnant. I need advice. Has this happened to others?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I feel like am going through an emotional hell just now and any advice would be welcome. I am 20 weeks pregnant and my ex broke up with me just when we found out. To cut a long story short, we have had a very close friendship for over a year. We...

What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...

I still love her, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - I have like a female friend for about 6-7 years already. Initially, we only started texting each other but we progressed to talking on the phone everyday. This happens everynight after school(we are classmates). Eventually we realize that we love ...

How do I get him to notice me more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I really want this cute guy to notice me but hes the hottest guy around and always has his friends around him. I think he likes me but we are both kinda shy. It feels diffrent than any other crush I'v had, every time I see or even just think ...

What do I say to her to get her interested in going out with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - on satuday night one of my female friends had a birthday party and before i only knew 2 people who were going because they were my friends. i had a great night and met some really nice people girls and guys. but there was one girl who i t...

I am dating my ex's friend, is this wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hi there can anybody give me some advice please? I started seeing a guy last year, he is of different religion to me and within a few days i could tell he was a jealous person and trying to gain control of me. He didnt like me going out with ...

I want to know how to be a better kisser, not what not to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - Could someone please help me with this? All I keep reading is what NOT to do, but rarely do I find suggestions on what TO DO. I've had no shortage of practice but my kisses are still just so so. I had one girlfriend who was a phenomenal kisse...

I want children, he already has 2. Do I believe him when he says we could have more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has 2 kids from his previous marriage, I don't have children but would like to. He doesn't want any more children, but he says he will consider it if we get married. Do I take him at his word and hope he changes his mind if we marry ...

She wants to hear from me but I think she still loves her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - i want to date this lady who jst came out of a 4 month relationship which did not work out,we've been talking on fon for two weeks now n the respond has been great.i told her how i feel abt her bt she said she likes to hear from me bt she think ...

How do I tell her about my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - i love one girl since 7 years .i didn't tell her about it,i am afraid to tell her,i can't even face her,how can i tell her about my feeling?...

Everyone is trying to break us up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - hey, i am seeing this boy we have only been together about 2months now and its been so hard as everyone is getting involved in our business. for the last 2 weeks we have been arguing all the time because other people keep sticking there noses in. ...

Must I move on with my life rather than being with someone who doesn't tell me he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend are going out for 5 months he sometimes dont call me for 3 days and he does not tell me he loves me not even if i ask him,he only says im special to him last weekend he did not call should i call him? must i move on with my life ...

He's quite shy and I prefer the man to make the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I've started seeing a boy, but we're not going out... yet. He's quite shy and I always prefer to let the man make the first move, which means that our relationship isn't really progressing. I do want to be with him but I'm not too sure what to do ...

A not so jolly holiday. I don't think he is right. Any opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 year has 2 children from his previous marriage. I invited them to to our family Christmas dinner. He came along with his children, but didn't accept the invitation for certain until a few days before Christmas. He was very ups...

Should I end it with my long term lover(A), despite his objections, so I can be with (B)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship for the past 5 years with (A). There's always fights and no understanding between us. It was a type of compromise. Even though we were planning to get married. A few months back one of my close friends (B) suggested a ...

I'm not sure if she's my girlfriend or my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Im bi. I been with my girl for a while she's my 1st officially girlfriend. I like girls Alot! But sometimes I feel like I'm confused about going out with her. I feel like breaking up with her because sometimes I se her more as a friend. Im sometimes ...

My sudden awareness of my love life has made me feel I need to date every girl out there!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - Ive been looking at how to go out with girls lately, as I feel my love life has been kinda non existent. Ive gone through a ton of articles and asked for advice through websites such as this one and im wondering if its normal to suddenly feel like ...

My boyfriend doesn't include me in his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I'm 23, he's almost 22. We are both in college. We have been dating for over a year now, though we did break up in October and got back together the end of December. We broke up because he had completely shut down on me. It got to the point that I ...

I know I am the number one person in her life, but I just have no idea at this point anymore about our status.

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22 February 2011 (M) - So I posted on here awhile ago - about a year and a half - about this girl I met in class and she had a boyfriend but we got really close. Long story short, we hooked up a few times, her boyfriend didn't know, we talked about being together and now ...

His jealousy led to a "break" -- how long do I give it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Okay so I've been dating this guy for almost 2 years now and so far its been great. I've never met anyone like him. we were best friends before and ever since we started dating, we would act different than most couples our age (were teenagers). So ...

Do guys always have a back up girl if they can't get with you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Do guys always have a back up girl if they can't get with you? I met this guy at a cafe and we talked and we hit it off real good, we kind of dated but we were never in a relationship. However, the last month he's met another girl at the same cafe. ...

Why cant I get a date and have fallen for someone who is taken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - well i will soon be 21 and i cant feel worse about myself i havent even had my first kiss yet not that i havent had offers even for sex but im not into sex without being in a commited relationship and im only attracted to ceartin pple (not shallow ...

I'm stuck between picking a girl or one of my best friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - Ok this is my problem. Im in the 9th grad..nd i have this frnd who was datin this girll i never met her till after they broke up..nd he said he dont give a crap bout her ne more.he is also one of my best friends.but wen they were goin out he was ...

Am I "undateable"? Suggestions appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I feel like I am not someone who a attractive and successful man would be interested. I graduated college but I still work in the mall because it's hard to find jobs right now. I don't have a ton of friends, but I am nice, funny, attractive, ...

Does he just have cold feet, or is the 'break' a huge red flag?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - i and my fiace's been engaged since sept 2009.(been together since sept 2006). He's 27,soon to be 28. I am originally from japan and there were some time we were in the long distance in the past. I moved to australia to be with him about 3 years ...

We broke up, but it seems like there's potential

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I just got broken up with and I'm really ambivalent. I was seeing my ex for about 4 months and it was like the love of my life. He sought me out: asked my number, initiated the dates, said he loved me first, and seemed to be in the relationship ...

Birthday gift for my b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid....my bf who i've been with for 6 months, his birthday is coming up. Im so clueless when it comes to gifts for that special someone. Can anyone please help me decide what to give my bf? Any ideas will be appreciated :) Thank you...

Does he really love me and would he ever cheat?

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22 February 2011 (F) - so things with my boyfriend and i are fantastic! we have broken up a few times but then got back together he does have a lot of female friends and i have a lot of guy friends he does have a past of cheating on an ex girlfriend but he told me that he ...

He's saying sex will make our relationship stronger, but something about his words doesn't sound right

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hello, I've recently got together with a good friend who is a bit of a geek and has always seemed a innocent fridgit. He says he wants to have sex but I don't know whether this is him competing with my ex or trying to prove he's not a little ...

Am I involved in a possible triangle here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hi, We're in a group of friends and I'm going out with one of them. I feel like one of my friends might have a thing for my boyfriend but that she will never admit too. Plus he used to like her, but he swears blind he doesn't have any feelings for...

Is it possible to turn retroactive jealousy into a turn-on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - I'm yet another guy struggling with my girlfriend's past. Please try to bear with me. I couldn't get to sleep a few weeks ago when I was at her house, so went to use her computer to surf the net for awhile. I noticed she had not logged out of he...

He said C*** during sex! Should I be bothered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend hav just celebrated our 6 month anniversary and are very much in love, and he is also the sweetest guy ive met. Last night while we were having very intense sex after drinking a bit, he said the c word. Now he didnt call Me ...