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Dating: Help and advice

I ask him what he wants and he says don't spend a penny on him

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7 February 2011 (F) - hi (: so for valentines day i really want to et my boyfriend of 1 year 7 months a gift . but thing is i don't really know what to get him because he hate hate haaaates when i spend money at all - he literally will NOT let me pay at all. which i ...

How do I get over this "bad boy" who I have a crush on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - dear cupid. theres this boy ive been crushing for about a year now now i realise that me and him are not to be. i need to get over him. hes a badboy and im the sweet innocent girl i no what hes like outside school. a low life but when im al...

I love this girl but she has a bad boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

7 February 2011 (?) - Hello everybody! A while ago, i posted this question. I got a very helpfull message back, but i have some new information now so maybe someone can help me even more :) I have a strange , very frustrating problem. So there is this girl, one year o...

I love him and I don't want to lose him

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7 February 2011 (F) - I am 23 year old girl and i really need advice on my life situation. in shorter terms - 4years ago i had a beautiful daughter to the man i once loved we sadly lost our daughter to heart disease and it left us devastated it slowly teared us apart and ...

I want to commit but I don't think he does!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, hope you're all doing well! So here's the thing me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months, not that long I know but I'm ready to settle down now I've done all that playing the field and so has he so I was hoping he would ...

Do you think it will last or will he want something more serious?

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7 February 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I just need your opinion on something I've had on my mind lately, whether you think I'm being paranoid or not. ...I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months he is 31 and I'm coming up 21, so this guys 10 years my senior and in h...

He's hot then cold, he's Jekyll then Hyde

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7 February 2011 (F) - Sorry in advance for this long question. But there is a lot to my story. Just over a year ago, I met my boyfriend (who is 5 years older) we were both blown away, not just by how physically attracted we were to each other but also how well we got ...

Help! I'm putting on more weight than before!

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7 February 2011 (F) - Dear cherished readers, I'm a girl of 20 years and my boyfriend is 23 years of age. I have no problem with my boyfriend and he also has no problem with me but, an issue bothering my mind is that this days, i can look at myself in a mirror and see ...

I'm dating 2 guys.... I cant pick between them

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7 February 2011 (F) - I need help..... Ive always been in a realtionship and have been single for a year now had loads of fun but now I have met 2 great guys and I dont know who to pick!!! They are both great in differnt ways but I cant carry on dating the 2 of ...

Be friends but dine me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

7 February 2011 (M) - Oh dear, I text-killed my date! So I meet this girl through Internet dating, we text for a few weeks then decide to meet up. We get on so well, she even says people would find it hard to believe. Eventually she asks me to kiss her and we're kissing ...

Are there good guys out there? The ones I've found so far aren't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Recently I have started going to a counselor because of these “mini-depression episodes” that I have. This term “mini-depression episodes” is a term that I use to describe the times that I am uncontrollably sad, irritable, and hopeless. I feel that ...

Was I prudent, or prudish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

7 February 2011 (M) - So a question I asked earlier ignited another one in regard to a previous but brief relationship. It was only the second time I've ever terminated a courtship, and both times I've felt bad about it. Anyways, I had started seeing a younger woman....

How can I just forget about men for now and concentrate on living in the present?

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7 February 2011 (F) - Hey. I'm 18 and single, and I'm happy with that. I've never had a boyfriend and I don't want one. I'd only want to be in a relationship if it was serious and I knew he was the one for me. I don't feel ready for that now and I'd rather wait a few ...

The Girl's Guide to Any Guy

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7 February 2011 (F) - The girls guide to any guy So nowadays flirting isn’t as simple as batting your eyelashes and boys aren’t as predictable. I decided to make a guide for flirting and making yourself irresistible to any boy and charming to any adults. I will probably...

My ex is giving me x's and o's, but he's got a girlfriend! What to do?

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7 February 2011 (F) - A few weeks ago I started to get close to my ex boyfriend, A. We're just friends at the moment, but he keeps giving me hugs, and sending my two kisses on the end of texts to me. We get on really well, and I think that he might like me, but he's got ...

Now that he's ill, I want to tell my HS crush that I liked him. Good idea?

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7 February 2011 (F) - Should I tell my high school crush I liked him? We are 2 years into college. Back in HS, Junior year, we stared at each other everyday in the hall. I really liked him, and I had the feeling that he liked me, but we never ever talked because he was ...

How can I flirt and keep him interested?

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7 February 2011 (F) - So I met this guy, I wanted him in my life and eventually I managed to get him in my life and now I don’t want to lose him! As well as being very close friends now, we lead a definite Love-Hate thing. We aren’t both players but we just cant hel...

Do these actions mean something? Are they coincidences or fate?

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7 February 2011 (F) - hey guys i need your help. so there is this guy at school and i really like him. certain things have been happening which i don't know if i should call them coincidence or destiny/fate: 1. i went to open the fridge at school in our kitchen and at t...

How do I face her now, after I upset her and she moved on?

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7 February 2011 (M) - I recently upset a girl whom I love and she knows it really badly but she has chosen to date another guy instead of me. After ignoring me for two weeks and received two apology letter written by me. She had forgiven me but somehow I have no idea h...

Should I be concerned after a bad proposal?

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7 February 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for 20months. I have a long history with him. We were friends before we dated for about 8yrs. I love him very much and have been wanting him to ask me to marry him. He actually proposed to me two days ago. It definite...

I want to give him a BJ, but he smells and tastes kinda funky...

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7 February 2011 (F) - Hello. I want to give my boyfriend a blowjob, but I can't, because he smells kinda bad down there. He's clean, he takes daily showers, but his penis still has some funny smell. I also tasted it once and I wanted to throw up - it was very salty. ...

My girlfriend doesn't trust me... I can't even go for a beer with friends!

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7 February 2011 (M) - Hey guys i need some advice. I have been with my gf for about 3 years now. We have a 2 year old together. Life is tough. We used to fight ALOT! I used to have to call my mom and dad and tell them to come over to our place and referee it it got so b...

Why is it that every time I'm with a guy, they tell me they like me and the second I start to really like them back they decide that they just want to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Why is it that every time I'm with a guy, they tell me they like me and the second I start to really like them back they decide that they just want to be friends? This has happened to me with the last couple guys I've gone out with....

How can I get him to comfrot me when I feel sad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Last night I started to cry because I had a bad dream about my boyfriend but he wouldn't comfort me when I was crying. He wouldn't even talk to me. How can I get him to comfort me when I feel sad?...

How can I live without sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

7 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I am a male 21 year old virgin.. Really want to have sex... have a girlfriend but feel ill have to keep it private, and that will cause guilt inside me.. so that is an issue.. Sex after marriage is ok but before that some issues. But its abou...

I feel he's emotionally blackmailing me to stay with him and I don't know what to do... Please help!

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7 February 2011 (F) - Ive posted a question here before about a possessive, controlling boyfriend. good news i said i needed time out - thats lasted a week. He found out his friend dies yesterday and i went to comfort him as i do still love him and care for him. Lo...

Is my boyfriend 'into me' for the long term or is he the one getting cold feet?

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7 February 2011 (F) - I'm pregnant by 5 weeks - totally unplanned. Bf and myself haven't been v long together and the couple is still v much new although he has been great and totally supportive so can't complain. Yesterday tensions mounted over the phone (I can't even ...

I am going to confront him... right?

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7 February 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this man since Nov and I have been thinking for a while now he is a player and that things are not adding up. I only seem him on the weekdays after 8 pm. We never go out on any dates. We sit at his place and watch movies etc. ...

Ex betrayed me, why did everyone take his side?

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7 February 2011 (F) - I've posted here before about my ex who dumped me out of the blue, by phone. Then insulted me by text. I never heard from him again. He poisoned everyone and probably told lies to everyone. Why did everyone take his side? I'm the one that got ...

He's messing with my head!!!

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7 February 2011 (F) - Here's my situation. My boyfriend - now ex boyfriend broke up with me way back in May. We were together for 4 years. His reasons; he needs to be self-actualised as in he needs to find out who he is. A hard feat even when you are pursuing it. He also ...

One time, at band camp, we had this connection....Does he possibly like me?

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7 February 2011 (F) - A couple of months ago, I started crushing on my senior in our school band. He was the one who taught me how to play my instrument, but when we first knew each other, we didn't talk at all. Back then, he would look at me coldly and ignore me ea...

Should I wait for this guy to ask me out or should I just move on?

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7 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I know this really great guy who I really like and knows likes me too. But, he just doesn't seem to want to commit. He is slightly older and may be looking at long term options like marriage. Problem is that he seems to give...

Should I be aiming higher? IS the grass always greener?

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7 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm wondering... do any of you suffer from the Grass Is Always Greener Syndrome, like I do? I have a typical office job, where I work 8-9 hours a day, five days a week. I don't HATE what I do, but I'm not exactly passionate about...

I thought he liked me but he asked someone else to be his Valentine!

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7 February 2011 (F) - i really started to like this guy and i thought he liked me too.he would always looks at me and hes always nervous and fidgety.he would even smile when i laughed or he copied my mannerisms!! and now he’s even worked up the courage to talk to ...

While on a break, my BF met his ex, she straddled him and exposed her breasts! Now he's unsure about us together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - my boyfriend asked for a break to clear his head.. on the break he told me he went to see a girl he's slept with before and she straddled him and took off her top showing my bf her breasts and told him how much she wanted him. But my bf said he ...

Drunken make-out...should I mention it again or just keep quiet?

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7 February 2011 (F) - Myfrnd french kissed me while we were both drunk, and i think she was on black out, she touched my private parts and i enjoyed every beat of it....we were interupted just when i was about 2 respond back, when she left i sent her a naughty sms but ...

I'm not sure I can wait any longer...

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7 February 2011 (F) - Just would like to get a male's perspective on this... though women feel free to share the advice =) I have been with my guy going on 5 years. Its a definite pull push kinda thing. He gets close... he pulls WAAAy back then I kinda start moving on ...

I've had enough of her childish behavior!

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7 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 20 months (1 year, 8 months) and our relationship has really been going down the crapper lately. When something doesn't go her way, like say she was wrong in a discussion/argument, she crosses her arms...

Why can't I move on? How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - So, me and this guy have had a "thing" for over a year now. Last July i told him i was falling in love with him. I know it was strong to say, but i had to tell him. He didn't say anything. We kept our "thing" going after i told him. Its still going ...

My friend wont get over her EX, how much longer do I allow her to mope?

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7 February 2011 (F) - My friend is really depressed after her boyfriend broke up with her. It was her first relationship and she is in her 20's. He left her a few days before New Years. They had been going out for a little over 2 years. She wont get over him, she mopes ...

Whatever happened to holding hands and watching the sunset?

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7 February 2011 (M) - So, alot of things have been hard to adjust to since I got out of the Army. Not the least of which has been dating, or...not dating, I suppose. I like to think I'm a nice guy, outgoing in public, but private at home. I own my own house, and c...

Protocol on going to strip clubs

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7 February 2011 (F) - Hello guys, do u think is it ok for the guys while they are in a relationship and want to go strip show club either with you or his friends and let u go with your female friends too? and also i asked him if he go to striptease club before a...

How can I trust my bf and quit having negative thoughts?

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7 February 2011 (F) - hey everyone i really need some edvice, i always think negative and im a huge worry wart. my bf and i have been dating for ten months and in the first two months he texted this girl naughty mess. and i found out and contronted him and he told me ...

Broke up with partner who was using escorts, and I feel more relieved than sad. Is this normal?

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7 February 2011 (F) - I am a 42-year-old woman who just found out that her partner of 2 years has been visiting prostitutes. I ended the relationship yesterday afternoon when I found solid proof that he had been lying to me about his internet porn use, but got the final ...

Am I needy or is my boyfriend a prick?

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7 February 2011 (F) - I need help deciding whether my anger at my boyfriend is justified. I live in Florida. He lives in Texas. I go visit him about once a month. In November he and I agreed that next weekend, Feb. 11 and 12, I would visit. I bought the plane ticket...

If you live together first does it hurt your chances for marriage?

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7 February 2011 (M) - I'm separated, soon to be divorced after a long term marriage and am just beginning to date again. A lot seems to have changed since I was last single. One of the things I don't understand is that at lest where I live, it seems that everyone wants ...

Is she bored? need a friend? Or like me?

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7 February 2011 (M) - Well, to start off. I would like to say that she does look at me an awful lot. Not to say she wouldnt be looking at anyone or anything. (As she is new to the job) But she tends to stare at me as we walk past eachother and she'd give quite a smile to ...

My boyfriend calls me the most beautiful girl in the world, yet flirts with other girls!!

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7 February 2011 (?) - I have no idea why my boyfriend does this but it is driving me insane. I am not very jealous, but my boyfriend purposely does things that are disrespectful because he knows I don't like it. For example, last night we went to dinner and were waiting ...

I'm losing my guy friend (not bf) because of this other girl who's cheating on him. How do I deal with it?

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7 February 2011 (F) - So my best guy friend(i'll call him J) who I love like a brother is in a relationship with a girl(i'll call her X) whose controling and has trust issues. At a basketball game X went through his gym bag to get his cell, which was wrapped in his ...

What do I write in his valentine's card?

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7 February 2011 (F) - So I'd love some hints and tips on what to write in my bf's valentine's card please :) We've been together 5 months, and have told each other we love each other. He's great, kind, thoughtful, gorgeous, sexy, funny, smart...I feel so happy when i'm ...

Got out of a long distance relationship where all I've seen of her are 2 pics..yet I want to get back! Knock some sense into me please!!

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7 February 2011 (M) - Ok, I was involved with a girl for two months, and we broke up. The reasons why aren't important. What is, is that I'm still not over her, and I really need to convince myself that she's not right for me. -She's 15, I'm 18. -She lives in Flo...

Should I kiss her on the first date?

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7 February 2011 (M) - I just asked this girl out and she said yes. I dont want to go to fast, so should I kiss her now on the first day or wait a little bit? ...

She says she is going to break up my boyfriend and I. How do I handle this situation?

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7 February 2011 (F) - Okay, quick question. I am a 16 year old girl, with a very good social life. I'm very popular, have lots of friends, and even have a sweet, caring boyfriend!(Yay!!) At the beginning of the year, I made a friend, let's call her Nicolette. Lately, ...

I'm confused as to my sexual orientation... am I bi???

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7 February 2011 (F) - Well im a female, and im straight, and im very attracted to guys. When i was younger i had a incident where i made out with one of my best friends. But from then on i never looked at woman with an interest. However, i have a friend who i find to be ...