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Archived questions from: 14 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm shy! Hes shy! How are we going to get around this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I like this kinda shy guy at school but the problem is that i'm kinda shy too. He stares at me in class but every time I look over at him he quickly looks away. What should I do to show him I like him? Should I do anything at all?...

Should I stop seeing him now before its too late?

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14 February 2011 (F) - so im 19 and i kno im setting myself up for heart break but i just dont kno how to stop myself, i met this 23yr old guy in november of 2010 and we just started out as friends and it was made pretty clear from both ends that we were in no way looking ...

Guys are interested but I hate being single!

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14 February 2011 (F) - i've broken up with my first love, i've tried to have a rebound and plenty of guys are interested in me but i am really hating being single. I feel like such a failure who will only ever watch it work out for others. He dumped me and told me he ...

I thought we were going great but hes giving me the cold shoulder

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I recently told a close friend I have feelings for him and have done for a while, he told me he had his suspisions and he likes me aswell. He started hanging around with me more and more and I was really happy. But lately he's started acting really ...

She's becomming distant but won't tell me why

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14 February 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months, always got on really really well. She has a son and we both decided that I would be his dad after about half a year as his real dad doesn't want anything to do with him. But, about a week ago she ...

We're supposed to be moving in together, but it's turning into a triangle

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14 February 2011 (M) - i am a 20 year old male in my first year of uni. Ive had many upsetting problems over the past few years ive felt ive not been able to talk about with anyone. Since ive been at uni though ive opened up and trusted two girls in particular with ...

I'm 19, he's 15. Should we not date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

14 February 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, i think there's a chance that i might be going crazyy. on saturday, i was at the mall with a friend, and we ended up meeting three of her friends and hanging out with them for a while. one of those friends happened to be t...

How to make her think I'm interesting?

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14 February 2011 (M) - im in love with this girl who i see everyday because we go to the same college and were on the same course as each other along with my best friend. my best friend is also in love with her and he told her last weekend via msn. she told him that it...

Horrible experience at a wedding being single! How do I stop it from happening again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - Hi I'm a single man(35)and I attended a wedding at the weekend which was a bit of an ordeal. Im single so I didnt have anybody to accompany me which is why it was such a hard experience to go through. I'll be honest and say that it was my first we...

I have trouble putting my feelings into words so I typed it all out. Is that ok?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, I need some advice on this: First off, I have an autism spectrum disorder, and I've always had trouble putting my feelings into words, first time I told my gf I love her, I was a little drunk, second time not at all, but since that ...

What makes me unworthy of finding love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - I'm 25, still single and beyond lonely. I've never had a girlfriend and have never really dated for that matter. I have a college degree, am serving in the military (finishing my enlistment and getting out in a couple months), and have a good ...

We hooked up, and I'm not sure if he's interested in something more than a booty call?

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14 February 2011 (F) - So I just broke up with my bf last week and I have already met i guy that im interested in. We have known each other for years and he was always the person i thought I was never good enough so to speak to have a chance with him. But this last ...

Who is the victim here.. ... Me, my partner, or the wife I didn't know about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. I dated him in high school, grew up around him, so I gave him more trust than I should have. I knew something wasn't right, red flags, but had no idea what it was. I did notice he wouldn't talk abo...

How do I tell a girl, she's the one for me??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - How do I tell a girl that she is the one for me? Anything? Thanks....

It wasn't a perfect relationship by any means, so why am I still thinking about her six months later?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - I can't stop thinking about a girl I dated over 6 months ago. I guess you could say I cheated on her, as I was seeing multiple girls at the time without her knowledge (this is normal for me. I'm typically juggling two or three girls). We never had ...

Don't want to be a rebound, but want to keep her interested until she's really ready to date again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - I met this girl who had just broken up with her bf a month prior from when we started talking. and weve hung out once and had a great time and we flirt and she calls me cute little nicknames like sugerplum, and cutie pie. but i know she hasnt gotten ...

I feel like our relationship isn't working out because I feel like it's turning into a lie.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. I love him he's my bestfriend and I honestly wouldn't know what to do without him. We do have our occasional fights (who doesnt) I often don't feel like they are a big deal, but he doesn't ...

I made a big mistake when was drunk and now my ex hates me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for a year and a half when she broke up with me out of the blue. We were in college together and I'm pretty sure she left me for another guy although I was never able to catch them together acting anything more than friends. ...

Why is he so worried that I'll dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - My BF is always so worried I'll dump him because of his ex's and some girls at school want me to dump him....i Told them i'm not gonna and i told him that too so why is he so worried?...

What can I do to prevent razor burn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - Girls only please! My boyfriend and I are planning to have sex for the first time next month. I'm a little nervous, but excited. The only thing knocking my confidence is my shaving. I used shaving foam and new razors, and moisturizer afte...

Has this man lost interest in me? Everything was going well until Friday!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I met this lovely guy online and we began talking (this was about 6months ago). Anyway, we lost contact and about three weeks ago we started talking again. We went for a drink, and spent hours talking. It was great. He texted me the next day to s...

I'm 17 and I was wondering if its wrong to befriend a 12 yr old girl...?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - So yesterday I had a "houseconcert" of piano, quite like an exercise for the real concert in 2 weeks. It was organised by my piano teacher. It was at his house. Unlike the usual concerts, it was a warm concert because there were only 9 people ...

My boyfriend and I wait on the other to act first and it's driving us apart! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't put any effort into our relaionship. We really like each other, but we seem to be waiting on the other to act first and it's pulling us apart. He doesn't touch me unless we are alone and that rarely happens. And we have never ...

Is he hanging onto me until someone else comes along? Am I wasting my time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I’ve been seeing someone since November. He says we are in a relationship but it does not feel like it to me. We live about a 5 minute walk from each other but we only see each other either once or twice a week and its only for a couple of hours. It ...

Are my standards too high to get a girlfriend?`

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - Hello all, I'm a seventeen (Virgin) year old boy. I do want a girlfriend but I'm worried that my standards are too high. I don't believe in ANY sexual contact whatsoever, I wouldn't date a female if she had voluntarily given her virginity away o...

Tempted to get back with my ex, yet interested in a another girl...and I'm leaving for a job in Japan in 2 weeks! What do I do?

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14 February 2011 (M) - My gf and I split up about 5/6 weeks ago and whilst it was very hard we realised that we both need different things in life but we are sort of staying in contact as we think there might be the potential to get back together at some point once we’ve ...

What signs do guys show that they like you as more than a friend?

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14 February 2011 (F) - So there's this guy that I really haven't had any feelings when we're just classmate in our school but as years go by when we reach 4th year college. I didn't really expect that one day, we will be close friends. Me and him started to talk ...

How to stop my gal from drinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I live with my girlriend and she goes for drinks at her friends' place every night. I go work at day time and we spend time with each other. Even if I ask her not to drink everyday , she wouldn't listen .It disturbs me a lot as I feel insecure...

Does she want me to or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - Hi ppl so I just got my forth girlfriend and we kissed like three times but I'm a little shy around girls and well all my friends and her friends say I should like touch her more like hold her hand and hug her and stuff like that but we've only been ...

What if my boyfriend ignores me on Valentine's Day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - There's obviously a problem in my relationship if I ended up searching...'what if my boyfriend ignores me on Valentine's Day?'. It takes two to tango and this is true for my situation as well. When I started going out with my boyfriend (we've b...

My gaming broad invited me & another lad on our 1ST date WTF?!?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - Ok everybody now this is blowing me away so I need to know if this is normal or if I'm the nut job? Imma a gamin addict and Ive been gamin with a girl that I'll call A. Ok so me and A weve been gamin for a good 18 months. Nobody would ever figure we ...

Confused! Do I still love this guy?

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14 February 2011 (F) - Dear everyone, My life is a huge mess. I know I'm being stupid because I'm so young, but I can't get rid of this feeling. When I was 14 I started to really like this guy. I'll call him Jacob. Jacob was a grade older then me, and he started to talk ...

He calls me his illegal girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5036 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - im 6 years younger than the guy im in love with and he flirts with me and alls me his illegal girlfriend all the time but he has a fiance....im in love what do i do?!...

I don't know what to write in the valentine card!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - First Valentine's day with a boyfriend... we have been dating for 2 months, haven't said "I love you" or anything like that yet, and I need help with what to write in a Valentine's day card for him, so far all I have is Happy Valentine's Day, but i ...

Two guys, one gal. Do I choose one? Keep all three? Or start again? Is my sex life too varied for even me?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - So here's my problem: Six months ago my boyfriend and I (lets call him A) of one and a half years broke up. For some reason, I thrived to have another person with me at all times so I instantly went to my old boyfriend (lets call him B) for supp...

3 guys...who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I'm having troubles with three guys. I think my friend likes me. He's been one of my closest friends for about 2 years and I always thought of him as a brother. But recently he's been texting me he loves me. I thought he was just kidding, bu...

After all the ups and downs and all that we've invested in the relationship, he wants to call it quits...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - Let me just start by saying this is going to be very complicated but I would really appreciate responses. I was with my boyfriend for almost 7yrs. We have a daughter n I am currently pregnant. Recently he told me he doesn't want to be with me anymo...

18 and I've never had a boyfriend...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - Hey. I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. I haven't had my first kiss yet. I find it kind of embarrassing because most of my friends have lost their virginity by now and been a few relationships. The reason I haven't had any experience with guys ...