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Dating: Help and advice

I lie to my friends about girlfriends. I've never even had my first kiss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - Hi er I'm 14 years old and living in Portsmouth ATM I have never had my first kiss and I lie about it to mates to not be embarrassed. How can I change this and build my confidence? I need ideas on who in general and how should I tell them? Thanks ...

How can we become friends again???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I like this guy. We went out at the beginning of the school year but he broke up with me after two weeks. We hadn't know each other that long. No more than a month. But when we meet it just clicked. He was the best friend I ever had. I thought I ...

I don't want this guilt to be hanging over my head. How do I get rid of it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years and I am very much in love with her. She took a job in a different state 5 months ago but we both still wanted to stay together. Last night, at a local bar after having way too much to drink, I ...

Advice on break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I had been dating my boyfriend for what would be a year tomorrow. He is at college so I usually don't see him for about six weeks at a time, but obviously he has long summer/easter/xmas holidays. I was out with a friend in december and saw him, and ...

Has too much damage been done in our relationship for this to work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Hi there. Here is what is going on with me, I'll try to keep it as brief as possible so may omit some details. I have recently had a mental breakdown which started, it seems, with me getting extremely drunk and punching my boyfriend in the face and ...

Is he gay, or just a hipster?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - HI, i meet and started dating a really cute boy a few weeks from now he is really cute and funny but the thing is he has some alarming qualities: * he is very into his looks * smokes girly cigarretes ( menthol and light) * his drinks martinis * h...

He doesn't call or text any more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I am a girl of 21 i have this boy friend who i truly love and he also claim to love me we have been dating for 4months but resently he has realy changed he doesnt call me as he use to and even yesterday i called him and he refused picking up i ...

Help, I don't know what's wrong with my boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year now and everything is fine... my problem is that i havent talked to him in 2 or 3 days now so i dont know if i should just wait until he calls me or should i just try and contact him... i ...

My guy is making me seriously ill...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - My guy is making me seriously ill... Ok so i met these guy on fb(i knoww) when i was 17... i have very controlling parents so i was always a straight A's student, didnt drink, rarely went out.. now im 18 and he's 22.. he is the typical "bad boy...

Do you think it's my fault for them "breaking" their friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Dear all, I'm in need of some outside input! I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 years and 4 of them were long distance. I'm not talking city to city long distance, I'm talking halfway around the world long distance. I know...

I'm concerned he may want a no strings relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Since the beginning of the year, I had been seeing this guy, whom I used to date a few years back. We met up for drinks, and we both felt an instant spark and a desire to get together again. However, he had just broken up with his ex, and said he ...

Why am I having all these low feelings about my ex when I was fine for a few weeks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I need some advice. I split wth my boyfriend 3 months ago, he ended it a really horrible way when i arrived back from a week away on business. anyway - what's with me, i thought i was fine, but now all of a sudden i can't get him out my mind, i find ...

I believe that she is keeping her options open with this other guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - My long time girlfriend left me for another man. they had been having an affair for a couple of months. during this time she lied to me on lots of occasions. when I eventually found out I asked her to reconsider and asked if she would come back. she ...

Help! Arranged marriage...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Hi Friends. This is hard to explain. My Boyfriend broke up with me a couple of weeks ago and we are both broken hearted and in pieces because of this. It is not a usual break up where the relationship is bad or things get tough it came out of the ...

Am I just being silly about her past sex life or should I be upset?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - Ok so this may sound pathetic, but it is a rather big deal, TO ME! I'm 18 and my girlfriend,(16) of 6 months are in a relationship where intimate touching and oral is involved, no penetrative sex, (yet). I recently found out that she lost her vir...

I'm 13 and confused I might be gay. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - I'm 13 and I have a girlfriend but I can be around her but not get an erection but I do feel emotions for her. If I watch something gay or to do with a penis, I get an erection quickly but i dont feel any emotions for any male. I hope I am straight ...

Did he cheat? Or was it a big lie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Hello I have been with my current boyrfriend for nearly two years now and had recently had a rocky period when I found texts that he had sent to a girl, which were very flirty. During this rocky time, he told some of his friends that he had slept wi...

How am I supposed to feel that he doesn't spare a thought for my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - my boyfriend said he is going to put his studies and career on top of me. And he would leave me if he has to study abroad. How am I supposed to feel that he doesn't spare a thought for my feelings? We've been together for 19 months. He spends l...

Why does sex with my well-endowed boyfriend suddenly hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my guy for a while and suddenly, it's like his penis is too big for me and it hurts for him to thrust like ususal. It's not that I'm "sore" from too much action (ladies, you know what I mean). Furthermore, even if I were just "sor...

I feel so competetive with him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Okay, so I've got this issue, but I don't really know how to explain it so I'll just try my best. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and these feelings have developed more and more over that time. We're both very clever ...

How do I stop from pushing him into the arms of someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend and i broke up 3 months ago. i left him because my ex was begging for me back and i didn't really think about it. the guy i left him for was a jerk and i broke up with him and now my ex has a new girlfriend. he says he still has ...

How do I tell him that I won't be around to grow old with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I don't really know how to phrase this but I've come here for advice before and I'm really hoping someone can help me. I'm dying and have no idea how to tell my boyfriend. We're 18 and have been together for two years. I have been diagnosed with ...

I can't stop thinking about my girlfriend's past relationships with much older men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - i cant stop thinking about my girlfriend's past. She used to date way older men before me. I get sick when she try to act interesting I don't know if she's with me because of money.. I mean what type of connection can you have with someone 20 ...

What's he doing on the weekends? Am I paranoid or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I met a man a month ago. We get along great. He is currently on disability because of an injury to his leg so except for doctor's appointments he is available to get together any time of the day. We live a few hours apart and make frequent drives to ...

I'm quite inexperienced in the bedroom and would like some tips on how to please my man.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I'm quite inexperienced in the bedroom and would like some tips on how to please my man. Any positions which are good for him? What do guys like girls to do in bed? Tips on how to give a guy good oral/hand jobs? Any other help, tips, det...

I want him back! How do I find out if he feels the same way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of over a year almost 3 months ago, and it was a sticky situation. His Dad had made things difficult for us, and had told my ex that we only lusted for each other, and didn't really love each other. My ex doubted how we ...

My best friend and I are at odds over this guy! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I like the same guy as my best friend. She had a thing with him while she had a boyfriend this summer and she choose her boyfriend over "guy". She has told me to go out with guy since then, over and over again and I said no because I knew she had ...

My boyfriend loves me, but doesn't know if he can give me the stability and commitment I desire. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I am 26 years old and my boyfriend is 27. We have been together for nearly two years and within those, and like most couples, have had our ups and downs. Our history together is quite complicated, but I will try to summarise. We met when I moved ...

I'm 31, and I don't want a girlfriend right now. Why do others give me a hard time about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I am back and I've got a really important question. I guess all questions on this forum are important. It hasn't happened for a few months, which is good, but sometimes people insult me when I say I don't want a girlfriend. They either ...

My boyfriend won't let me break up with him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I tried to break up with my boyfriend yesterday, but he wouldn't let me, no matter what I said. We've been dating for almost a year, and I do love him, but I just can't handle this anymore. I'm sick of him getting upset and angry over stupid things, ...

Is a 4-year age gap too big?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I like a guy who is about 4 years older (I'm about 13 and a half and he is 18). We get on well and have a laugh (I've known him for 5 years) but i want it to go further. I see him every week at his football club (he plays in the same team as my ...

Should I date a superficial woman who treated me like dirt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I'll get right to the point. I was for many years in love with a lady from my school. I told her i loved her many times but she thought of me as a geek and always dated the most popular guy in college, she took my love for granted. Well, 5 yrs ...

Would taking a short break improve our situation?

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20 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend (20) and I (25) have been together for almost a year. She is at university (not far away) where as i have a settled job and done various things she still wants to do. I see her at weekends for one night at the moment. she is ...

My girlfriend likes to be held down during sex and pretend its rape?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - I have been dating a woman for six months. For the first 4, it was more or less normal. We both work in demanding jobs so it's taken a few months to spend enough time to become more emotionally intimate even though we've been sexually involved all ...

First crushes...Any stories to share?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Have you ever told your crush that you like him or her? How old were you? What was their repsonse? Well for me I have a crush on this boy for 2 years+ but I'm just to shy and i'm just to scareed to do it, and then I think what would happen if he ...

Stuck in a twisted love triangle between two best friends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. So, here is my situation. For a very long time (a year now) my life has been a rollercoaster. I was unlucky enough to be drawn into a twisted love triangle between two best friends. I fell in love with the one and the other one, his ...

My friends say I have to move fast or I'll lose this guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - am 15 years old and have just fallen in love with a handsome guy.we've been in love for 3 months,but haven't had sex yet.my friends tell me i must move fast,or else l'll lose him.we have never talked about sex.what must i do?is he going to dump me ...

My girlfriend slept with some guy from her office. I feel I deserve better,should I forgive her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - Hai my girlfriend and i have being dating for 3 years and wants to have sex, well am a virgin i am 23 and want to wait till we get married, am so commited to her, but recently found out she has being sleeping with some guy at her office she said it ...

Like being from 2 different worlds and dating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I am a 30 yrs old girl, in relation with a 40 yrs old guy. He is divorced and since it's an issue in Egypt for Christians to be divorced i was shocked and disappointed in the beginning then i thought to give it a chance may be he is the right 1 for ...

The girl who meant more to me than anyone else is back in my life...but I don't know how to take it from here. Pursue her or let it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - I am writing this because I am extremely confused and upset right now. It is now 6:15 AM, and I have been up due to the fact that I cannot get these thoughts out of my head. Basically I had some “occurrences” with a girl I used to talk to last year, ...

I love my ex and always will love him, but I'm just not sure if I can face the rejection if he's over me completely....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I broke up with my ex about 2 1/2 years ago after a 5 and a half year relationship. I left him, as I felt that he would never commit fully to me and that as I was only 26, that i needed to stand on my own two feet and support myself. He was very ...

Do I have a chance with him now that he is single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Hiya, So i am 15 years old and live at my cousins. So i really like this boy (lets call him K) who is best mates with my cousin. I have liked him for awhile and i cant stop thinking about him. Yestarday K posted on FB one of them like post...

My friend just went through a break up and is confused about his feelings for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Ok Picked up an old friendship with "Mr.X" hung out a lot,stay overs etc i helped him with his break-up. He acted like he was my boyfriend in public. I admitted to him twice that I had strong feelings for him,assured him that I would never hurt ...

Why do I fall for girls so easily and what should I do about this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - A little about me, Im a young guy with a fairly decent job, Im an active duty military member. Currently stationed overseas. I think on a scale from 1-10 i am a 7-8, I consider my self fairly attractive. but i have a problem, I fall in love to easy, ...

My girlfriend is very controlling to the point I'm scared to talk to other people!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - A little background. i have been with my girlfriend for around 2 1/2 years, it was very good and still is when there is no trouble. She ended up cheating on me over a year ago, slept in a hotel with her ex (but never did anything) though they wer...

My boyfriend who is away on a trip was really mean to me and still hasn't apologized...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 and half years now. He is 23 and I am 21. He is currently on a snowboarding trip with the ski and snowboard club at his university. He was supposed to call me last night but didn't. When I called him he picke...

Should I ask her out or should I just keep it as is and just stay friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - So there is this girl. Her name is Charla. I treat her like a sister and she looks up to me like a brother. She's super gorgeous but she is 14 and I am 16. She's turning 15 in April so we are aren't even two years apart. But I am starting to have ...

We broke up, she said don't contact me. So why is she now texting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - So my ex girlfriend texted me a while ago. Before we had a huge fight i won't bore u with the details and she told me not to contact her again. So then a month later i see her cuz were off of break and back at school and, she walks behind me. So i ...

How can I ask out a guy who already has a gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. And he doesn't even know that I feel this way about him. I want to ask him out but I'm terrified to do it because I don't want it to be awkward if he turns me down. Also, I don't want him to be ...

She's decided she's not attracted any more and wants to be friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - Hello all, So my girlfriend of 2 years decided that she isn't attracted to me anymore and just wants to be friends, but she says she still loves me. She says that she doesn't want to work on things because she feels burnt out. We have had our ...

Should I consider dating my deceased cousin's husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - My cousin died of cancer two years ago. She was married with four adult children and a teenager. Recently at a family gathering, her husband expressed interest in dating me. We have no prior history as I have lived across the country and moved back ...

I haven't had a girlfriend since I was 12

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - Well... I'm almost 20 years old and I haven't had a girlfriend since the age of probably 12. Either it's my extreme shyness holding me back or I'm just ugly. I'm 5'8" 125lbs, so it could be the latter. In all honesty I don't think that I'm that ugly ...

Desperate is the word for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - Desperate is a big word for me...I have lost many girls due to being desperate or clingy. I have met a girl recently and I really like her. We first met in a swing dancing club I am in at my college and found out we have a class together. That ...

Ladies, honestly, would you rather have a virgin man or an experienced man to love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - I just want some honest opinions from women on this issue. If experience, how much is preferred and if virginity, how much of a gift is that to her? Is taking your partner's virginity as pleasurable for a women as it is for a man? ...

What am I feeling...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I really like this guy and he really likes me back. We're both feeling something we have never experienced or felt before...it's hard for both of us to describe. He calls it a fuzzy feeling, and I call it a tingly feeling. I would do anything to ...

Any suggestions? Why will my Gf not pleasure me even though I pleasure her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - My girl and i have been going out together since we graduated from high school for almost 3 years now. she was a virgin and so was I, we have had sex in the past and we have gone through good things and bad things in our relationship but our love ...