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Archived questions from: 11 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Those 3 little words and when to say them...

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11 February 2011 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months and havent yet said 'I love you' to each other because we are both unwilling to say something like this until we mean it properly, as this is something that is used too much to mean nothing. ...

I am seriously in trouble and don't know what's best to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

11 February 2011 (M) - Hello, I've been with this girl for 2 years now, for the first year and a half I was unloving and ignoring her most of the time. I was going out with her for a few times and telling her how much I love her and once I return home I would call her a...

How do I know if my boss likes me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - My boss and I flirt on a day to day basis. Sometimes, the flirting is just fun, but other times, it is what I would consider more than flirting because of the gestures and body language he uses. He will cup my shoulders when walking past me, fidget ...

He keeps rejecting my advances. Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - How do I make my boyfriend make love to me? He keeps rejecting me and I don't know what to do. Maybe im doing it wrong? Every time i try to make love to him it seems like he is pushing me away, i dont know what to do. I'm madly in love with him and ...

Boyfriend ignores me and may be a womanizer to boot!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - I feel ignored and neglected by my boyfriend. He also says alarming insensitive things -- I can't decide if he's being intentionally hurtful to boost his own ego, or if he's really just stupid. First, the ignoring/neglecting: We don't get much ...

I've been dumped by someone I was seeing for a while and its hit me like a lead weight. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - I've been dumped by someone I was seeing for a while and its hit me like a lead weight. The reason being becuase I dont know why he's dumped me. Lastnight we were fine, today hes told me its over. He wont say why. Ive spent all day thinking about ...

My girlfriend saw me kissing another girl what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - My girlfriend is upset and crying because she saw me kissing another girl. Now she thinks I'm gonna leave her but I'm not. I really love her. How can I reassure her? ...

How to give a good blow job???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

11 February 2011 (M) - I'm gay and i will be seeing my boyfriend all day tomorrow, and i want to give him a blow job. How do you give him a really good blow job for him to ask me for more? When giving him a blow job where should i put my hands?...

She keeps saying "I'm not ready!" Does she never feel horny?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

11 February 2011 (M) - Hi!I'm 25 years old and have been with my girlfriend for the last 2 years. I really feel she is the love of my life, I have never loved anyone else so much. We get along fine, see eye to eye, everything's perfect. Except... we dont have sex or do ...

Stupid crush!

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11 February 2011 (F) - I'm stupidly crushing on another guy while in a relationship with someone. I've only been with my guy since September, but recently I've been thinking about what it would be like to be in a relationship or to 'fool around' with this other guy. It ...

I messed up badly.... How do I move on?

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11 February 2011 (?) - Okay, here goes. Really need help with this one? I first met my girlfriend when I was 21 and she was 17. When we first met I really romanced her. Took her out. Wined and dined. But back then I practically vanished out of her life. I didn...

I have this unshakable feeling that I need to end things...

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11 February 2011 (M) - I've been a relationship for 6 months with a girl I have almost everything in common. This is my first serious relationship, and I know I love her, but I'm not sure I can see me spending the rest of my life with her. She doesn't really have anyone ...

I love my fiancé very much. But I’m not that sexually attracted to him.

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11 February 2011 (F) - Okay so I’m engaged and I love my fiancé very much. But I’m not that sexually attracted to him. I do enjoy sex when we have it, but his appearance doesn’t get me aroused. I still fantasize about someone I am currently just friends with that I used ...

How can I stay strong and not fall back when he sobers up and wants me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - Any advice welcome. I have been seeing a man for a year now and it has been one heck of a ride. Love is not the question here, we are both very much in love. Except the man I get to spend time is only on this planet about 50% of the time because ...

Does pursuing this other girl make any further endeavour a waste of time and an emotional risk?

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11 February 2011 (M) - My gf and I split up about 5/6 weeks ago and whilst it was very hard we realised that we both need different things in life but we are sort of staying in contact as we think there might be the potential to get back together at some point once we’ve ...

Help me understand his mind!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupids: I have been with my man for three years this March and we've been through more than most couples I know... I have always known about his hyper-testosterone and do my best to keep up with him and please him so he does not stray....

How to say I got you my dear... and how to manage our time for sex online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - Hi. My fiancé and I have become familiar via internet. We are in relationship and are going to marry. We are far in different countries but originally from the same country. He wants me to wear sexy clothes and since I'm living with my family, I ...

If someone feels really guilty about something would they keep bringing it up?

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11 February 2011 (F) - If someone truly feels guilty about something, would they keep bringing it up? My bf and I have been fighting a lot lately and he gets to a point where he'll say things just to be mean even though he doesn't mean it. Yesterday, he had told me to ...

Is he into me or the "idea" of me?

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11 February 2011 (F) - I've known this guy for about 2 months now and we have been dating for a little more than a month. I met him at a conference. Like I said, it's been around a month of dating and I feel like things are moving way too quickly. Not physically, but ...

I'm in love with him, but I made a mistake. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - Help! I'm in love with a guy who has told me to leave him alone about 4 weeks ago which now I admit I was wrong, but I made a mistake. One: this guy who we've been close for 2 years told me in November that finally him and his gf broke up and sinc...

Why won't this man commit? And did I make the right decision?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of two and half years broke up with me the first week of December, and shortly after I started talking to new guy. For the first month, we just communicated via texts, but we really got to know each other and we were both starting to ...

Am I being ridiculously jealous or are my feelings valid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of over a year still talks to all his ex-girlfriends, but some more than others. He has an ex in England that is obsessed with him and calls him at work (in Canada) and talks to him for hours while he is working. I have stressed I don’t ...

Flirting with a friend of my ex, but the friend doesn't know his friend is my ex, or that it's his child I'm pregnant with!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - I'm currently 28 weeks pregnant, my partner walked out on us both leaving me to move back to my parents and give my job up. He doesnt want anything to do with his baby or me which is fine. The problem is I'm currently speaking to a friend of his who ...

This doesn't feel like a relationship to me, have I got me a player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - I am 19 and have being seeing someone since November. he is 7 years older than me. We live in the same area in fact really close. I only see him when he wants to see me. He txts me everyday and asking how i am, but if i text him it takes him hours ...

What is it with guys and texting?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - Hi fellow aunts and uncles :) I was just hoping you could offer me some advice... What is it about guys and texting!? So there's this guy I saw the other day for drinks with friends, about the fourth time we've met (we've kissed previous...

I feel like I'm not good enough for him!

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11 February 2011 (F) - Ok so,i started talking to a guy over facebook,he goes to my school and is bestfriends with my close friend.He is 2 years older than me,which makes him 18.I started talking to him about 2 months ago,i actually thought i liked him the moment we ...

How can a guy go from being so interested to completely avoiding me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - Can anyone help me figure out this confusing behaviour please? I've known this guy as friends for about 2 years. A few weeks ago a friend of mine let him know that I was interested in him as more than friends. Subsequently he told me he felt the s...

My girlfriend and her male friend are too close for comfort in my eyes and I don't know how to deal with it anymore!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

11 February 2011 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and just recently have been realizing the magnitude of her relationship with her male friend. He is living in North Carolina and we are in Arizona. They have been friends longer than we ...

My boyfriend of 11 years begs me for more threesomes!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years, we have awesome sex and have gotten kinky over the past 3 years! He discovered that I am into women and we have introduced a few into are bedroom with us. I normally perform with her and then he performs ...

A dildo for valentines day?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - my boyfriend wants to get me a dildo for valentines should i be mad at that or hurt over it idk what to think of it as?please help...

Strawberries and cologne..anything else sound good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - So I want to get my boyfriend something really cute and nice for him for valentine's day. I'm sixteen and he is also sixteen, we are madly in love. I don't know if it's just teenage love, but I could see myself with him forever. Anyways, back to my ...

I'm not sure about the "dating a younger guy" thing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - Okay so I'm sophomore in high school and I'm about to turn 16 (!!). I've been talking to this one guy a lot lately. I mean..200+ messages a day (they are real conversations, too). We talk a lot in school and we both run indoor track and we always ...

How do I plant the seed that I am interested in her?

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11 February 2011 (M) - There's this girl I like, we'll call her April. April and I have known each other for a while (about 6 months). I'm good friends with her roommate and that's how April and I began to hang out. Last week we had a couple days of classes cancelled ...