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Archived questions from: 27 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Will it seem needy and desperate if I text him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I met a guy on new years ago through mutual friends and we got on really well. I did not want to swap numbers with him at the time as he was still texting his ex then - turns out now that she was messing him about and he has now complete...

I have a boyfriend who loves me....but I'm starting to fall for my ex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, and I've been dating my boyfriend (let's call him O) for around 6 months, and its properly serious. I've only had one serious relationship before this one (let's call him L), here we were friends before we started dating. It end...

My boyfriend was losing interest, so I broke up with him. Later, we had sex, but now he is ignoring me! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - My ex boyfiend and I broke up 6 weeks ago. It was my decision as he seemed to have lost interest, though he said he still liked me and wanted to still see me and occasionally go out! He started texting me almost straight away, it got dirty flirty ...

The man I love proposed to a woman back home. He is giving me mixed signals. Help!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I have posted similar questions to this issue, and this is somewhat of a followup question. I have fallen for a foreign-exchange student who loves another that may or may not return the feelings. It is a relationship from his past tha...

Is this a normal way for best friends to act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Recently Me and my best friend admitted over the computer that we like each other. It's not awkward in person, when we go over to each others houses we cuddle on each others beds and tickle each other. I feel really comfortable with him and I want ...

Recently engaged...but scared to tell me parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've been dating the same guy since i was 14. My parents never liked him but I stayed with him. 6 months into our relationship I found out he cheated on me so I ended our relationship. After being seperated for more than 15 months we got back ...

After my girlfriend told me about her sexual past, I am disgusted! Should I have sex with her and leave her, or lose my virginity to another?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I have been dating this girl that is crazy in love with me. However, she started talking about her past. She told me that she didn't want anything between us and that she needed to tell me everything, because she trusts me and so on and so forth...

He's so mysterious, is that bad? How can I get him to open up more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Thanks for reading. There's a guy who's been really patient with me and persistent to know me and I've become interested in him. Here's the snag, he's a bit mysterious and doesn't talk much about himself. I really have to think of things to ask hi...

I googled my girlfriend's name and found a homemade sex video that may be of her. Should I ask her about it, or just drop it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - So, I regularly play on Google just randomly googling up stuff and I tried googling my girlfriend just to see what came up, all ordinary, Facebook, Myspace, etc. Then I took off the filter and after going through many of the main pages, I found ...

Help with confidence sucking friends...ideas?

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27 February 2011 (F) - So i have been with my gf almost 4yrs nw. her old bestie ditched her once she knew she was going out with a girl even though hangs out with a group of leasbians. The bestie is straight (or supposedly). when me and my girl started going going ou...

I love her but her last lie may cost me my life. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, This is my first time writing, I'd really like some good advice with the situation I am in involving myself and my ex girlfriend/girlfriend - this I will explain below. There is so much to consider it will be difficult for me to ex...

My bf doesn't like the fact I'm bi...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hiya I don't really know what to do. Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year now and I've told him things that I've never told anyone else, and one of the things was that I was bi, which now I think was a stupid idea :'(. He ...

I gave my boyfriend my first hand job. Was his reaction good or bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Well, I gave my first handjob after wracking my brain for two weeks about doing it. My boyfriend and I were together a month and a half last year in September/October. He broke up with me, and we got back together in December and are still together...

I've had a rocky time, is this choice gonna make things better or worse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - 2009-2010 was not a good year for me. There was bullying and a lot of other stuff going on. At the end of it I was pretty much broken and suicidal. In August I hit rock bottom. Then I started to heal. Now, I've started to enjoy life again. I've...

She denied cheating on me, and I've gotten over that hurdle, but now I am losing her! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship with a girl I met about 7 months ago. We only officially started dating about 3 months ago. Things were wonderful in the beginning. We got along so wonderfully, we would talk all night on the phone. We would ...

My girlfriend is going to prom with someone else!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hey guys, I am sort of in a dilemma. I am in highschool and I have a girlfriend of about 6 months. We both really like each other, talk everyday, and just generally feel really relaxed and comfortable around each other. But now, as the time for prom ...

My girlfriend is best friends with her ex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I really really like my gf. But she is best friends with her ex. She tells him everything, and it kills me. In all honesty i understand being friends with an ex, but being best friends. Its more than i can take but i cant be the kind of guy who ...

I want to meet somebody, but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Am 23years old sexy healthy guy from East europe but am shy to meet girls or get a girlfriend how to approach them and how to ask please help...

We both just got out of other relationships. I like him, but he acts hot and cold toward me! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Well where to start with this one ... My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, who I was with for 4 years, (I am now 20), well we have split up and it has been very hard for me. He was my first love and boyfriend but we have been through some very difficult ...

I am in llove with my bestfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Unfortunately, I am in love with my best friend. We've been really close for a year now; at the beginning of the year, we flirted all the time, had hours upon hours of conversation on skype...then, we became even closer and started sharing all our ...

What does this text mean? is his feelings genuine

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - well ive been meeting a lad who lives with his ex girlfriend, i have asked other questions relating to this...if you would like to have a look? his ex girlfriend only lives there because she has nowhere to live till she gets herself sorted. they ...

Should I just end things? I don't like feeling like a fool!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Once again i have boyfriend problems. We made up after our break and he is still ignoring me, we are in a LDR and he just doesn't ever want to text or ring me and it really gets me down. The other weekend I was meant to go down to visit him at his ...

I am tired of being treated like a slut.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am a 20 year old pre op transexual. I consider myself to be a women and live 24/7 as one. I am 17 months into hormone replacement therapy and hopefully if I can save up enough money I intend to get SRS, sex reassignment surgery. Whenever I meet a ...

She used me and I need to confront her on it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I am in serious need of help, The girl I thought was my best friend/friend with benefits/girlfriend used the shit out of me and I can't stand it. She said we never dated but I went to her house met her parents went to sporting events picked her up ...

Should I talk to him about my friends or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Okay, so there's this boy, I always talk about him to friends and it seems there taking note of his name and adding him on Facebook. They know that I really like him as a boyfriend, but they're talking to him all the time, and because of this I feel ...

I am a virgin, is moving in with my fiancé a good idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Im a virgin moving in with my fiancée, is that a good idea? We have been been dating for 2 years, and have been engaged for 4 months. Our wedding is in a month. We have recently bought a house (it has three bedrooms). My fiancee wants us to move in ...

My past is getting in the way of my present relationship.... please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I know this girl for 6-7 years now, we used to be good friends then we started dating more like as a friends, at all those times i really liked her but i wasn't sure if shes the one for me maybe because of the way she was acting that she doesn't ...

Questions about rebound relationships...input?

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27 February 2011 (M) - When in a long term relationship of 5 years with him. Broke up but patched back many times, emotionally hurt and has cried a lot. Forgiving him always thinking he might change. A rebound guy was involved for a year, but she threw him away from her...

I lied to him about my age...what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Okay.So I met this guy through a roleplay thing.We became friends and soon began "roleplay dating" Don't ask. Anyways at the time he asked how old I was and I said 16 when I'm really 18 and he's 16.As time moved on we started liking each other an...

He's been ignoring me for 7 years now...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - So here it goes...it happened 7 years ago. I was in the same city as the guy i liked(my dad was in the army) and he promised to meet me . . .we were supposed to go out for a movie or something. Well, he never turned up. I was stood up...and t...

I want to move on. How do I let go and forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (?) - I'm going to try and cut this very long story short. I met up with a guy who i hadn't seen for a long time. We never really spoke at school but got back in touch over Facebook and started chatting on there. A few months later we met up and it wa...

How do you tell if a guy likes you through chats and phone conversations?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - how can you tell if a guy likes you solely through phone conversations and chats . . ? yeah .. its a long distance .. but forget about whether it will work our or not .. I just wanna know if he likes me or not .. and he is not a new acqua...

5 days ago he said he wanted to kiss me. I haven't heard from him since!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I met this guy at a party back in October,he made it clear he fancied me,but i was in a relationship at the time so didn't take it further.I did like him though.6 wks ago i split up from my boyfriend,and have recently started texting this other ...

4 years and I'm beginning to wonder if I'll ever find love again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I sometimes wonder if I'll ever find love again. I've only had one serious relationship and that was four years ago. we were together for 2.5years. Back then I was naieve and gullable. I've been on plenty of dates and had the odd boyfriend here n ...

Its been a year since I asked him out twice, I don't think I've moved on yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid 3, My name is Teresa, and I've just turned 16 years old. Last year I had a complicated relationship with a 17 year old boy named Eric. It started out with a smile, and later we started talking. Once I got the guts to do so, I asked h...

Is age just a number?? I like him but he is younger than me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Is it wierd to fall for a guy that iss 3 years younger then you, cuz i think i have but we really dont care about age , but what i am asking is is it wierd to fall for a guy 3 years younger?...

Why did my boy friend's breathing change? What did that mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - i was at my boyfriends house yesterday and me got into a pretty heavy make out session. i started kissing his neck and his breathing went all funny. he kinda took a massive breath in and then was breathing quickly and deeply. what does this mean? ...

If I told girls I was a virgin would it help or hinder me with girls?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Im 22 years old without a girlfriend atm and I'm wondering if girls would see me differently if I told them I was a virgin....

How can I get him to see it's not healthy for him? he's glued to his computer daily.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - My bf and I are a couple for two years (almost) - I'm 22 he's 25. I usually go to sleep around 12 at midnight and sometimes I talk to my boyfriend on the internet before doing it and he says "ok, I'll do the same". But he never does it! He's going...

I am so hurt.... I really feel dead inside!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - So I posted another question and it's about how me and my ex have been broke up a month and my ex that I haven't heard from in a month had his guy friend that I do not know anything about and he doesn't know me send me a text message.He said that my ...

My best friend is pregnant. My fiance is the father. Should we continue with planning our wedding as he wants to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for five years and we are getting married in six months so technically he is my fiance. Everything was going so well for me i felt like i was living in a fairytale. My best friend since second grade was help...

He's leaving on a long-planned trip; how do I keep some control?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi. I have been seeing a man for 3 months. The very first night that we met, he told me that he was leaving for overseas in March for 7 months and that he wasn't looking for a relationship. I wasn't looking either at the time. We have so much in ...

We are very compatible but there are many obstacles

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I need advice regarding a relationship. I meet this man on-line and we seem to hit it off very well. He is very nice and we seem to have so much in common. Now here is the hard part.. The one draw back is that we live in two different cities. About ...

How do I reassure my insecure man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Just a quick question! How do I reassure an insecure man of how I feel about him? He's distanced himself from me lately, and I'm fairly certain that it is because I've not given him enough attention. I'm uncomfortable with expressing my feelings...

I'm in a long-distance relationship, but I have a crush on a good friend of mine. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I am in a long distance relationship with a guy (J) I met online. We have been dating for a year and a half and I have known him for around 3+ years. We have made plans to meet early next year and we are both very busy working tow...

He was awful to me, so why do I want closure from his abusive ways as badly as I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Why do I miss someone who was abusive? I met this guy a few months ago. He came with a lot of "issues"---he was an ex-con, has multiple kids, possible anger issues. However, I try not to judge people, and when I first met him, I thought he was t...

I fell in love with her, but she brutally rejected me. What should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Does it mean it's an end to my story or should i ask for friendship. I'm 25, alright looking guy. i fell in love with this customer(who's a female cop). Lately, she came to me and she was getting transferred to some island for 2 years. This news...

I feel as though my brother intervened in our relationship, and now I can't trust him. How can I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Let's call my brothers friend L, and my Brother G. For the past 1 year and 2 months i have been in love with L... about 6 months ago i told him how i felt and got rejected. I found it strange when he came round asking G where i was, i was upsta...

I've never gave a handjob before.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months. He is my first proper relationship and we really havn't done anything sexually. He has fingered me twice, but I want to return the favour and give him a handjob. Problem is I've never done anything...

He told my uncle he wants sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - What are your views on men who want sex from you ?. I'd like to get different opinions on this. I met a guy tonight who my uncle knows. I was out with my uncle. He came over to say hello to my uncle , and obviously he saw me. When my uncle went to ...

I missed an opportunity before. How can I convey to my co-worker that I am attracted to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - around a year ago a co-worker and I both left our partners and began seeing other people. we began talking about our problems etc eventually going on a night out with friends during the night i got the vibe she was attracted to me but never acte...