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Archived questions from: 17 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What shall I do with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - Recently I fancied a very female friend of mine. We used to talk a lot and once time I discovered that she was upset due to another guy, who was not asking her out but they both like each other. I went up to her and listen to all those things that ...

Friends taking the piss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - My friends always take the piss when one of us gets a gf, no matter who she is. What can I do to stop or deal with this?...

Scared of rejection

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - I am 14 years old and i am very scared of rejection, I have never directly asked out a girl but I am an ok looking guy but I am not particularly popular. however I seem to be attracted to girls that are out of my league not just because of their ...

Big trust issues...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1757 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - ok, don't know where to start and don't normally do this but here goes.... I am having a bit of trouble in the love life department :) I am going out with my boyfriend for the past 4 years and we have had our fair share off ups and downs.. ...

I am left feeling a little empty today and am just wondering what this sounds like to someone else out there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Hello :) I met a guy in November of 2010 and the connection was wonderful. At the time he was travelling in Ontario and after Christmas headed back to BC and promised to come back in six months. Watching him leave was terrible and stirred so many ...

He uses a lot of tongue and it gets kind of sloppy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I just started dating this guy. We have a lot in common and he's attractive. I thought I liked him but now I'm not sure. I dont know if it's just me though because I dont like dating very much. and he's a bad kisser too :/ He uses a lot of ...

Boyfriend shuts down on me!

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17 February 2011 (F) - Why does my boyfriend shut down on me and ignore my calls and text messages when he is angry? We have a long distance relationship so I hate when he ignores me....

I think his plan is crazy. What do YOU think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - i have another problem my mate wants to undergo this plan but i don't know what to do. the plan is for him to go out with my girlfriend for a day and if she likes it they go out and she dumps me but if not it stays the same as it was help, what ...

HOW can I get to relax?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I recently started going out with my ex boyfriend. The reason it didn’t work out before was because we were both super shy and neither of us had ever been in a relationship before so we found the whole situation really awkward and agreed to stay ...

19 months together and now I have doubts, I think I want to end it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and an half. We never fight and he is a marriageable guy. Only problem is i'm only 19! I am not ready to be tired down. I love him but everything is just to set! It is like we are already married, and he ...

I just want us to be fair, and have freedom and I want a healthy relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I need some help, I am a bright eighteen year old girl. Mature, and respectful. Hooking up and dating were never things I'd partake in. Right before starting my first year in art school, I met a guy who instantly charmed me. He would call me every...

Need advice on how to talk to her about this or what to do

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17 February 2011 (M) - Hi guys I have a question and need help. I have been in my relationship for almost one year. I started out great and now it has become one sided. I have looked up the meaning of a one sided relationship and i fear i am in this position. I have known ...

My boyfriend moved away, now I'm feeling very depressed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I met the greatest guy in my life 6 months ago, and we moved in together for 3 out of the 6 months. We're both in Medical school, Im in my 2nd year, hes in his 4th year. I knew in Feb he was moving back home which is 6 hours by car from where I ...

I feel I need more from him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - ok so erm heres my situation ive been dating this guy for bout 5 month hes dead nice and im really into him the thing is he doesnt let on how he feels and i have the feeling hes seeing other women but when im with him he refers to himself as "ur ...

His mum keeps inviting my boyfriend's ex round to the house!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now (seeing him for 6) and everything was great at first. Also, I got on well with his Mum. Not long after we got together, his Mum's Grandma died (my boyfriends great grandma) and I m...

Is it likely that a thirty three year old man has never had a girlfriend, slept with a girl or even kissed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Is it likely that a thirty three year old man has never had a girlfriend, slept with a girl or even kissed? This is what my partner says.. Especially if he doesn't seem to have any problem opening up sexually with me aside from a little ...

Why did he disappear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I am so hurt. Back in October I started going out with this guy. We were on the phone every day and went out almost every day. About two months later we slept together. But It was a bit of hot and cold after that, we didnt become a couple but kind ...

What constitutes as being good or bad on top in bed? How can I be great on top?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I were talking last night about sex, and he told me that "you're not that good on top. But I can help you. But I'm not saying you're bad also." I'm glad he was being honest about it, but I'm not gonna lie, it did hurt a lot hearing ...

Still have very strong feelings for my ex...

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17 February 2011 (F) - I'm 20 years old and I've been dating a really great guy for a little over a year and a half now. I am in love with him and he loves me very much too, which he always lets me know. If things carry on this way much longer we will probably be ...

If he truly wanted out wouldn't he use this as his out???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I have been involved in a relationship for 17 months with the most amazing man. We talk daily, see each other minimum of once a week and I'm totally head over heals for him. Here's the issue, 3 moths ago I discovered he is married. He admitted to ...

All we do is fight and I can't take it any more... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do about my relationship! Okay, well me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a year and we use to be so happy together and we never fussed or got in fights now the past month that's all we've done and I can take it ...

Lost my girlfriend to a Turkish guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - I am from the Philippines, and had a girlfriend for the past 1.5 years. Our relationship has been very good. Last July 2010, she left for one middle eastern country to work in one top-notch hotel. Her contract was suppose to be for 2 years. ...

I'm caught in the middle here!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I'm caught in the middle here! I've had an amazing boyfriend for over 4 years now... he's been talking about moving in together and eventually getting married for a while now. I love him dearly and I'd never cheated on him. Met this other guy, 10 ...

How often should couples do things together once they are living together?

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17 February 2011 (F) - How often should couples do things together once they are living together? I moved in in December and things have been pretty rocky. Lately, he hasn't been inviting me out at all, and he goes out every night these days. When we do have plans to ...

He kissed my best friend! How do I trust him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, okay so here is my story/question. On New years Eve I was hanging out with my "best friend" and my boyfriend and my boyfriend's best friend. We were all drinking and having a good time. I went in the other room to do something, and came ...

She said she loves me as a brother!!! What gives???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I had girlfriend, we started off on a very fast pace wanting to do everything in the shortest possible time. I thought that she was the girl i needed until i realised that she did not care for me like i cared for her cause she could not text nor ...

I just realised I am unable to give real love, and why.

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17 February 2011 (F) - Being alone paralyses me. I was with a really great guy for 6 months, but he wasn't the right guy for me. Things were going wrong but I didn't have the courage to end it. I could see the potential in us, and wanted to keep going. I thought I loved ...

She wants to ask out another guy and doesn't know how friends will react.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - My friend b was totally in love with her bf a, but she kept thinking he was avoiding her... she finally go so sick of it and asked him what the matter was... he told her that he wasn't used to dating only one girl that he wanted to see other ppl to. ...

We are getting married in 8 weeks and had a huge wrench thrown into the situation this week.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I am 40 years old and about to marry an amazing man. We both have had small issues to work through and I feel we have really done this right. We are getting married in 8 weeks and had a huge wrench thrown into the situation this week. His 18 year ...

Is it wrong for me to feel hurt by her moving on so fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - After our on and off relationship got rocky (once again) for the first time in our 2 years together i broke up with her. (she admitted shes been out of love with me for a while, I still feel/felt very much in love and didnt see the point if she wasn...

Would have I been better off if I had had a girlfriend years ago? Be honest.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I'm back. I would appreciate an honest answer to this question. I like feeling sorry for myself and blaming God for everything, but to do that, I need amunition. I need proof that what I'm complaining about is fair enough. I have always ...

Shouting at my girlfriend caused her to break up with me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - Can anyone offer me ANY sort of help please? Yesterday, me and my girlfriend were having fun like normal! Having phone calls, chating about absolutely everything! Then we started messing around with those new Facebook page banners! She set one on my ...

What's up with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - there is this girl that i like and i know she likes me too. we often text or call and we have a date next week.but.... first she accepted my friend request too late on facebook and after we arranged for date she deleted me off her friend ...

Mixed signals and I don't know what I am to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, so, i have been friends with this guy for 5 years, over the years we have become closer. in the last year and a half we have been spending lots of time together as he broke up with his girlfriend so i was there for him over that time. ...

Should I just calm down and not expect too much from it but see him anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - So I texted this guy and asked if he wanted to get together sometime. He apologized for not getting to me sooner and we met. After the date I texted to thank him and he answered back 2 days later??? Not good! Since then he texted me every weekend to ...

Friend's Ex and Me.. What to do?

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17 February 2011 (M) - Here's the thing... About 2 years ago, one of my former friends was dating this girl for about a year and a half. I say former friends because he got away from me and the other guys because of drugs and whatever. This guy I'm telling you abou...

I'm confused about this boy and its impossible to know what he is thinking

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Most of the time I only talk to guys at school. There's one, though, that I don't talk to much at all. He's around sometimes because I talk to his friends, but we never really talk to each other personally. If I'm sitting there by his friends and ...

Is he cheating on me as he appears to be hiding something? Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Hi i dont where to start ..well i have been with this guy for about 5 months now.I love him very much and he tells me he loves me too.I am kinda a jealouse person so when i see something i am start thinking alot. 5 days ago he turn on his fhone af...

How do I get him to flirt and talk to me again... but at the same time play hard to get?

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17 February 2011 (F) - how do i make him want me again?. please help me i met this guy a few years ago i went to chicago and met him at a wedding the place that i stayed at was on of his friends house and he was there 24/7 and his friend told me that his never over tha...

He asked for photos, I sent them and now he doesn't talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Okay, so there is the guy i've liked for over two years. We went out for a little bit last year, but we broke up for multiple reasons. We still had feelings for each other, but he moved an hour away. We still keep in contact, but i haven't seen him ...

I want him to like me, not her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I thought my guy friend liked me and i really like him but it turns out he likes someone else and is going out with her, How do i get him to like me instead? And also, since im his friend, he talks about her all the time and asks me for advice, how ...

She's distant but just says she's busy. what do I do?

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17 February 2011 (M) - I was dating this girl that I met for 2 months and everything was going great. A couple of weeks ago she started school at night and works during the day. She doesn't text as much now and when I ask her what's up with everything like why is she ...

I was rejected because of my height

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - A girl i liked rejected me because of my height, i am 5'7 and i never thought twice about my height, it hurt because i cant change how i was born.my question is are all girls that way? I was very good to this girl in every way....

Dating and he says I should be happy to be free and single

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - there is thhis guy I real like think I am falling in love with him been going on date with him since sept but when I try to talk about commiting he wotn talk just say I should be haapy to be free and single but told him I dont want that he still ...

What does "you almost melted on me" mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Hello I am wondering when a guy says "you almost menlted on me" to you what it means. It was said because I said to him I liked him kissing my neck and rubbing my back.. and he said something like ya..you almost melted on me...

How do I hold hands with my shy boyfriend for the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two months now, and we haven't held hands and we've only hugged once. We are both very shy, me especially, and he's very hard to read. I would really like to hold hands, hug, or cuddle with him; but ...

He flirts with me when she's not around but ignores me when she is around

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - i like this guy but he likes somebody else who knows i like him and flirts with him all the time to annoy me and it works. she just seems to lead him on and isn't actually intrested in him. i dont know what to do he sort of likes me and flirts with ...

How can I boost my confidence about my body?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months now and I enjoy every waking moment with him. I losy my virginity to him after 3 months but he didn't know I was a virgin. It wasn't even like actual sex. We just sort of had a quicky in my friend's ...

My boyfriend won't barely kiss me anymore! Why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - So here's the story... My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months, and we are both 15. We have kissed before, but he really doesn't ever make out with me. I personally love and really enjoy kissing, but I don't think he does. I would really ...