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Archived questions from: 9 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend won't celebrate Valentine's Day and I'm disappointed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I've been having problems with my boyfriend, he smokes (cigs), drinks (even though he's underage), and uses very dirty language. I've often felt that he is dragging me down to his level. Recently, I moved out of my parent’s house into an apartment ...

My friends dislike my boyfriend and want me to dump him. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - hi :) I'm 15 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months. He is quite rude to most people and he is always really rude to some of my closest friends. He is always getting into arguments and insulting them, especially 'Amy'. Amy is qu...

Does my guy friend like me more than a friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I have known one of my guy friend for a couple months months. We're really good friends and I'm really good friends with a lot of his friends. We have classes together at school and we talk the whole class and we both laugh a ton every time. He ...

How do I find a guy that is not bothered by my body shape?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Okay im 16 years old and im 190 pounds. im also only 5 foot 3 so its even worse. i dont even know why but i really want to have a boyfriend but of course no guy wants to go out with me. im not even ugly, my eyes are pretty big and hazel brown, i ...

Why take so long to reply to an email? Is he playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - This guy, who I got on really well with and had a fairly good idea liked me, as in he was flirty, made an effort to talk to me etc, invited me to go out with him and a couple of other people this Fri. Don't know the other people well. At the ti...

Is this relationship hopeless?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 5 years, has caused me a lot of heartache. I love him dearly, but I am very attached to him. We are both in our 30's and much too old to be dealing with these issues. But overall, 3 years ago I found out everything about him ...

After the breakup he said he wished we'd never met!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up, and he says to me really sadly that sometimes he wished he never met me. can you tell me why he said that. I'm 40 and he is 32 he often says he didnt think he was ever mature enough for me. ...

Why does he always mention his ex? Also, can I really trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a little over a month, but he and I have been "together" (friends with benefits) for 5 months. I like him, I kinda love him, but I'm not sure if I'm ready to say it to him yet. The problem is that ...

After the kissing... what next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - So i have a problem. I kissed my bf for the first time ever last night and we even made out for a bit and now im wondering what the next step is. i know im not ready for sex but i dont wanna kiss him then leave him hanging... please help. im going ...

My friend never wants to get "too close" in case he gets hurt.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Dear all, My friend has a problem with women, he has been in many relationships but always runs away from the woman because he feels that if he loves the woman too much she might hurt him by leaving him for any reason example if he loses his job...

Jealousy is ruining our relationship. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year and a half almost and we live together for a year as well and i am very jealous and everytime we go out anywere i catch him looking a girls butt i think that maybe its me and i think that all guys do ...

'I'm marrying you for your great sex'. Really??!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Hello Cupids (: I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4years and 8months, when he recently proposed to me. I said yes, and i was all happy and, as you would be, excited! Until the other night. He had been out to the pub for ...

Recently broke up with boyfriend, and have feelings for my ex boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Hey guys.. im in a bit of a situation. I have recently broken up with my boyfriend john, I'm 17 nearly 18 and hes 21. I broke up with him because i felt he was getting way to serious and too much. He was just the perfect guy you couldnt fault him ...

Is it stupid to fall for someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Is it stupid to fall for someone? In the past two years I have fallen for two different girls at different time. I spent 17 months on the first girl and obviously end up with nothing. The second girl is my best friend who I just knew about two y...

How should I react if I bump into my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I would like your advice on how to react if I bump into my ex. We split up late in 2009 after 2 1/2 yrs together. I can't really say if we parted on good terms or not really, we just drifted apart I guess due to distance (we live over 30 miles ...

Am I completely unjustified here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating my girlfriend now for almost two years. We have lived together now for exactly one year. She has a five-year-old son who I love very much that also lives with us. When she moved here we discussed the roles I would play with her ...

My girlfriend wants to do things that single people do and I'm not happy about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Adice Needed! Okay, here's the thing. I have been dating a younger woman now for about 4 months. We have a pretty good relationship in my opinion and we have a ncie time when we are together. The issue at hand is her "guy" friends. Personal...

I'm so happy and sad at the same time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Ok, I am 34 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He has been divorced for 3 years, and his ex wife lives 7 hours away and is remarried. I have two boys (10) and (12)that live with me, as their father passed away 4 years ago. ...

What does take it slow mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - what does it mean, when he says,"Lets take it Slow" in a new relationship? ...

Is he just unable to express his feelings or is he just not into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I was dating this guy casually last June...however that time he wasn't into me or whatever...so i stopped trying to get close to him...the signs were there...he didn't call or message me till i did it first n he was always too busy to hang out... ...

8 months of dating and no sex. I'm becoming desperate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

9 February 2011 (?) - me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months. we are not virgins but in our relationship we havent had sex yet. but we have done everthing inbetween. We both give each other oral sex, whilst i have fingered her and had sex with her boobs. a ...

Should I be upset about my boyfriend comment about a cute girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Do i have the right to be upset that my boyfriend was talking about his class and said "I got the lucky pick of the cutest girl to work with" He knows i have jealousy and trust issues cuz all my past bf's have cheated on me, he even cheated on me in ...

I kniow she is bad for me, but I am so attracted to her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Hi,so there is this woman,she is stunning,charming,with a great laugh,very smart.Problem is she has never had a long term relationship,just a strong of affairs,she has no loyalty,has a past involving porn and prostitution, etc.She is manipulative ...

We hardly do anything anymore

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9 February 2011 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for over a year and we both are much in love and can't live without each other. I am a uni student and it is my last year and he works full time which is very hard to have time to spend together. I know...

Less sex than we used to have -- is his attraction fading?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I am 21 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for almost seven years now. We have been living in r own apartment for almost two years. Sometimes I feel like his attraction for me has gone down BC sometimes well have sex three times a week and ...

How can I be more confident around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - There is this boy that I have liked for a while. But I never know what to say to him. When we walk home, if it's just the two of us for a moment, I get out my phone and pretend to text or something as I get so nervous. Please can someone help me?...

Does he truly love me despite him cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - He cheated on me with a girl that treats him like shit. But he keeps coming saying he misses me and he knows that I'm the one. Recently, we got back together and that one girl he cheated on me with wants to be back with him. I didn't cry as he's ...

About to have a date with my ex after 2 years... how should I play it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - basically im going out with my ex again , ive had 2 relationships that heve never ever worked out and I used to constantly think about him even after 2 year. me and him started going out when we were 14-16 and now we are 18 and ready to go on a dat...

I don't want him to think I'm clingy or try too hard

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - i really like this guy, he's really hot. but i don't really know him, he used to fancy me but now i think he just thinks i don't like him. i don't want to be to clingy or try-hard how should i tell him i like him in that way too?...

Why won't he accept that it is over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Nine months ago, my married man left his wife of 3 years. He said he did it for me, which I never asked of him and I don't believe he did, I think I was just an excuse. He moved in with me for 2 months and moved out again and now shares a house ...

Why isn't he making the effort to contact me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I need advice. I just dont get this guy Im 'supposed' to be seeing. I met him new years eve, hes in the army based 300 miles away from me. Ive had 2 dates with him and weve had sex. Hes now told me he really likes me, and wants to start seeing me ...

In love with a woman who is an abusive relationship! Should I wait for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - So I met this girl at work a few months ago and I developed feelings for her. Come to find out she also developed feelings for me. Problem is, she has been with a guy for 5 years and has two children with him. He is emotionally, and on occasion, ...

Our arguments are ruining our relationship. Now is mother is interfering! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I'm really upset. My boyfriend and I have been on and off for a few years. We have been arguing recently. Last weekend, we argued because he was asleep all day and night for a couple of days. Although, I do feel sorry for him because he has a back ...

This man has given me mixed signals! What do you do when they pull away???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Hello. Any advice from men/women would be greatly appreciated. I need some opinions as I just do not know what to think about this one and how to act or even if I am overreacting! Seeing this guy, who originally I saw maybe once/twice a wee...

Try to get back together or let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - So here is the deal; Me and my girlfriend were together for almost two years and everything went fine. Sure we had our little arguments but we never had a real fight. It always felt like we completed each other in many ways. Then a few months a...

Does my ex want me back???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. Please, can you give me your views on this. My ex who I love every much, came over to see me last week. He was very loving and attentive. He works nights, and said that he cannot see me in the evenings, but can see me during ...

My girlfriend is distant and she acts like I don't exist! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Recently, my girlfriend has become distant, especially since her mum and son went on holiday. Now, she's acting like I don't exist anymore. What should I do? ...

Why after 6 months won't she hug me or hold my hand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - I don't won't to sound selfish or anything but I've Been going out with this girl for 6 months now and she still doesn't hug hold my hand or anything and shes spending sooooo much more time with her friends then with me it's starting to bother me a ...

Boyfriend's inexperience is getting to me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I'm 19 and have had many relationships but my boyfriend (21)has not. He has had one relationship and it lasted 3 weeks and has not gained much experience from it. I'm very used to dating guys who are more experienced in that matter and it's really ...

Is this woman really pregnant, or is she trying to blackmail me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I had an affair with a married woman. She is 40+ and I’m 20+. I’m single. After we broke up, I didn't see her for a few weeks. One day, we had dinner together. After dinner, she told me she is pregnant now. It was a terrible shock....

My ex is about to propose to another woman. How can I get him back before it's too late?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Six years ago, my boyfriend of 2 years and I were going through a rough patch and were on and off til one day it just stayed off. Eventually, we broke off contact and went our separate ways, but I loved him very much still and didn't want the break ...

Sex in the water... how can we make it fun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - I need some ideas. My girlfriend and I are going to the beach friday and we were thinking of maybe trying sex once in the water. Would it be a good idea? And also, do any of you have any ideas to make sex more interesting and fun?...

In love with a girl while in rehab...but her chequered past and questionable actions have launched me into a terrible dilemma...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 34 years old male. I was in a rehab for 5 months recently. I had been through a terrible heart break about 3 years back when the girl that I have loved since I was 14 married another guy. It's complicated, she married another ...

Can 2 people, of different beliefs and morals, be in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Well, I've got a problem, like everyone else on the site here, but, I'd like more opinions than my own, so, here I state my problem: Can 2 people, of different beliefs and morals, be in a relationship? Especially in High school, where people are...

My boyfriend left me for another girl saying " he's happier and in love with her, she's a better kisser, better body and more beautiful"..Any chance he might come back to me after all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - With my ex for quite a while I was his longest relationship. We had a fight and we decided to break up and than talk 2 days later. He begged for me back but when he came to the day to talk he said he needed time. Little did I know that his best mate ...

How do I find a girl to accept me for who I am?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - hello everyone.Im 24. Im what you consider a female to male transgender. i started my transition in 2007/ though i am not fully male technically. ive only had top surgery and i Dont plan on going on Testosterone. mainly cause my voice is already low ...

Why don't guys ask me out! I feel like I'm missing out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Hey, so I've always had a bad image of myself although people tell me I'm one of the most amazing people they've ever met. But only one guy has ever asked me out and i see all these couples around school and it doesn't help the situation! (hehe) ...

From a mans perspective, how important is it that a marriage proposal is a surprise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - From a mans perspective, how important is it that a marriage proposal is a surprise? Does it ruin it if she knows all the details (even if you told her?) I know everything about my boyfriend proposing to me this month, including the ring, when, ...

My wife's ego-devastating details of her sex life with her former Latin lover have led me to have terrible feelings of inadequacy and resentment...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - I am in need of some advice. Background: I have been married to my wife for 13 years. She ended things with her previous boyfriend to start dating me. Shortly after we became intimate she implied that her former Latin lover (almost every wo...

Is in-your-face brutal honesty really necessary??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is a great guy and i feel like i can tell him everything.. but sometimes when i do tell him stuff like me often venting about my crazy family hes too honest. like brutally honest. i know its better to hear the truth but at the same time ...

These two guys are my closest, best friends in the world....and I need to choose between them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship for about five months, and I feel like I've been really happy, for the most part. About a month or two ago, I met another great guy at work, and we've quickly become close friends and love to hang out with each other. By ...

My boyfriend's ex is making life hell for us!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I have a question that is about a psycho ex who is a stalker. My boyfriend dated this crazy woman right before he and I got back together after 22 years. They sis not date very long about 3 months. She would not stop texting, emailing, ...

Dating a beautiful girl and I feel no love towards her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - I have a huge problem, and I honestly don't know what to do. Aunties and Uncles, you have helped in the past. Now, I need you more then ever. Let's get right down too it. I am in a relationship with a beautiful girl, But I feel no love towards her...

Are man boobs a deal breaker or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - hi girls if you met a guy who you found attractive and he done it for you in all ways but you take off his shirt and see small man boobs(i had a picture but the mods wont let me link them) ala the size of a teens early breast growth,you can only ...

I like him, she likes him, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I started like liking this guy whole I had a boyfriend and I didn't tell anyone now I finally broke up with him and I told my best friend and I've been trying to get her to like this guy for a while but she said ehh..etc so finally I keep liking him ...