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Archived questions from: 10 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What is going on here? Booty call?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating a guy for a little over a month now..problem is I haven't seen him in 3 weeks (partly due to me being away and him becoming very busy with school). We talk and text and the last time I heard from him was Monday night (its now ...

Am I being too needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I need some advice. Today I had an awful day. I bumped into an ex who totally screwed up my life (I moved to Uni with him and he broke up with me after two weeks when we were living together) two years ago who I'd managed not to s...

Too old to fall in love in 3 days? Can this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - My situation is that I'm a 64 yr old female,on a dating site online, one of the free ones, I'm a newbie at the dating site, and on my first week I made a connection with a man. He didn't want to email because he said he only could type with one ...

Want to change my birth control

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - hi all. i want to get rid of my iud because of painful side effects. i would like to get the essure procedure which is permanent. my boyfriend of 4+ years doesnt want me to get the procedure but i dont understand why. we have had numerous talk...

How can you help someone whose tortured upbringing has damaged them?

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - my new boyfriend has told me that his upbringing was awful. his dad was a verbally abusive and violent drunk who made his families life hell. this experience has left my boyfriend suffering with depression, inability to have lasting relationships, ...

Living arangement but ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - i've just moved to another country and have found a lovely house sharing with a guy and a girl!the thing is within two weeks both the guy (who is a live in landlord by the way he's only 28 i'm 26) and myself have found ourselves really attracted to ...

Girls: How would you feel about an inexperienced guy like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Honestly, I guess I just need to get some stuff off my chest. If you don't feel like reading a relatively long story I suggest you skip this one Im 21 years old, and according to others good looking and muscular (I like to work-out) and st...

Are we crazy for planning a future at such a young age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - So, here's the story. Me and this guy have known each other since the 8th grade and we have dated twice, but it never really worked because he moved our freshman year in high school. Since he has moved, the only way we talk is through Facebook...

What are some good things to do together without seeming like a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - i met this girl through my cousin and we talked for about a week, then one night she asked me to come bowling with her and a few of her friends so i did and we had a couple drinks had some fun, and we ended up kissing at the end of the night, so we ...

In a relationship and in the marines

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10 February 2011 (F) - Can some body please give me a list of all the negative stuff that could happen if some one joins the marines well in a relationship? Thanks....

Tall Woman Syndrome? Mommy complex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Here's one for the tall ladies, 5'10+. Please explain the tall-woman-syndrome and the "mommy" complex. Is it true that taller women feel like a mom standing beside a shorter guy? What exactly is the difference in inches that makes a taller w...

Does love honestly overcome anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - OK. Does love honestly overcome everything? I have been seeing someone for around a year and a half. I have my daughter (8)and she has a daughter (7) and a son(5). We have both been single for 3-4 years so are both use to doing things our own ...

GUYS: Would a spontaneous kiss leave you wanting a girl more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I met a guy on Saturday and hit it off really well. I had a great time and decided I really liked him. I am not one to play mind games but I wanted to try playing hard to get. It has been working well for me. He has initiated every contact and ...

I found out my partner has HIV. What can I do? Please help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I’m a single mum of 2. I met this partner online and he sounded like a good guy on the phone. 2 months into emails and phone calls we decided to meet. By the way, it’s a long distance relationship. He separated from his wife 2 years ago and they ...

My relationship is falling apart! How can I stop this from happening?

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10 February 2011 (F) - We have been dating a year and some months. Lately, it feels like were separating... like he is always working now since he got a job in December. I am proud of him for having a job, but when he isn't working instead of hanging with me he stays ...

My BFF told my BF something he wasn't suppose to know....now I think he may dump me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a month, and btw I am insanely in love with him.....but my relationships always come to a crashing stop after a month and I dont want this one to end! My friend B.H. told him about a piece of ...

Most people believe a woman should make a man wait for sex. I enjoy sex, so I find this hard. What advice do you have for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I've always been told that you shouldn't sleep with your partner straight off the back in a relationship, always aimed at females, of course. I've been doing a little googling, and I came across this little tidbit of advice, "You will be more...

I'm afraid of being in a serious relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Hiya, I am 16 and my only fear in life is being in a serious relationship. I have always had FWB’s (Friend’s With Benefits) and they were always the “Bad Boy” sort of characters so I never had to be serious and basically I could flirt with whoever ...

I'm dating 4 women at the same time and juggling a job that requires travel. WHY?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - I find myself in a very strange position, some envy it, some think wtf - no way, others think how stupid are you. I work in a job that ive done for 20 or more years, now at a stage where bar the pennies i would walk away and have tried to do so o...

Could I get into trouble seeing him if my parents find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - ok well i just moved back in to my parents house n im 17 im currently seeing this 19 year old without my parents knowing. could i get in trouble for being with him if my parents find out. plus he says he wants a baby buti dnt know if he wld really ...

I think slowing everything down will be a good idea for us. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Hey All, I am a mess right now, took a week off from work to really deal with this. Here’s the situation, I have been dating my GF for almost 3 years now. We have been through a lot and we became quite comfortable. She still calls me her b...

I'm widowed and slept with a married man. For once in my life I want to be selfish and just do what I want!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I have been widowed for a year and have 2 children. This doesn't leave me a lot of time to date or even meet someone. I do miss having sex but I am not ready for a relationship and may never be, given the circumstances of my previous marriage and ...

Has anyone else felt unhappy about being pregnant? Will these feelings go away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Last week I found out I am pregnant with my boyfriend of 3 and a half year's baby. He is delighted at the news and cannot wait to become a father. I am struggling to be excited or even feel happy about being pregnant, is this normal? I have never ...

My boyfriend was released from incarceration. Now his family is influencing him to do illegal things again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend finally came home after being incarcerated for parole violation. The thing is I'm having a hard time being comfortable and dealing with the idea that he's not going to leave me again, in one way or another. I'm feeling very paranoid and ...

What is going on with this girl? I don't want to lose her! What should I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - I have loved this girl since the moment I met her. The first time we met there was a spark bigger than an atom bomb. The day after that she wrote me a message with "I miss you 3", but I wanted to see if this was really the girl for me, so we met two ...

Has she lost interest? Changed her mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - i would greatly appericate the help you would give me, and the advice. I have been going out with a divorced lady for about a month now.she is cool, smart, funny, good work parties, she has a hard exterior but a soft interior, shy, and single. ...

Stingy boyfriend! Am I asking for too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Have been with my bf for 7mths.i like buying him gifts,but he never gets me anything.he says girls are not suposed to be spoiled with gifts and money.he complains about being broke all the time,but i know he gets 2 have money most of the time.we are ...

Does my boyfriend really love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are been together for 3 years..we have an age gap..he's only 18 and im 20. Im his first gf and first sex..even though we have an age gap..we are still on the same college level..here's my problem..with the age of 18..he still ...

I feel like I'm being led on and used.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - right so I was going out with this guy when I was 15 and he was 17- we went out for 18 months but split due to arguments and my trust problems as I had been told he cheated on me!. we broke up for about 4 months but in that time we hated eachother ...

Guy out of the blue said he doesn't want a relationship, but we really clicked. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - So I started talking to this guy about a week ago and we went out on our first date a few days back and had a great time. We really clicked and expressed to each other that we really liked each other. I stayed with him that night since he does live ...

She told me to leave her alone - what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - I gave my crush a note to tell her how I felt about her, she's a shy female, one week later, I asked her what she thought of it and she told me to leave her alone, what does that mean?? ...

What's with the sudden changes? Is he playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Been seeing this guy since Nov and we are not exclusive. Never had that talk. He is a bit of the player kind. i picked up on this. We hang out a few times a week, I stay over watch tv, eat dinner, laugh a lot. We have only gone on a few outside ...

What is this kind of friendship called?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Hi, i met this great guy about four months ago when he called me on phone, and since then we've been talking and sharing pictures, we stay in the same area. We've met two times physically, and the second time we kissed. He got me very nice gifts ...

If I have feelings for this girl, what do you suggest that I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - I posted on here a while ago saying how I was really struggling to forget my ex of around a year ago, and how I was really out of ideas on how to get over it because it was driving me crazy. Since then something has sparked in my mind and the pain ...

He said he likes me, but doesn't want a girlfriend right now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - hey cupids! im just a bit confused and dunno what to do about this guy i like so it all starts off with him telling me that he likes me / another girl and i also told him i liked him as well . it was really awkward and stuff until he started calli...

I really like him but he doesn't put any effort in!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - am 35 yrs old and seriously having feelings for this guy at work place. he is 48 yrs old and single. he told me he too has feelings for me but we have met once outside the office, i call him more often and even text him, but he doesnt seem to do ...

I cant accept he doesn't like me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - hi, i like my cousins best friend,we used to talk on phone but when he met me for the first time he said he didnt feel the connection with me.......now i'm not able to accept this that he doesnt likes me......i really miss him...what to do? ...

My best friends comes to me for advice for dating and I love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, 1'm 17, I have been in love with my best friend for 2 years now, but I know he doesn't see me that same way. Today he came to me to ask for advice on this fake as anything chick and how to make her go out with him instead of her n...

Am I his rebound?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy for 3 months now, and when I met him he just got out of a 2 year relationship 1 or 2 months before. He ne'er talks about his past relationship and I think they broke up because he moved away for a new job. I inquired about what ...

Where does one draw the line between romantic super boyfriend and needy co-dependant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - How can I be there for my girlfriend without being smothering? I'm having trouble, I want to be supportive, Loving, caring, sensitive, and kind to my girlfriend. I Love her very much and I also like doting on her. I like giving her attention an...

Is he pushing me away beausec he doesn't want me in his life anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Myself and an old flame from high school recently began talking again, for 1 1/2 yrs now. He and I have gotten close for the last 7-8 mos, we didnt have sex until about 10 months into the relationship. He is in the Army and about to deploy to Afg. ...

I feel like I shouldn't like him but I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I've know this guy for like 4 years now and we've grown to be good friends. He is not what I would call the best looking but even though I've tried not to, I've grown attracted to him and I can't stop thinking about him. He is homeschooled so I only ...

My boyfriend is way too controlling and refuses to let go of me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been together like 9yrs now. In the beginning as always perfect..now its not bad but hes gotten way to jealous. He dosent want me hanging with my girls who he met me with. He dislikes my family all of a sudden, he even hates that I ...

He doesn't want to give up his party ways for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I'm going to make my best effort to make a long story short... My boyfiend (21) and I (20) had been together for three years. Everything seemed to be going well..however, once he turned 21 he started wanting to go out and party with his friends. In ...

Last Chance For Tickets!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I'm in high school, and my boyfriend asked me to the winter formal dance. It's this Saturday, and we have everything planned (what we're going to wear, where we're going to eat, etc). The thing is, tomorrow is the last day you can buy tickets. I b...

I'm finally with my GF, but after fending off her vicious ex and a lot of drama in the past. How do I heal myself after all this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Alright, here is a quick background of myself. I moved around a lot as a kid, (parents divorced when I was 6), learned all about marriages from the multiple ones my mother has been part of. I am an intellectual, a man of principle, and an ...

After break up is it too soon for me to go out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I hate beeing single for valentines day and I just broke up with my old boyfriend of almost 3 months 2 days ago because he stopped talking to me for weeks a time and we not once saw eachother outside school or in school for that matter :/ and I knew ...

How do I get him to call me baby to my face

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I'm in a new relationship and this is my first. I don't know how to get my boyfriend to say he likes me face to face or to call me "baby" like he does through texting. I can't bring myself to say it so what should I do?...

No erection for the first time ever! What does she think of me now, and will this affect our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - I just want to start by giving you a little background on myself before I ask the main question. I am a 31 year old very sexual person. I am almost constantly horny and when I don't have a girlfriend, I usually end up having sex 2-3 times a week ...

How can I ask his friends if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I really like one of my guy friends, and I want to know if he likes me. I was thinking about asking one of his friends who he likes, but his friend that im closest to likes me so i cant ask him and his other friends im pretty close to too but i dont ...